Social death scene refers to the social situation in the social situation for some reason and feel embarrassed, embarrassed, have nothing to say, difficult to integrate into the atmosphere. If you encounter this kind of scene, you can try the following methods:
1. Change the topic: You can try to propose a new topic to divert everyone's attention, such as asking some interesting questions or telling some interesting stories.
2. Finding ****similarities: You can try to find out the ****similarities between you and others, such as ****similar interests, or ****similar experiences, so as to establish a connection.
3. Use humor: You can use humor to defuse awkwardness, such as joking or telling jokes.
4. Ask for advice: You can ask people questions about their work, life, travel, etc., which can lead to new topics.
5. Leave the occasion: If you feel really uncomfortable, you can choose to leave the occasion, such as going to the restroom or stepping out of the room, to calm yourself down.
The best way to avoid social death scenes is to prepare and practice in advance. Here are some ways to do this:
1. Learn about the event in advance: If you're attending a party or event, find out some information about the event ahead of time, such as the topic, who's involved, the time, and the location, so you're prepared to engage in conversation with some topics and questions.
2. Practice communication skills: If you are not good at communicating, you can practice some communication skills in your daily life, such as how to ask a question, how to answer a question, how to express an opinion, and so on.
3. Break the ice: It is very important to break the ice in social situations. You can break the ice in some simple ways, such as asking the other person a question, complimenting the other person's clothes or hairstyle, and telling an interesting story.
4. Stay confident: Confidence is one of the most important factors to avoid social death scenes. When you feel confident, it's easier to interact with others because you know you can do a good job.
5. Remember to be polite: Politeness is very important in social situations. When you interact with others, always remember to express your views and opinions in a polite way.
6. Keep learning: Social skills can be learned and improved. You can read some books or articles about social skills or take some social skills training courses to improve your social skills.