Xu, a talented woman with no dynamic temperament for a long time, showed a wave of love on the Internet. She took an old photo with Huang Lixing, the two holding a giant panda for the camera, smiling sweetly and enviously.
Hsu and have been in a relationship for 11 years, since they co-starred in "Dulala's Promotion" in 2009. Although they keep a low profile and don't do official publicity, they don't skimp on compliments for each other and always poke their love secretly.
At one point, Xu was asked where he absorbed her. Xu Jinglei replied without hesitation that Huang Lixing absorbed her everywhere. In Xu's mind, a perfect partner.
In the eyes, Xu is also a regular woman, smart, beautiful, temperament. So the two hit it off and began a journey of romantic love for the rest of their lives.
They toured together, lived together, left behind the world's troubles, indulged in music or painting and calligraphy, and lived with a pair of literary partners. Wherever they went, they relied on each other and adored each other. They never seemed to struggle, and there was no end to it as long as they loved each other.
However, when 11 years of youth rush by, can they also face the baptism of the world? The two were once both 46 years old, in love for 11 years, but so far unmarried and childless, many people are difficult to understand. Since they love each other so much, why don't they get married and have children?
Having children is an obligation of love and a sublimation of love. There is an old saying that "love without the purpose of marriage is a hooliganism". If that's the case, Xu He are all hooligans, right? Because in their minds, marriage is not their purpose.
Hsu has responded to questions about her being unmarried. She said she doesn't think people have to get married. Marriage is just a guarantee, and she doesn't need guarantees, either emotionally or financially.
The attitude towards marriage is similar to that of Hui. He says love is for two people. Two people together do not necessarily need legal proof, and the security that marriage gives can be false.
It doesn't seem unreasonable to look at the two men's responses, but their responses also inadvertently overlook another reason why marriage is the grave of love!
While Xu He doesn't have financial pressure, if they get married, they will need to face all sorts of unspoken rules of marriage.
For example, in love, couples don't care too much about gains and losses and who pays more for the other. Because the beginning of love itself requires one party to take the initiative to pursue first, their positions are not equal, but both can enjoy.
Once married, the claims of both parties will try to achieve positional parity, such as who does more housework, whose name the property should be written in and so on. And their love will be gradually consumed by these trivialities overnight.
Furthermore, marriage will also make the nature of the two people clear at a glance. During the period of love, both couples will intentionally or unintentionally "disguise" themselves, hide their bad side, magnify their best side, in order to absorb each other's purpose.
But once you're married, both sides will slack off and expose their flaws. That's why after marriage, many people will lament that the other person is like a different person, far from their ideal partner, and conflicts arise overnight.
What's more, there is another problem with getting married, which is the difference in their circles and family backgrounds. Many people think that marriage is a matter of two people, but it is not. When you get married the man needs to be in the woman's circle, the woman needs to be in the man's circle, and when you have children you have to take care of them, so getting married is tiring for both people.
Since marriage is the grave of love, should every couple be like Xu He? In fact, Xu He's love is romantic, but if they don't undergo the baptism of the bland life of marriage, their relationship is just a bubble floating in mid-air. It's beautiful to look at, unreliable, and could be eradicated in an instant.
So even though Xu and have been in a relationship for 11 years, I still don't envy them and I don't agree with maintaining the romance and passion of love at the cost of not getting married or having children. What do you think about this?
Why is Zhang Yadong still single 11 years after abandoning Gao for Qu Ying?
Gao Yuanyuan is a dream goddess in the eyes of many people. She has a lot of fans and this actress is quite low-key.
Do you know that Gao Yuanyuan used to chase a singer when she was young? This singer is very talented. He is Zhang Yadong.
Zhang Yadong has a gorgeous love history. Besides Gao Yuanyuan, this male singer lived with Qu Ying for 11 years. Both of the above actresses are among the most beautiful women in the circle. One is an excellent actress and the other is a famous model. To be favored by these two goddesses, Zhang Yadong must have something special.
