Because it is the weekend, people are mostly crowded at home, there are few pedestrians on the street, and some shops are deserted. I'm shopping with my wife, going in and out of the mall, and buying gifts for her 3 1 birthday.
There are many shops and all kinds of goods, but the prices you like are expensive and the cheap ones are really unsatisfactory, so I visited many shops and returned empty-handed. My wife looked at me and asked, "Are you still going shopping?" Although I don't like shopping with women like all men, today's situation is a bit special. I also suggested buying her a present. I must restrain myself and say, "Let's go shopping again."
When I passed a shop, my wife's girlfriend was on duty. Is a girl who loves to write poems. They like to exchange small gifts with each other, such as greeting cards, handicrafts and sometimes poems. Not long ago, we hung a wind chime card from her at home, on which many affectionate poems were written. When the wind blows, it makes a tinkling sound, which is very pleasing to the ear. I think they are like children who don't grow up. So, I took my wife and walked quickly to the front of the store.
In a shopping mall, my wife took a fancy to a pair of leather shoes, and the price was 178 yuan. I said, buy this pair. My wife bargained with the seller, it was too expensive, and finally she didn't buy it. Out of the shop, she said to me, "I only have one hundred dollars on me." "You are really good." I sneered. She said, "Don't forget, we are still in debt." Not long ago, we bought a house and renovated it, but we owe a lot of debts, but we can't be too wronged. I know my wife likes birthday presents, but she is more distressed by money.
We still haven't bought anything satisfactory. When I got home, I passed by the cake room and suggested buying a cake. Ask, 40 yuan a box, my wife is too expensive, and finally only bought a palm-sized cake as her birthday present.
She said, "It's not a big birthday anyway, that's enough." He added, "I appreciate your kindness." It makes me laugh and cry. To tell the truth, I came home with depression.
As soon as the daughter opened the door, she immediately reported to her mother that an aunt had sent a package of things. When the wife saw it, it was a gift wrapped in a box of colored paper, which read: Happy birthday to you. Li-a girl who loves to write poems.
My wife smiled like a child, and the laughter echoed in the room. I'm infected and my eyes are wet. We are all surrounded by a feeling called happiness. ...
It was the warmest day in my memory.
Appreciate the warmth and beauty of mankind 2 -0 1-
The world of mortals is a stranger, and everyone comes and goes with their own steps to measure the vastness of the road ahead. They all have a childlike innocence that has to be strong, and feel that life is hard-won. They all have to grit their teeth and stand up straight.
If it is not bitter, how can it be sweet? If it weren't for vicissitudes of life, where did it come from? Where did you come from if you didn't travel across mountains and rivers? If I hadn't walked until the water stood in my way, I wouldn't have sat there watching the rising clouds.
The so-called strong people are all people who run with tears; The so-called luck is that you have to make unremitting efforts; Courage means admitting the coolness of the world and loving it deeply. The so-called silent smile is actually silent pain.
-02-
Born as a man, you have never worked hard once and for all, and you have been suffering constantly; Living in this university, I have never got a diploma.
The so-called infinite scenery is at a perilous peak, the so-called persistence is victory, and the so-called road to life is long, and it is long in Xiu Yuan.
People live a lifetime, we should hold a perfect attitude and accept an imperfect life; We should be at a loss on the way forward and have the ability to heal wounds at any time.
There is no perfect score in the answer sheet of life. No matter how hard you rack your brains, no matter how hard you try, you can't hand in a perfect answer sheet.
-03-
Crossing mountains and wading through water, you will always know that there is no road in the world, and more people will become roads when they walk. Along the way, I always understand:
Only by doing it at sunrise every day and dancing at sunset can we achieve a life without regrets; Only when the moon is white and the wind is clear can people be as calm as chrysanthemums.
A sea of people drifted, and it was foggy and turned several times. A lot of things will be lost if you can't see clearly, and it will hurt if you see clearly.
All beings are like a grain of dust, erratic. On the surface, they are their own masters. In fact, the mighty wind determines its direction and walks in the rivers and lakes.
-04-
The world of mortals is a hundred years old, sometimes it is windy, sometimes it rains, all kinds of disappointments and all kinds of unhappiness. As for the good times, they fly around like rabbits and birds and are fleeting.
Live to the end, just like a tired passer-by in the twilight. Looking around, can you not sigh that life is like a dream, and can you not regret that life flies like a dream?
Through the ages, Gankun, the clouds are everywhere, and the time is so deep that the left hand holds the beauty and the right hand holds the sadness.
Years are so deep, no matter you are a powerful person or a civilian, on the road of life, too much rain and mud, too much mud and sand are always on the stage.
