From the girlhood of the sinus to the infinite yearning for a better love, to hold hands with his son under the moonwalking and I, and then into the city even if the days of firewood, salt, vinegar, vinegar and tea, smoke and fire, goddesses have always been on the romance of the heart.
So today Ada shares an article about romance, telling you what "romance" is, and remember to treat her well.
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The Egyptians said that being crucified is not romantic, but walking on the cross yourself is. Then let's take a look at what "fake romance" is. Fake Romance:
"Love you love enough, just want to accompany you around; hold your hand tightly, accompany you in the wind and rain; the end of the world is no regrets, never give up forever; entangled in the white head, a lifetime with you. I love you for a long time! ""Every minute and every second I put you in my heart, wondering if everything is alright with you now. May your smile always hang on your face, and your mood embrace the sunshine every moment, happiness will last as long as time, as long as you want me to be by your side! ""There is a kind of melody called notes, that is the happiness you give, moment by moment in my memory floating, so that my romantic talent, playing a beautiful picture of love a, darling, in this beautiful season, you are my most valuable life wealth. ""There is a rainbow in my eyes, that is your beautiful and kind heart; there is an emotion in my heart, that is the thought of you. Know that I am thinking of you? "
All of the above is in Baidu mountain search "romantic" popped out of the confession line. I don't know what you think, but I think from start to finish is a low-grade literary accent, pretentious, pompous and hypocritical, frivolous and exaggerated. Maybe it would have been easier to say, "What's up, girl?" It's easier to say that than to say these words. Here I have to complain about the early Taiwanese romance dramas. The directors thought this was a drama with a lot of power. When it comes to "love story time", every sentence and every word even wants to slow down even the punctuation. It was supposed to be a love story, but I was so disgusted that I wanted to change the channel.
So I understand why a lot of women like to watch this kind of movie. They don't need to experience the romance, they just want to have fun. Otherwise, how to maintain social relations while square dancing~True romance is not memorizing love words, much less pretending to memorize love words. True romance is a realm of existence. There are also three general levels. The first one is the one that is not the same as the "self", "ego", "superego", and the other one is the same as the "self", "superego", and the other one is the same as the "self".
1 The first stage of romance is to get rid of material things
. That is, to get rid of the dependence on the material, take off the gorgeous coat, real and delicate romance. Looking back at the trajectory of our lives, we can see that most people will be more romantic in their youth than in their adulthood, and look forward to romance more. A wild rose and a box of chocolates can excite us for days. But as we grow older, we become more vulgar by the day. All we think about is each other's SIZE and this month's paycheck. The embarrassment and indignities of life dilute the sentiment and make people numb and materialistic. The more expensive the gift, the better it is, something that there is no way to hide and something that is beyond absurd. While the media plays a role in this, it is at best a co-causal factor. It seems that beautiful love can only exist on hard drives, except in yachts and villas.
"I don't love the world, I love the people" is romantic because it is light on material. The metaphor is that love is greater than money and status. "The businessman is more interested in profit than in parting" is not romantic because it is more materialistic. Metaphorically speaking, it is a metaphor for the lack of love. "People are thinner than yellow flowers" is romantic because it is light on material things. Metaphorically, it's a metaphor for being unaffected. "Fat head and big belly" is not romantic because it is materialistic. Metaphorically, it is about being wealthy and profit-oriented. "Wanderlust" is romantic because it is light on material things. "Luxury trip to Dubai" is not romantic because it is materialistic. "Two people sharing a pie" is romantic because it is light on material things. "Two people order a table of food" is not romantic because it is materialistic. "Sending roses on eve" is romantic because it is light on material things. "Send money on the night of Tanabata" is not romantic because it is materialistic. "Poor boy risked picking flowers to send the girl" romantic, because it is light material. "The rich man sends a carload of roses to the girl" is not romantic, because it is heavy material. But "sending roses" is not as romantic as "writing love poems". Because the former is more material than the latter. "Two people go hand in hand to pick a wedding ring" is not as romantic as "two people go hand in hand to look at the stars". Because the former is more materialistic than the latter. "A couple of violinists playing in front of a sinking ship" is romantic because it is light on material things, and it is also a kind of sad romance. "Going to a concert at the Sydney Opera House" is not romantic because it is materialistic. Roughly speaking, Socrates is more romantic than philosophers. Confucius and Mencius are more romantic than scholars of Chinese literature. Sakyamuni is more romantic than Buddhist scholars. So, romance is a spiritual temperament, which does not depend on your wealth, fame and status. Worldliness is materialistic, romance is spiritual. Only by detaching yourself from the material plane can you touch the real romance.
2 Detachment
I've seen some reachers. Most of them are rigid, sheepish, blindly follow the trend, east to knit knit. See others sing love songs, so also sing love songs. See others set up candles, so also set up candles. I can't wait to not think, directly take your chat records to copy to the girls. Ideas are confined, lost creativity, become a slave to the spirit. As the second level of the realm of romance, reflecting the ability to think independently and creativity.
"Lovers say love words in the snow" romance. Because of the touching and feeling. "Newlyweds taking vows at a wedding" is not romantic. Because it is too intentional, just for the sake of acting. "A pair of lovers kissing in the street on their way out" is romantic. Because it's improvised. "A group of lovers kissing in the street at the time of farewell" is not romantic, because when everyone imitates it, it becomes an artifact. "Taking wedding photos in a crater" is romantic. Because it only happens once in a lifetime. "Taking wedding photos according to a template" is not romantic. Because, there is no novelty, everything is customary, just to go through the motions. "One night of love" is romantic, because it is not expected. "Cave flower candle" is not romantic, because that is the ritual of the week. "A photographer capturing a beautiful woman on the street" is romantic because it is a moment of eternity. It's true that from time to time, good inspiration comes out to create true romance. In this regard, Linghu Chong is a good example. If he and the little sister together, it is at best a family ethics drama. Life is as natural as the grass growing on the levees and the leaves growing on the treetops. If he was with Yi Lin, it would be a story of a handsome man and a beautiful woman who defied the feudal system and overcame their in-laws. But precisely he and his hostile character Ren Yingying together, good and evil love, stone broken, ancient romance. Romance for romance's sake is not romance. To emphasize, not being limited by dogma doesn't mean deviating from the norm. Just for example, love is more romantic than marriage. But it doesn't mean that a romantic person can only fall in love and not get married. Or that Ta ceases to be romantic after marriage. Similarly, a language teacher is less romantic than a poet. An art teacher is less romantic than a painter. A policeman, a civil servant, an administrator is not as romantic as a killer, a hustler, a gambler. Although there are no rules, but too rigid and pedantic, contrary to the essence of romance. If Romeo and Juliet succumbed to the feudal dogma, each of them to live in peace, there can not be such a romantic classic. It is precisely they dare to break the bad habits, do not follow the trend, the pursuit of self, only to achieve this heirloom.