Zhang Zetian was invited to be a guest on a parent-child program. When the head of the program asked Zhang Zetian: "Why do you want to marry Liu Zhang Zetian, who is 20 years older than her, answered: "First, the two people have similar values. Secondly, Liu pair is very careful and will take care of people." Some netizens expressed their disbelief in Zhang Zetian's reply. After all, it is doubtful that Zhang Zetian can calmly praise Liu after Liu cheated on her. What does the difference in values between Zhang Zetian and Liu mean?
To discuss this topic, we naturally need to define "values" first. I personally agree with the interpretation that values are the ranking of all the important dimensions of life. Everyone's resources are limited, but their needs and desires are unlimited, which inevitably requires us to make frequent choices. The set of principles that everyone follows when choosing is my own values. Many people mention the "three differences" when asked to choose a spouse. Of course, the gift of questioning two people with different values is joyful, enduring and useless.
But do Zhang Zetian and Liu really have different values? The young couple has shown that they are undoubtedly an example of a loving couple in the entertainment and business world. Whenever she looks at Liu, Zhang Zetian always looks full of love and can feel the happiness in her eyes. When she is not working on weekdays, Liu is at home with her children, and Zhang Zetian also basks in the daily life of her parents and children from time to time. Moreover, Liu is also very good to her employees, once cooking for everyone by herself, and is totally passionate about men.
When Zhang Zetian and Liu got married, many people said he married a rich family, and some people speculated that it was for money. However, no matter what the outside world said, Zhang Zetian always kept silent and did not respond. On the contrary, he used his own happiness to prove that I married Liu not for money, but for love. After the incident, several people were waiting to see Zhang Zetian's joke, how her dream of being rich was dashed. But Zhang Zetian was wise, she did not choose to divorce Liu.
When they got married, Liu made all the property pre-marital. Within ten years, if Zhang Zetian divorced, he wouldn't get any money, only a meaningful dollar. Sometimes the rules of wealthy families go far beyond the imagination of those who want to marry into one.
If I had to choose, I would rather believe that Zhang Zetian married Liu for the money than for the difference in values. Many people share the same values, such as the old man playing chess on the street, the auntie dancing in the square, the lottery station of the Jedi Master ...... end up together? On the contrary, the marriage of interest linkage is more weather-resistant, just like Zhang Zetian and Liu!