-05-
Life is a swift river, no matter how deep or shallow it is. Be persistent and be fully prepared. I don't blame the ruthless waves of the world, and I don't blame people for being involuntarily in the rivers and lakes. We should always believe that:
One day, we can sail directly to Yun Fan. When we cross the bridge, things may always change.
I think, people live a lifetime, the highest state is:
Have a sunny heart, warm and affectionate,
Standing like a tree,
As tenacious as grass, they grow taller in the spring breeze.
With a clear mind like a clear spring.
-06-
If I can, I sincerely pray that my life journey can be like this:
Walking, a auspicious cloud floats by, and the flowers of life bloom; Walking, I met a beautiful and gorgeous person and then walked in the rain.
Unconsciously, I crossed this bridge called "life". At the other end of the bridge, there is blue silk, and at the other end of the bridge, there is white hair. In the middle of the bridge, above the green mountains and green waters, the wind blows gently and the white clouds sway leisurely.
The rain in late autumn, accompanied by the bleak autumn wind, gives birth to a burst of coolness, not just a little cold.
In the last two months, I have been a little overwhelmed by work and feel a thousand kinds of helplessness and bitterness. When others are sipping coffee and fragrant tea in an elegant space, admiring a pool of sparkling silks and satins in the autumn wind under the moonlight, pretending to be Miss Jiao with her husband gently and angrily, in order to win more care from her husband and go back to my parents' warm nest to relive the sweetness of coquetry, I am bound by a series of numbers and words to become a mechanical operator. Even in my dreams, I can't see the spring flowers and the autumn moon.
One evening at sunset, my heart couldn't help but throb when I saw my mother-in-law's bent back. My mother-in-law is 72 years old and hasn't put down her job yet. My mother-in-law has a monthly pension of 1000 yuan and has her own house. She could have lived a very comfortable life, but she is still working. Every time I visit her, she will complain that it will affect her work and resolutely refuse us to buy her a gift. However, her endless words and lingering complex when I left will make me want to cry.
My father-in-law died early, leaving my mother-in-law alone, and none of the three children satisfied her. Except for her husband, one was laid off and the other retired. What she said to me the most: "I earned more when I was alive, and I left more for my children after I died." I have advised her to live in my house many times, and her only sentence is: "I will go again when I can't move." This reminds me of the tragic scene of parents and children in Bocongtang, who were abused or abused by their parents. I can't help feeling unprecedented joy, warmth and happiness. I don't know if I was moved by my mother-in-law or infected by her mother-in-law. Whenever I encounter difficulties and am unhappy, I always take my mother-in-law as an example, and I will overcome and solve difficulties.
When my mother-in-law was a child, a fire at home took her parents' lives, and all the property at home was burned to ashes. Later, with the help of good people, she graduated from Changchun Technical School to support national construction and left her hometown in Shenyang not far away to live in Luoyang for a long time. When I was a child, I experienced vicissitudes, and my mother-in-law's determined character was formed at that time. My brother died more than ten years ago, and only my sister died during the Spring Festival last year. My sister is my mother-in-law's only spiritual support. My mother-in-law will send some money to my sister more or less on holidays. Now my sister is gone. After receiving the money, my sister's daughter and her husband's cousin will call her husband in tears: "Cousin, how is your period?" Although I miss her very much, I dare not visit her for fear of revealing clues and ruining my mother-in-law's hope.
Every time I encounter difficulties that I can't solve in my life, my mother-in-law comes to my mind first. At the end of last year, my husband and I were incompetent and lost money in business. Later, when I met something else, I needed money badly, but I had no money in my hand. Really helpless. Husband told her mother-in-law that this time, her mother-in-law was really angry. Probably criticized my husband, and later helped us solve the urgent need. I'm ashamed too, but I can't help it. I can only accept it as a lesson.
People say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, and my mother-in-law and I are better than mother and daughter. Every time I see my mother-in-law, I have endless thoughts. I am her best listener, and she is willing to listen to me. My mother-in-law will tell me new stories every time, and the old stories will be told to me countless times. I know my mother-in-law's psychological loneliness, and I am deeply impressed by her persistent work spirit, so I am willing to accompany her on her spiritual journey.
There will be some friction between my mother-in-law and me, but it's just the rain in Mao Mao. A little more rain will make it sunny.
The rain in late autumn is still falling, and there is more smog. The trees and houses in the distance began to blur. Street lamps and neon lights outside the window turn life into another state. The rain is more charming in the light, and the sky is about to dusk. Life has changed greatly. I won't change the rules because of a person's needs. In order to survive, I have to do what I don't want to do. In order to live, I have to give up my beautiful scenery. My work ended with the sound of rain. Tomorrow, maybe Wan Li will be clear, maybe it will be full of flowers, or it will remain the same. Flowers bloom and fall several times, and the world is warm and cold.