Some people say that everything is most afraid of heart. I think this may be the same as what Wang Lao said.
Everything has a heart, and everything has a taste, even a very ordinary life.
When I run in the morning, I often meet a woman ten years older than me. She runs alone and occasionally. I often meet her. Seeing her more often, I can't help getting acquainted. At first, every time I met her, I would nod and smile tacitly as a greeting. Later, when I get familiar with it, I will say a few words one by one.
She has a good figure. A son has already worked, and her husband has also gone to work in other places, leaving her alone to guard the home and live a leisurely life.
* * * The same hobby * * The same personality makes us have more and more languages. Slowly, we talked about running, sports, the influence of sports on the body and physique, the most popular sports methods at present-square dance and yoga, life and life. Talking about everything, seemingly tepid, but more and more tacit understanding in my heart.
"Like ordinary people at the bottom of our society, life is a foregone conclusion, and ordinary people can't be changed. It is also good to live a stable life." I was awed by the way she said this. Her helplessness of "resignation" not only did not make me feel negative, but also had a real sense of sureness. Her self-identified concept of "ordinary and ordinary" comes from Qian Fan's indifference all his life, rather than passive pessimism frightened by his miserable life. This is not a cruel surrender to reality, but a truth that is still smarter than a fool?
Some people say that the benevolent enjoys Leshan and the wise enjoys water. I don't know whether people who like mountains and water like me have different opinions, but I know there is nothing wrong with mediocrity.
The word "that's it" used to make me so terrible and shudder. Every time I hear it, I am frightened. I am often speechless with this uncivilized thinking of ruthlessness and indifference to "ordinary ordinary". Now I think the idea of "that's it" is actually a kind of vigilance against life, a kind of self-esteem and protection.
A person's life is full of ups and downs, just like a sine function, which changes endlessly from the starting point to the end point. No one's life is Ma Pingchuan.
Brilliant life, or ordinary life, is a normal state, so there is no need to blame yourself, let alone make a fuss. No matter how successful you are, you will eventually become a mediocre life.
Suffering is the best university. Some people are watching, some are running away, and some are going forward bravely. Life is lovely if you love it deeply. It's good to be alive anyway.
Everything is intentional, and the world is delicious. It is not a passive escape, but an optimistic face. Face the joys and sorrows of life, face the joys and sorrows of life, just use your heart.
At leisure, I get up alone, write, read, make breakfast, clean, take care of flowers and plants, do morning exercises, listen to music and bask in the sun ... The morning days are basically wasted.
There is no joy, no sadness, no calculation, no utility, only the liberation of indifferent fame and fortune and the rest assured of Qian Fan. There is no future with anyone, only meeting is a kind of beautiful peace and comfort. There is less care from afar, less impulse and anxiety to see if you want to see it. Occasionally, after morning exercise, I will dig wild vegetables or pick wild flowers. When I get home, I will find a vase and insert it casually. Simple and practical, the heart is often full of love, and appropriately create some sense of ritual in life.
Chatting with people who meet once has nothing to do with routine and sincere dedication, but with joy and talk, chatting about family and gossip, casually, what is the other person's surname, where he came from, where he went, what he did, joys and sorrows ... everything is a mystery, nothing is a mystery, simple and natural meeting, just parting, casual intersection, unintentional chat,
Sometimes it's children in Doby, little pets in Doby, watching airplanes, or flying kites in the blue sky occasionally ... Back to basics, everything is just right.
Simple lunches are all favorite foods, real and indifferent fireworks. Who said that life should be a struggle? Who says you have to work hard to succeed if you are alive? Otherwise, it will be different from salted fish. Only peace of mind is the best daily life.
I will still work hard, but it will not affect my daily life. After all, work has never made a big leap in your life, so you can rest assured that you won't spend too much energy on those illusory first cakes.
Work, like love, is actually the most down-to-earth thing, paying the most attention to secularity and reality. Work is the basis of life. If you are unrealistic, you will be sorry for life. If you are infected with love and spirit, if you don't care about it, you will be sorry for yourself. If you give something without return, you will never be too careful
Just as there is no free lunch in the world, there is no job that doesn't count the gains and losses. Virtue is not worthy of the position, and the position does not leave virtue. This is a kind of confusion and stupidity.
Feelings are the same. No one is a fool in the emotional world, but sometimes feelings are greater than reason, which will make people lose their dignity. In this world, whoever cares about any kind of feelings, whoever uses his heart, will lose it, and those who are separated will eventually be separated, and those who are affectionate and righteous will linger all their lives. I just want to spend my time with the people I love and those who love me in plain days.
Everything is intentional and the world can taste it. Those who care must be careful, and those who care must care. Care, human touch.
Because of this sentence, I often guess that Wang Lao should be a gentle and elegant scholar, indifferent and calm, as if he were a naturally optimistic person.
With this conjecture, I learned about Wang Lao's works and found that his novels have the beauty of diluting elegance and shining humanity; The food written is memorable; The little people written are very humorous; Deeply respected by Jia Pingwa, Shen Congwen, Mo Yan, Shuang, Feng Tang and other famous modern writers, he can be said to be the best among all.
To truly understand Wang Zengqi, we must see his inner pessimistic background and find the sustenance or fun of life. Just like if you focus all your attention on making money, career, house and car, people will be tacky. Even if you succeed in the secular world, you must be at a loss.
Some people say that Wang Lao is a beautiful pessimist. But I think pessimists may also have an advantage, that is, it is easier to appreciate the tiny beauty in life. Wang Zengqi is the writer who knows life best and the most talented chef.
Wang Lao, who experienced twists and turns, created a carefree utopia for the world with his own pen. He used words to explore the true and perfect side of human nature, and used warmth and purity to wash the world's depression, melancholy and confusion.
As Wang Lao's son said: Dad always shows the best things to everyone and hides the suffering things in his heart, because he feels that even when he is desperate, he should give people a glimmer of hope that will never be cut off.
As Wang Zengqi said in "Everything is intentional and people have a taste":
We have all kinds of trauma, but we should be happy today.
Whose life has no suffering and failure? If you put your heart into it, you will not regret it. Use two rights, use two rights. If you want to overcome it, you will look down.
Life is a practice, so it's best to live as you like. Some people always change themselves by trying to please others and the world until they lose themselves.
The ups and downs of the world, the noise of fame and fortune, there will always be such a temptation. If you are too busy to look at yourself, you will be buried in prosperity and it will be difficult to find your original clean and simple self.
There is always a kind of people in the world who live with their heart, live peacefully, calmly, independently, feel lonely and indifferent, and are not disturbed by the outside world. Such a person can often live as he pleases, because his heart has aloes and there will be no burden.
People who can really live happily are usually those who are wholeheartedly, down-to-earth, unpretentious and have low requirements for material conditions.
Everything is afraid of intention, everything is intentional, and the world is delicious.