There are countless bottlenecks in life, such as those that can't get through; those that can't let go; those that can't erase the pain; those that can't see beyond the head of the future.......
In my teens, I was weaving a beautiful dream, thinking that I could be a strong woman, and that anything was possible.
By the time I was in my twenties, I was still not a woman, married and had children. In order to find a way out, they decided to leave their children behind, and the couple went abroad to work hard.
Ten years of hard work, pay off the huge debt, thirty-something years old back home with children, then want to give birth to a sweet little jacket, the result was three sons, now carrying this "three mountains", the pressure is great!
Now to the age of the put can not be, on the old and the young, the first half of the father-in-law to do a gastrectomy, and then liver metastasis has been advanced, and now dying, eating, drinking, and spreading out on the bed, relying on the willpower and oxygen to live.
Every piece of trouble in life is likely to be the last straw that breaks the camel's back. I've had my share of misanthropy over the years, wondering where the end is? But what can make me a smooth transition, is optimistic and positive mindset, because I believe that everything will slowly get better, more insist on the next good!
Life which is not bitter? But there are bitter and sweet ah! You just have to be quiet, look at the outside world, look at other people's weather, listen to every different spring, summer, autumn and winter, you will find that life can also be very beautiful, the mood is also!
There is a saying that is not so? Recognize the truth of life, but still love life. Together, let's cheer! [
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1. Participate in group activities: from the exchange of many people to solve the knot, get some help and affirmation, reduce the negative psychology, add courage to live; but also to pay friendship and care, get happy and grateful energy.
2. Cultivate a positive way of thinking:
For any person, think more about his or her merits and help to us, and be less critical. Especially for parents, more gratitude, sympathy for their hardship, less backlash, can get a lot of spiritual energy, so that we are willing to communicate with others.
If we feel that someone is not good to us in some things, it may be due to the limitation of their life experience, we don't need to hold a grudge, because holding a grudge or disliking anyone may make us imitate their shortcomings, and it will drain our own energy.
3. List 5 to 10 of your strengths to increase your confidence.
4. Make a list of 5-10 things you have, and feel lucky and grateful for what you have.
5. Listen to music. When immersed in music, you can slowly learn to analyze the things that make you negative, and gain strength and energy from music.
6. Practice yoga, which helps to clear your emotions, unravel your mind, and release your body and mind.
7. Practice writing with a brush. Recommended to you a book "Tang Huairen set Wang Xizhi Sacred Teaching Preface", the beginning may feel very uncomfortable to learn, more practice, you can exercise concentration, each time there will be progress, the heart has gained, to gain self-confidence, to take over the energy inherited from our ancestors.
8. If you are a girl, you can learn sewing, knitting, embroidery, etc., focusing on the hands of the matter, you can clear your mind, put down some of the worries that hang around, and maintain a calm and happy mood. Like my old grandmother, young and well educated, read books, is known far and near the embroidery expert, although gave birth to seven children, life is difficult, and grandpa died in the middle of life, grandma alone to support the family's livelihood planning. But every time I saw her old man when I was a child, I was smiling and laughing, and I never saw her old man lose his temper.
9. Learn to sing, dance, activate the mind, broaden the horizons, can also be strong and healthy.
10. Do volunteer work, contact with different groups of people, feel the joy of giving and getting, and at the same time know that other people's lives are also happy and sad, and learn to continue to move forward from the experience of disappointment to find hope.
I hope the above suggestions will help you.
Misanthropy is because you feel that the world is very undesirable, very unfair, very ugly, and even feel a certain degree of despair; or your own struggle for the goal is difficult to achieve, their own life and work in the process of repeated failures, or to take their own and other people than, always feel that they can't do this and that can't do. Briefly, one is not hope for the world, but they have lost confidence in life. To change this mood, the first thing to do is to adjust their own mentality, we must know that the perfect society does not exist, so far all countries and regions there is a lot of room for improvement, even in Western countries. The whole human society seems to always exist: half of the good; half of the ugly; half of the good; half of the evil; half of the rich, half of the poor; half of the winners, half of the losers; and so on, here the so-called half, is not exactly exactly half, but a fuzzy concept. Society is like this, in all times and in all places. Recognize the nature of the world, you do not have to pay too much attention to the many inequalities and ugliness of the world, the world is originally so, the world of happiness does not exist. Secondly, if your life is not as good as you would like it to be, think about it, there are a lot of people who are not as good as you are, you are not the worst in the world. If you fail, you should adjust your life or work goals as soon as possible, face up to your own defects, try to change yourself, go with the flow, take things as they come, and find your own social position. This way, you will be able to live a more comfortable life, more comfortable.
