Being able to love is itself a kind of luck, a kind of happiness, and a kind of state. If you are loved, it is the greatest favor of life for you!
I love you, and it has nothing to do with you! I don’t hold any prejudice against you because of your hatred or dissatisfaction towards me. I don’t favor you because of your kindness and care for me. Loving you, this kind of love is a part of the great love of the universe. Loving you means loving the heaven, earth, nature, and all things. Of course, it is also equivalent to loving yourself.
Worldly love is based on a possessive and demanding mentality, forcibly occupying, regardless of other people's feelings, just to satisfy the various desires in the heart. Or they are greedy for the temptation of external beauty, lust takes over the heart, reason is absent, introspection is not retained, and the original intention is not retained. Momentary impulsiveness leads to repeated mistakes, which ultimately end in regret, regret and self-blame. Or they pretend to be great and noble with a selfish mentality. If they say they love you, they will protect you for the rest of their lives. Everything must be subject to their own arrangements. The so-called beating is affection and scolding is love, but it naturally translates into being able to use verbal violence against you at will. , strong violence, cold violence and other vicious behaviors. All behaviors that may seem unreasonable to the outside world are regarded as reasonable and reasonable expressions of loving you. A perverted mentality thinks that one is an example for others to follow.
If there is a trace of selfishness, a trace of determination, or a moment of persistence in the heart, it is not considered itself, there will be deviations, and they will all be labeled with the obvious label of "selfish desire". Based on this, you will have many behaviors in life that cannot strictly be called true love. For example, when a person is angry, he will blurt out many impulsive words that are harsh and hurtful. He will explain that the reason why I use this way of communication is actually to wake you up in your heart. I am doing it for your own good. Only through this Only in this way can the problems encountered at the moment be solved smoothly.
The higher a person's voice is, sometimes it is to cover up the hypocrisy and unreal side of his heart, and also to prevent others from easily seeing his subtle emotional changes. After all, I just can’t let you accurately guess my true inner thoughts. I can only point out others, and I cannot allow others to point out myself.
On the other hand, loving someone is not out of personal selfishness, nor is it to satisfy inner vanity, nor is it intended to be seen by others. Rather, it comes out of one's own instinct, out of a very pure and simple psychology and behavioral awareness, and out of the noble qualities inherent in human beings. Loving you does not require any conditions, loving you does not mean anything, without any subjective and one-sided thoughts. If I love you, I will devote myself wholeheartedly to loving you, even if I give up my own life, I will be willing to do so. I am lucky enough to give my life to you for the great love, and I think that I am integrated with you, life, and the universe. Life never ends, it continues to live on, and continues to pass on.
Loving you has transcended the material level. The realm of body, mind and soul has already risen and will tolerate everything about you. I will love your unreasonableness, I will accept your imperfections, I will love your dependence on me, and I will love every little thing in your daily life. I will do my best to protect you, care for you and love you in the best way. No matter you are cheerful and lively, or introverted and quiet; no matter you are eccentric, or gentle and polite; no matter you are lukewarm to me, or clingy and dependent, I will always treat you with my original intention, love you with my heart, and treat you with sincerity. you.
If I see any unhappiness or dissatisfaction in your life, I will immediately reflect on my own problems and make unconditional self-change. Through you, life becomes more perfect. If I see you smiling and dancing with joy from time to time, I will feel happy and moved for you in my heart, because I firmly believe that you can feel the joy of life everywhere.
This is not to show your own greatness. In front of life, you are really insignificant. In front of the truth, you are really ignorant. On the road to pursuing the universal path, I dare not say whether the trivial content I understand and master is unprecedented or whether it is positioned as a sage standard. Everything we do is to transform a new life and restore the true origin of life. Love you so much is actually included in it.
When I love you, please don’t say thank you for being able to love you. Instead, I really want to say to you, thank you for being able to achieve me. If one day I can't feel love, don't know what love is, don't know what giving is, what taking is, what possession is, what selflessness is, then that will be the biggest regret in life and the biggest lack of personality.
I hope that everyone can break free from all the shackles in life, and that you and I can feel the breath of freedom in life. Just as my love for you has nothing to do with you, loving you will also make you feel that it has nothing to do with me. Irrelevant realms and experiences.