Many older people like to dance after retirement. It is a good way to exercise. But now, there are some changes in square dancing in some cities. It is no longer just for health. Some even participate in competitions, while others have become ballroom dances to develop feelings between the opposite sex. Ms. Chen, 55, danced as a result, leading to the breakup of her family.
I just retired at 55 and felt I had nothing to do, so I went downstairs and did square dancing. We have a big square downstairs with lots of dancers. I joined the square dance team through a friend. During that time, I would square dance every night in order to exercise my body, and it was also very good for my health. My wife was home alone because I hadn't retired yet, and sometimes it made me angry to watch me put there to eat dinner and dance square dancing, but I was really fascinated by square dancing at the time, so I didn't think about my wife's feelings. We have a big square downstairs, so we have a dance team too. There are competitions with each other and ballroom dancing. After I had been to a couple of square dances, a man who seemed to be in his forties reached out and asked me to be him. At the time, I did get a little confused, so I agreed.
In this way, I once again danced the National Standard, a dance for both men and women. The other party was a gentleman and never made any extra moves, so I felt relieved. Of course, I didn't say that to my husband. Later, my husband complained more and more about me. To avoid quarreling with him, I often went to the square to dance. Time and again, I made the acquaintance of a dance partner. He understood my husband's situation and kept convincing us. I thought he was really nice. That is, I trusted him too much. He took advantage of him. One day, he answered the phone while dancing. He said his father had been in a car accident and had been hospitalized. Then he asked if I had money. He had no money. He turned to me to write an IOU. At that time, I thought it should be all my friends who should help me. I temporarily transferred him 50,000 without even asking him to call for the IOU. As a result, he disappeared and never came back. Later I found out that no one in the dance team knew him. I really suffered a lot.
The $50,000 was put down by me and my wife, along with $50,000 more. When my wife realized that the money was low, he asked me about it, and I told me all about it. As a result, my wife was hospitalized out of anger. He said he thought I had gone to sports, but I ended up going out with Xiao Xian Rou. Now my wife is about to get a divorce. I live and die and I am very sorry about that. Ms. Chen was actually cheated on because she had certain ideas about men that led to her being taken advantage of. Many women square dance. Sesame Jun has no objection to this. It is possible to dance appropriately for the body, but ballroom dancing is indeed beyond the grasp of many people. Once they were in the mood, those who were interested would use them. The loss is not worth it. .
There is nothing wrong with older people dancing ballroom dance at any time, but in the process of dancing ballroom dance, our older people carry their own home dances to avoid doing ballroom dance by themselves. If there are unnecessary hassles and misunderstandings, then our seniors should not choose to dance with the opposite sex when choosing a partner. Even if our seniors do want to cross dance with the opposite sex, we must first ask for it. Getting the consent and support of the wife is the only right.