Young people living under pressure
will have such emotions
To learn to reduce pressure on themselves,
Some people like to smoke to relieve emotions!
Some people like to drink, release the mood!
Some people like to brag and comfort themselves!
Some people like to exercise, exercise will!
Some people like to go shopping to wash away everything!
Some people like chess, forget the past!
Some people like to travel , a new start!
Some people like to read books, stay at home!
Some people like to eat , full of boring!
Some people like to cook, to calm the missing!
Some people like games, youthful vigor!
Some people like to climb mountains, broaden their horizons!
Some people like to dance, flying self!
Some people like to sing, shouting out aggression!
Some people like painting and calligraphy, improve the temper!
Some people like fishing, focus on fun!
Some people like to take pictures , to keep the memories!
Some people like to swim, free and easy!
Some people like the sea, explore the mystery!
Some people like rock climbing, challenge the limit!
Some people like skiing, professional stimulation!
Some people like to play ball, think differently!
Some people like to give , to help others!
Some people like to race, waving the flag!
Some people like to idolize, try to worship!
Some people like to collect and preserve history!
Some people like animals, distraction!
Some people like flowers and plants, carefully cultivated!
Life has a lot of helplessness, but also a lot of pursuit!
Life has a lot of choices and a lot of fun!
Life has many paths and many choices!
Life has a lot of things, want to have to work hard!
The idea of giving up on yourself only makes you more wretched!
Look at others, look at yourself, you can do it, I can not be worse! Do not admit defeat, do not give up, do not compromise, the world on your, time will prove everything, let yourself live a happy and more exciting, choose a challenging hobby for yourself, do and then challenge another, constantly enrich themselves, constantly learning, constantly working, everything will be good, with a goal and a direction, the trouble with the wind away.
Misanthropy is a wrong attitude of not daring to face up to and despairing after a complete failure in life, work, career, etc. It is a kind of extremely bad negative emotion and a kind of pathological psychology.
Its performance has the following kinds, one, cynical, extremely irresponsible to people and things, no respect. Second, demoralization, broken. The first one is a great waste of life. Third, cynicism, in people and things, emotions and opinions are polarized. Fourth, to escape reality, do not dare to face, do nothing, simply wait for death. Also called, see through the world, really pathetic and ridiculous.
That is, the disease, of course, the need to doctor, the disease shallow, perhaps there is a rescue, the disease is very sick, let it be on its own, as long as the damage to the personnel will be minimized on the line.
Definitely life is not as good as too many things, or too much demand too much, the goal can not be reached, will feel the pain.
On November 27, 2019 during the recording of the ninth installment of the program "Chase Me", Gao Yixiang suddenly decelerated and collapsed when he was running, and after more than two hours of all-out rescue, the hospital finally announced that Gao Yixiang died of sudden cardiogenic death. The first time I saw this, it was a very good thing that I was so happy.
After that, we only saw a pair of old parents "white hair people send black hair people" heartbreaking, as well as next year and his fiancée's upcoming wedding heartbreak.
You're standing next to your beloved wife, your growing children, and your parents, who look up to you as their greatest source of support. It is your greatest responsibility to stay healthy.
The bankruptcy of life is often not due to wealth, but to health.
Sometimes it's not our bodies that are incurable, it's our moods that are sick. As long as a person's heart is big, the big things are small, and life is slowly getting better.
Lin Ching-hsien wrote a story in his collection of essays, "Always think of one or two, not eight or nine".
Once, an old friend found Lin Qingxuan. Because people in middle age, all aspects of some bad things, would like to Lin Qingxuan can send him a few words of relief. Lin Qingxuan deliberated for a long time, wrote down four words: often think about one or two.
The old friend asked him what he meant. He said: "As the saying goes, life is not as good as nine out of ten things, but after deducting eight or nine percent of the bad things, there are at least one or two percent of the good, happy, happy things.
If we want to live a happy life, we should always think about the one or two good things, so that we will feel happy, know how to cherish, and not be beaten by the eight or nine bad things.
I'm not sure if I'm a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm a good person, and I'm not a good person.
