I remember her saying to me that she didn't want to take marriage as a kind of belonging, that it wasn't a contract that would tie two people together, and that the marriage she was pursuing was the one in which no one was bound to anyone. In her eyes, there is no older women this word, there is just, I'm happy to be single. But the mother of Xinzi does not think so, she is a "man when the marriage, the woman when the marriage" active practitioners, just want to quickly Xinzi this pot of water to splash out.
Xinzi said that she and her mom are more and more live not a channel to go, each can not see each other. She told her mother not to run to the corner of the park all day to dance, disturbing and humiliating, obviously still young and have to put themselves into the pile of big women; her mother on her all day stay at home to play with the computer, on the search for the object is not the slightest bit on the behavior of the scoffing nose. On weekends, she likes to sleep until the sun is on her ass, but her mother dragged her up at 6:00 a.m. to buy groceries with her, and her mother introduced her to a blind date, either a rich and powerful old man or a rigid and uninteresting civil servant.
In the end, Xinzi sighed and said, "My mom must be the reincarnation of the old Buddha to torment me!
Yes, I can't help but wonder why there are so many conflicts between the two generations.
Similar complaints between mother and daughter, mother and son, grandchildren and grandchildren due to mutual lack of understanding and conflict triggered I saw a lot of friends in the circle, things are not big, but the disturbing people upset, which has become a lot of families in China's persistent problems.
We all know that there is a thing called "generation gap", between generations because of the different times, growing environment and education is also different, which will also produce differences in lifestyle, hobbies, aesthetic tendencies and life values, etc.
Now, we can see that there is a difference between the two.
Nowadays, young people are running between the unit and the family from nine to five, while our fathers and mothers may be in the field when they were young to build blocks of soil, earning points; nowadays, people like to have time to take a trip or hold a digital product busy with socializing, the previous people can only play chess, read a book; the previous people think that the clean and simple on the good, the beauty of the present is full of a variety of colorful heavy metal elements; the previous people to keep a one-stop-shop, and the previous people to keep a one-stop-shop, and the previous people to keep a one-stop-shop, and the previous people to keep a one-stop-shop. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey, and it was a long time ago that I was in the middle of a long journey.
I'm just stating the real differences between the two generations, and I'm not trying to point out who's right and who's wrong. Every generation is different, every era is different, and there is certainly no need to criticize the past or the present through tinted glasses - there is no right or wrong.
The life of individuals in different forms to continue, and therefore appear to be colorful, between generations, appear in the values of life, lifestyle, aesthetics and interest in the differences, conflicts, need our tolerance and understanding, you have your personality, the father and generation and why not have their feelings it!
From bicycles, watches, sewing machines to today's TV, refrigerators, washing machines, the old three to the new three, recorded not only the traces of the development of the times, and more, it is a generation of memories and feelings.
I remember when I was a child, we like to play the game is hide and seek, the eagle catches the chickens, jumping ribbons, jumping squares, rolling iron ring, grow up a little bit, learned to pull out the bird's nest, play marbles, the most interesting to count the "war", a group of people divided into two groups, the two partners, one when the horse, one when the rider, a back a good position, shouted "start! The most interesting thing is to "fight", a group of people divided into two groups, two partners, one as a horse, one as a rider, a back one stand in a good position, shouted "war" to the enemy camp rushed over to start the fight, or kicking, or tearing with their hands, you can also use the body to hit each other, and finally to see which party to stay on the "horseback" on the number of people on which a team to win. At that time, although I was not strong, but not small, legs are long, where they kicked me, the enemy is not close to me, I will be a whirlwind leg to kick him down with a horse, people fall over, to meet my small vanity, not to mention how happy. This simple game brings me a lot of joy, sometimes we play an afternoon.
Nowadays, children are more willing to look for the battlefield in online games, you can often see a row of Internet cafes sitting in a row of schoolchildren, five five a group, the screen is their respective "heroes" in the killing, their mouths are also shouting, but I can not understand, but look at the way they are concentrating on the virtual game, it is estimated that they also bring them a lot of fun! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that!
This is the difference between the two generations in the way of entertainment, it is difficult to say who is good and who is bad, but many years later, these are memories, deep in the heart, belonging to their own good.
Maybe now catch the fashion, the pursuit of fashion, think we stand in the fashion trend on the tip of the mouth, a number of years later, will also be our next generation ridiculed can not keep up with the times, relegated to the old antique. But what the heck, we have our memories, we have our feelings, it's enough, after all, that is also the best of us.
When I see Xin Zi again, I may say to her, "No matter what, you wantonly flaunt in your years, and she has not been the protagonist of their own youthful years".
A generation has a generation of feelings, why seek common ground, try to put down preconceptions, life will be bright.