1, the first lover is the enlightenment of men's love.
The first lover is a man's love enlightenment. In other words, a man can really learn to mature and become a real man, and he can be comfortable in love without the instruction and guidance of his first lover. Emotionally, we will always experience the heartbreak of lovelorn, and then persevere in the pursuit of the next love. We gradually become mature and steady in repeated love and lovelorn.
A man is always obsessed with his first love, because his feelings for his first love are the most sincere and warm. Each of us can't forget the first insomnia, heartbreak and crying for someone. That feeling is deeply imprinted in my heart. We can't forget the excitement when we fell in love with someone for the first time. Because you love someone, you become swayed by considerations of gain and loss We are like mental patients, turning black and white, regardless of day and night, forgetting to eat and sleep, fidgeting.
We will be troubled by a subtle act of our lover. We will also be excited by a bright smile from each other. Men are always shy and introverted in front of the woman they love, like a simple child. Men always have a childlike innocence for their first love.
2. You don't know how to cherish until you lose it.
Another important reason why men are obsessed with first love is that first love can't accompany them to the end. What you can't get is the best. This is a man's obsession. He always waits until he loses it before he knows how to cherish it. Feelings are like this. When we have them, we often don't know how to cherish them. We squander our love and youth. We didn't regret it until it was all over.
Unfortunately, there is no regret medicine in this world. We don't wait until we lose our first love to regret it. Time is cruel and will make us old. Our memories and youthful looks will be stale with the passage of time, and our emotions will gradually become superficial. However, we will eventually understand that even if that first love really can't come to the end, as long as we really loved each other, we won't feel too sorry.
3. Reality is always cruel, and memories are always beautiful.
Another important reason why men always forget their first love is that the reality is too cruel and memories are always beautiful. Some men may experience different women and love after breaking up with their first love. However, no love or woman can compare with his first lover.
Reality is so cruel, cruel. When a man can't find a more suitable love or marriage partner in real life, then he will miss his first love in the dead of night. He can't help comparing his first lover with his current lover. The more sad, the more tangled. Coupled with the blessing of this filter, the first lover becomes more beautiful in men's hearts.
As everyone knows, at the moment of falling in love with the first lover, there will be no less pain and trouble in reality. It's just that memories always make people have some kind of illusion, making men feel that the first lover is the woman who is really worth cherishing and cherishing. Perhaps, when a man meets a woman who really suits him in real life, he may forget or forget his first love.