In today's society, whether it is urban or rural, based on work pressure, life pressure and other aspects, may allow us to produce more or less anxiety, compulsion or repression, etc., so now the development of tourism, fitness, maintenance and other industries is also based on the fast development of some of the spiritual dimension of the support and relaxation of the bar, but in fact, the most important thing is still their own, when you feel yourself with the When you feel that you have a bad state of mind, then you have to quietly think about it, like I will set aside 1-2 minutes every day, so that they do close their eyes and take a deep breath of a habit, I think it can quickly relax and regulate themselves, so that they have a calm enough to think about things, this makes me feel very important, because I manage their own people, so sometimes decide to take a step wrongly, on the company's impact on them are very large, so this calm The key to thinking things through is very important to me.
Once a person is able to think calmly and analyze their own time, then even if they are negative minded, you can always find the right way to adjust, but if you can't calmly analyze and judge their own time, then it may be worthwhile for them to look for a friend to confide in or a loved one to share their worries with, and if it still doesn't work, then you have to think about seeing a doctor.
I hope you will find this helpful.
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The main reason for being pessimistic and misanthropic is that you have not found something meaningful to do, and your life has no direction. For the misanthropic person, life is a complete forced purchase, but can not quit on their own. Misanthropy is not being tired of everything in the world. The people who are tired of the world are all different:
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Some elderly people live alone for a long time, have no one to accompany them, and can't find anyone to talk to, so it's easy to have psychological problems and thus produce the emotion of being tired of the world.
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The poor
Some people living at the bottom of the society, long suffering from hunger and the poor environment around them, in the desperation will also produce anorexia.
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People who have been tortured by illnesses for a long time
Some people who have been tortured by chronic diseases such as cancer and AIDS are also prone to misanthropy.
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Repeatedly frustrated people
Some enthusiastic entrepreneurs, always full of confidence to struggle, but the reality is hard to give him a slap in the face, and long-term easy to depression and thus produce misanthropy.
The reason for not finding something meaningful to do is that there is something wrong with the education at the beginning. Ancient Chinese sages would have let the child memorize the Four Books and Five Classics at the beginning, when he knew nothing, and memorized the teachings of the sages in his heart. When he grows up, when he reaches the age of thirty or forty, the classics will continue to illuminate his path of life. So, if he reads the classics correctly, he will not feel that he has nothing to do in life.
In fact, there are many other ways to get into the world, the key lies in whether or not he can be guided to integrate into such an environment, to be with a good teacher and a good friend, and to set up the right knowledge, so that his life state will really change.
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Beginning of misanthropy, young friends please do not misanthropy, the world is beautiful, life is also beautiful. People encounter all sorts of things in their lives, and it is inevitable that they will have a moment of unhappiness. Go to a psychiatrist and they will solve your problems. In my life experience: please make more friends, and friends talk about the exchange of ideas; please read more books, books are a great treasure, swim in it, the joy of it; please do a little more small things, such as spend ten minutes to clean their room, when the room is new, you will feel happy from the bottom of your heart.
I have lived for more than seventy years, my health is not very good anymore, my body is sick from time to time, the feeling of illness is difficult to understand your eighteen-year-old golden age friends, but in spite of this, I still feel that life is good. Pessimism is often a sign of immaturity, and overcome the self to overcome the difficulties and can make people more mature.
I believe that you, my young friend, will be fine! Best wishes to you from the bottom of my heart!
Depression is really popular these years because of social pressure, family pressure, and mental pressure is really high! People say, if someone says to you, I seem to have depression, this is the last plea for help from depressed people, perhaps, you are also waiting for redemption, you are really sick, so, if you feel that you are anorexic, I suggest that you still need to go to see a psychiatrist's, to confirm that, to better regulate the state of mind!
Before going to see a psychiatrist, it is recommended that you go to the hospital for a walk, go to the intensive care unit, look at the people in the hospital bed, they are how eager to live, look at the patient's family how hard to support him! Do you still say that you are misanthropic? Compare this to your own healthy body, how lucky you are!
In the door of the elementary school or kindergarten to see, after school, a group of lovely lively flowers, with a smile, running to their mothers, they have endless possibilities and beauty! That kind of simplicity is enough to melt the cold ice in our hearts!
Perhaps we have all been misanthropic, suffering, hurt, so that we do not have the courage, want to give up, but we just can not give up so easily, every adult, are in the late night collapse, and in the next day early rebirth! For the sake of those who love us, must persevere, regulate over, be your own sunshine! Come on, it's going to be okay! [Rose][Rose][Rose]