One, people live a face, trees live a skin, in order to introduce people and parents still have to give this money. This kind of thing seems to be that two strangers meet and get to know each other. Actually, it was an acquaintance of the two families who set it up in the middle. This contact person may be his own parents or an elder he is familiar with. In short, after the blind date, you should tell your family whether the blind date is good or not. It is no problem for a girl like this to run after dinner. When the man goes back, he will definitely not speak well of this girl, and may even implicate the woman's parents that the other person's tutor is lacking.
In this way, the girl's reputation in the outside world will not only be damaged, but even her parents' face will be a little hard. Parents who are worried about their children's marriage are mostly retired, and will go back to the park for a walk and dance square dances with other familiar people. If this matter is made public, someone will definitely make sour remarks in front of their parents. At this time, there may be conflicts between parents, not only angry with their own health, but also may lose a group of playful friends.
I don't think it's a little serious. There are no more circles for the elderly than for the young. When you see upset, you avoid it or choose not to listen. When older children hear others say that their children will be angry, so this 200-yuan meal is special? Worthless? Since the other party wants AA, let's do it. After all, I didn't lose anything by eating it myself, and I agreed before eating it. There is no need to trouble my life for irrelevant people, especially because of such a small amount of money.
Second, don't say anything when you go home. Even if the introducer asks, you should say that they don't get along and save face for each other. After returning home, don't complain about this wonderful blind date. When the middleman introduces himself to his parents, he must say it is hype. He can't wait to describe this man as a species in the world. If he starts to vomit when he comes home, it is tantamount to provoking the relationship between the middleman and his parents in disguise, and it will not be worth the candle. After all, people are well-intentioned, and there is no need to make everyone so ugly.
If you really don't want to say something against your will, you can tell your parents that this person doesn't agree with some things, and the other person feels that he is not worthy of some aspects. If both sides don't like each other, there is no need to get to know each other better. Although it's not each other's dish, it's ok to be ordinary friends. If the middleman is still setting a trap, show your cards to your parents, but don't say the other person's fault in front of the middleman. Everyone needs to be mature.
In this dinner, the man didn't do anything out of line. He just doesn't like each other and doesn't want to bear the expenses of each other. The problem is not big. If you go home and publicize how bad each other is, what will happen to them? The world is small and big, and who knows if we will meet again on a specific occasion. Giving others face is also giving yourself a way out. Embarrassment is the only way for adults to get along.
Third, the first blind date, no need to eat. It's not bad to have a cup of coffee and go to a park, which is much better than having dinner together. I always think it's unnecessary to go to dinner on the first blind date. You can go to the park first, or have a cup of coffee, which is a cheaper and slightly better place, so that both sides don't have to pay too much, and even if they don't AA, they won't feel a little reluctant. The most important thing is that the time to go to these places is generally not too long. If both sides feel that they want to know more, it's not too late to go to dinner.
Otherwise, this meal will be very embarrassing. Eat a meal for at least an hour. It seems rude not to eat for an hour, and you will feel very tired when chatting. When paying the bill, you have to think about how to give the money to the other party if the other party asks. If AA seems to feel impolite, it's awkward to do it and annoying to say it. It is best to get rid of these at the beginning.
Finally: I really don't know why that girl ran away. 200 yuan for a meal is nothing to run. Who among modern people has a daily salary less than that of 200 yuan, even if it is paid in full?