The two-child policy has just opened up, and then some experts jumped out to suggest that the legal age of marriage for Chinese people should be changed to 18 years old! Experts, you let 28-year-old single dog how to live? In particular, the year is approaching, the single dog on tenterhooks, another year of Shaohua flew away, did not abduct a girl home, how to face the father and mother, and how to stand up to the ancestor of the ancestors?
The Chinese mantra is "slow down, slow down", only in the pursuit of speed in the family inheritance, urging the love urge to marry, urging the marriage urge grandchildren, tirelessly bring up grandchildren, grandparents squinting old eyes, the moment can be said to be a success. However, the eldest grandson is back, seven aunts and aunts kissed, suddenly remembered an important thing: "When to get married?"
In the face of relatives and friends, neighbors and neighbors, the vast army of marriage, you realize that you are a person in the fight.
Facing relatives and friends, neighbors and neighbors, you realize that you are alone in the battle. In this "many enemies, we are few" at the end of the year in the marriage war, how do you not seek to tongue, but seek to get out of it?
Carefully analyzed, in fact, the same is to urge marriage, but the road is not the same!
First of all, look at the grandparents.
First of all, look at the grandparents. This generation has often been washed out, spoiled, as if the monk, the only thing that can not be assured is the child's happiness. The only thing that I'm not sure about is my children's happiness. Moreover, the definition of happiness for people of this age is very simple: to find a person who knows what's going on, to support each other, to accompany each other, and then to live a life of peace and quiet. Therefore, grandparents urge you to get married, is completely non-utilitarian concerns. The only drawback is that it is far away from the pursuit of young people. The young people are in the center of the world, the sword to go off the edge, can not savor the depth of feeling.
The fathers urged to get married, there are more reasons. First of all, face. The children of classmates are married, the child's classmates are also married, my family is left is not embarrassing? Then there is the sense of crisis. Now the ratio of men to women is out of proportion, the bride price money is rising, the share of money has no return, after the age group will be even less advantageous. The third point is family responsibility. You so every day hanging around not climate, want to object no object, want to work without a stable job, can afford to me and your father? In addition, after the retirement of the life of the emptiness, but also let the mother in the square dance in the spare time desperately want a daughter-in-law and small children to enrich the life.
The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a pair of shoes or boots that you can't afford. Anyway, it's not a big deal to see what's going on, my family who has a child who can play soy sauce, you see that who is still not married, it is not homosexual, right? Or is there something wrong? The poor old parents heard this, I am afraid that immediately tears, a wonderful annual family ethics drama is about to start, melon seeds candy popcorn ready ah, the verbal attack on the beginning of this, even if you have the tongue of a group of experts, but it is difficult to beat the seven aunts and eight aunts of the sharp teeth.
The unrelated neighbors urge you to get married, absolutely nothing to say. You have to sympathize with people, talk about feelings, not to contact the year-round, talk about work, the line is like a mountain, you are not to popularize the latest business model to him, the rest of the topic is to urge to get married. Then a simple sentence "married?" Enough to express concern for your entire life journey, instantly close the distance, rich talk, active atmosphere, can be said to kill three birds with one stone.
After analyzing these points clearly, the face of marriage should be the right medicine, not the same.
Grandma and Grandpa are very old, and it's not possible to change their mindset. We should show more joyful scenes of our daily life at this time, so that they believe that you have a good life. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are going to do it. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that.
In the face of parents, it is appropriate to rationalize the exchange, give them a pill to eat. Posing as a boss to open the year-end summary of the momentum, a clear list of their achievements and plans, if necessary, data tables can have. Not only make them see your current stage and core tasks, but also let them see your bright future and the upcoming glorious life strategy. Company going public? Nope! It's that I'm going to be on top of my life! Make your parents feel justified in letting go of their children's feelings appropriately. This pass can be muddled through.
In the face of seven aunts and aunts, must be preemptive, split response. You know that even the best orator can not resist the seven aunts, if they get together, it is like going deep into the tiger's den. Therefore, first of all, we must spread out our forces and tackle them one by one. In addition, the preemptive strike must be followed, although the team disintegrated, but their ability to fight alone should not be underestimated. Aigoo, your family who sleep intends to have a second child? When do you want it? Why don't you have one? It's good to have a second child. Although your family is smart, it's just not practical enough, so it's good to have one more child to count on. By the way, how did Whosoever do in the exams this year? Use all your questions. This is a great way to get out of the way.
The friends who are not related to each other, he asked you, you also asked him. What, you're already married? Congratulations, congratulations, then when to baby ah, next year is the year of the monkey, good good, haha. This level does not need to be distracted, three passes have been passed, can guarantee a happy new year.
If the implementation of the strategy, there are sudden and unexpected circumstances, you can improvise, in line with the "enemy does not move, I do not move; the enemy moves, I move chaotic" principle, to disrupt its deployment, compel its military, in order to achieve the results of the accidental victory.
The above response strategy, written in a dream, if there is a similarity, certainly coincidental.
Finally, I wish you a good year.