Zhang Yadong was born on March 11, 1969 in Tianzhen County, Datong City, Shanxi Province. My mom was a local Jin opera actress. She grew up playing the cello at the age of 8 and went on to perform in a song and dance troupe at 13.
When he was 13, Zhang Yadong began working as a temp in a song and dance troupe. Though his monthly salary was only 70 yuan, he thought he was old enough to support himself.
But what made him happiest was that when he was 19, he fell in love with a female coworker. Soon afterward, they married and gave birth to a son for Zhang Yadong. But the music-loving Zhang Yadong didn't forget his musical dream, and he still couldn't let go.
So at the age of 23, he decided to leave his hometown and came to Beijing alone to pursue his dream.
After his divorce, Zhang Yadong met Dou Ying and joined her team. Their love was also because of music. Zhang Yadong was attracted to her boldness on stage, and Dou Ying was attracted to his ability. They fell y in love, so they got married.
Dou Ying is the sister of Dou Wei, who is Faye Wong's ex-husband, so Dou Ying introduced Zhang Yadong to Faye Wong, but to no one's surprise, it led directly to Faye Wong's brilliance. He wrote songs for Faye Wong such as "Floating", "Only Love Strangers" 01 "Will Love", and then Faye Wong walked to the throne of the Queen of Chinese with these songs.
However, Dou Ying didn't realize that the marriage was ruined because of one of his actions. Once, Zhang Yadong went to help Faye Wong to make an album, and he happened to meet Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Yadong had a melancholic back.
Immediately attracted Gao Yuanyuan.
So she asked her colleagues for Zhang Yadong's contact information. As the saying goes, "a woman chases a man through a layer of veil", and under the fierce pursuit of Gao Yuanyuan, Zhang Yadong finally broke through the last line of defense, and photos of the two on a secret date were exposed by the media. Subsequently, the news that Zhang Yadong and Dou Ying had long been divorced was also rumored.
Zhang Yadong has not yet divorced his wife Dou Ying, while Gao Yuanyuan is willing to be his underground lover for 5 years, which is enough to see, Zhang Yadong's charisma is great.
On this issue Zhang Yadong gave an answer, Zhang Yadong said, "People should live with a supreme love, but not necessarily a living thing, love a person, she may change her heart, love a pet, it may die, you must choose a thing that will not leave you, my choice is to love music."
Throughout all these years of love, Zhang Yadong never stayed on anyone. Even though there are numerous women who are infatuated with him, he still sticks to himself. Perhaps falling in love is what's best for him, and marriage is just a shackle.
Wang Shuo met Xu Jinglei, 16 years of difference between the two should not have a love affair. 1996, to the plastic and the original match Shen Xujia two officially registered for divorce, Shen Xujia with her daughter to the United States to live a plain and happy life, and Wang Xu is obsessed with the "70's female artists on behalf of the 70's Xu Jinglei" this goal, all the way to the popularity of Xu Jinglei, and the world's most famous female artists, and the world's most popular female artist. The company's goal is to make Xu Jinglei a star.
It was thought that in this triangular relationship, Shen Xujia finally lost to Xu Jinglei, making her and Wang Shuo complete.
But the truth is that Xu Jinglei did not get together with Wang Shuo after she became famous.
Xu Jinglei called Wang Shuo her "mentor and friend", turned around and fell in love with another man, while Wang Shuo, who said that "all the money will go to Xu Jinglei after her death", also found a new partner, but Wang Shuo's love affair ended in misery.
In 2014, a suspected Xu Jinglei's Hong Kong immigration form information detonated on the network, the source said a variety of signs are very likely to be this information is Xu Jinglei's, more importantly, the marriage column said married, which makes many people associated with the rumor of boyfriend Huang Lixing. Recently, the network appeared to be registered as "Xu Jinglei" of the Hong Kong immigration form information.
After verification, the birth date is "April 16, 1974", occupation is "actress" and other information are consistent with the actress Xu Jinglei. However, due to the scribbling, and write a good handwriting Lao Xu handwriting is far from the suspected star staff on behalf of the registration.