To put it another way, give you three representative cases of extramarital affairs. Together, we will see how the extramarital affair really happened.
Case one, a woman called "wounded kitty" message, told her story. She was born in 83. She and her husband came to Zhejiang to work, she worked as a part-time worker in a garment factory, where she was fed and housed. Her husband delivered vegetables to people and drove a night car! They see each other at most 2 times a week. With the "iron law" of marriage, this age group of women is the most prone to extramarital affairs. The most important thing to remember is that you can't be a good person if you don't want to be, and you can't be a good person if you don't want to be!
Sure enough, a month later, Ms. Li "hopelessly" fell in love with a handsome young man in the factory. Although the age difference between the two is 9 years, but Ms. Li does not care, more care about the reality of the young man has a girlfriend. In their relationship, they each take what they want, and Ms. Li admits that she just wants to experience two different kinds of love, and has no intention of abandoning her family. She thought that as long as her husband didn't know, there would be no repercussions. So the affair got out of hand, and after about 10 months of dating, Ms. Li found out in a flash that she was pregnant!
While her husband forgave her in the end, the operation cost tens of thousands of dollars and the second child might not be wanted! And the young man who needs to take responsibility has disappeared! After this incident, Ms. Li's husband and wife will never be able to return to the same year.
Case two, the main character is a prospective groom, surnamed Zhang, 28 years old. Zhang junior college for three years, nothing learned, but graduated from the school talked about a "lively and lovely" girlfriend. After graduation, the two have been in love off and on for five years, but never married. It is not that Zhang is not willing, but Zhang's girlfriend does not want to get married too early. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said.
Eventually, under the strong urging of Zhang's family, the two for the marriage license, ready to eleven wedding ceremony. But I did not expect, in the small Zhang dreaming of the groom, his girlfriend backtracked, dead, do not want to get married, asked for a divorce! It turns out that his girlfriend has also been intermittent and others have had several relationships, never completely cut off the relationship. A month after the two were licensed, the girlfriend repeatedly cheated on her ex-boyfriend, playing the bride-to-be extramarital affair, playing with her ex-boyfriend to play out true love!
In the end, Xiao Zhang not only did not get his wife, but also was wearing a hat! And has sent out 120,000 dowry, became a love rival squandered assets, and finally not necessarily back!
Case 3, this is an emotional outpouring written by a person who does not know her exact age. Through the description of a few lines of text, she is a middle-aged woman! According to her, she has always loved square dancing and is the ultimate square dancing fanatic. Once the community organized a fellowship competition for several neighborhoods, and her dance partner was a divorced man in his 30s.
It was this man who was adept at attacking the heart with flowery language, one sister at a time, and sweet-talking to a fault! Facts have also proved that, even if the family is stable middle-aged women, there is a risk of derailment, and once it happens, the IQ is close to 0! The two secretly dating for 9 months after the middle-aged woman's behavior was finally discovered by her husband. But at this time, already she has spent more than 20,000 dollars on that man! Although the husband forgave her and eventually did not divorce, but the couple's relationship is not likely to be as good as before.
The above three cases, from the case can be seen, extramarital affair is not divided into age and gender. It doesn't matter whether you have money or not, when it's time to come, you're not paying attention a little bit, it's coming! There are times when a woman caught in an extramarital affair is much more complicated than a man