In A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Baoyu is called Qingruqing. He is a weirdo in the world. He goes against the bright road of official career and stays away from erotic troubles. He is a clean person.
Jing Huan once said that there are so many wealthy families in the world, how many dandy boys and wandering women, frivolous prodigal sons and untalented ladies have done so many romantic affairs. There are so many stories about this kind of thing, and I don’t know when I will be able to tell them all.
However, Baoyu, the one I love you is the most promiscuous person in the world, ancient and modern. When Baoyu heard this, he was frightened, "Xian Gu, you are wrong. Although I am lazy to study and my parents discipline me, how can I dare to use obscene words?" Fairy aunt said, Baoyu, you are different from others in this word. People in the world want to sing and dance, be lustful, and have all the beauties. You are not different. You are a natural love infatuator, because you are too weird, and people in the world cannot tolerate it.
What does this mean? Baoyu's predecessor was a stone that had not entered the common world. Looking at the splendor and prosperity of the world from a distance, he naturally longed for the beauty of this world. In Jia Baoyu's body, the word "Crazy" is unique. If we make this meaning simple, it is that Jia Baoyu is a person who is infatuated with all the good things in life. Although he was born in a prosperous and beautiful world, Jia Baoyu is very, very lonely.
The strange thing about Jia Baoyu is that every one of his actions has the root of this obsession. When Sister Lin and Jia Baoyu met for the first time, he stared at Sister Lin's features and said, "This is the best sister I have ever seen." He sounded very confident. Once confirmed, this love will last a lifetime. It is her in dreams, it is her when she wakes up, and all the emotions she experiences are hers. Even the string of beads on Baochai's snow-white arms is only her sister who can wear it and touch it.
The little tip bag made by sister Lin is hidden on her body so that no one can grab it. The younger sister cried and laughed. Even though her hair was messed up, Baoyu took it to heart. The two sentences he said when he was in the most pain were all true words to Sister Lin. It's worth dying for them. I will turn into ashes to accompany you, and when you die, I will become a monk to accompany you. One sentence is that you still have to stick to your beliefs after being beaten. Beating him to death will not change his obsession. The other sentence is that even if you die after falling in love, you still have to go to the same place. Brother Bao is usually alienated in movies and TV dramas into a character who is neither male nor female, bowing and bowing. In fact, Baoyu's masculine nature is his true love and infatuation, which is as solid as a rock.
Jia Baoyu’s obsession can also be seen from another person, that is Miaoyu. Miaoyu is a deformed person who is not tolerated in the world. Everyone can't see Miaoyu, but Baoyu can see it. Many people think that although Miaoyu lived in Huocui Temple, she loved Baoyu wholeheartedly. This explanation is not as good as Baoyu's first adulteress. Jia Baoyu is a person with compassion in his heart. He even chirps when facing flowers, birds, insects and fish. What's more, when facing people, he has his own understanding and cherishment. This precious jade understands the nobility and purity of this wonderful jade from afar, and still respects it respectfully. Therefore, when Miaoyu asked someone to send him a birthday greeting card, Baoyu could thank him in return.