A friend told me that in love, people who believe that "deep feelings can't stay, routines win people's hearts" think that the current infatuation is worthless, which is a very idiotic performance. "Seriously, it means losing." Clever flirting is the essence of love. You should know how to handle it accurately. In this process, you should know what you are "pursuing". How to say sweet words when "pursuing", how to be bullied by men when doing things, and how to coax each other when quarreling.
After that, he smiled and asked me, do you understand? That's why you haven't found a new pursuit since that time, and now this thing has happened. To put it bluntly, it is because you are too deeply involved in the emotional game. If you see her again, you should say what's the name of that song? When I see you again, I will pretend to be strong. Then he got up and left, leaving me sitting on the side of the road, with a few beer bottles left beside him. ...
If I can meet you again, maybe I can't let go, I might as well not see you.
When we parted, we said goodbye willfully and complained hysterically to each other in anger. You called me weak and caring, and I called you selfish and ambiguous, so we agreed never to meet again in this life. What you don't know is that I didn't really say goodbye to you until you really started a new life. But as long as you need me, I will still be by your side.
I received a phone call from my predecessor that day, which was a little unexpected, because I broke up for more than a year and haven't been in touch. Before the phone could be answered, there was crying on the other end. She said, I broke up with him. Are you happy to hear the news?
How was your year? Have you ever taken care of yourself in your life? I'm sorry I shouldn't have treated you like that. This is my fault. I'm sorry
I felt something was wrong, so I asked her if something was wrong. If there is anything I can do for you, just let me know. I didn't blame you at first, because I was also wrong.
She choked up, and I was sick, and it may be a disease that can't be cured for a lifetime, or it may be a good disease. I just called you to say I'm sorry. I always think it's bad for you.
Let me accompany you to treat the disease. When you are well, come back to me.
Young people, we always have a childlike innocence, a heart that is Do not forget your initiative mind no matter how the world changes, and this heart belongs to only one person. Only after going through twists and turns again and again, being teased by time and fate, do we gradually begin to understand that in the emotional world, there are not only sweet words and romantic warmth, but also stories in fairy tales are deceptive, which always exist only in books and TV dramas, and more stories come to the end.
Go home and visit her and talk to her just because she wants to see you. Telephone and WeChat messages are also constant. Chatting is nothing more than comforting and encouraging her. Once, in order to accompany her to Guangzhou for medical treatment, she even lost her job. She was preparing for a promotion.
Some people, who are not really selfish and ungrateful, are just injured, don't know where to go, are unwilling, and don't know how to take back everything, so they put on masks in disguise, walk in the crowds coming and going, and continue to crawl on the battlefield. Just please don't hurt those who are serious.
The last time I sent her a message was a few days ago.
She said: I regret being with you. Three years of relationship with you, only a few months of companionship. Your cowardice and care make me feel that everyone else is good, so I am right to leave you. Get out of here as far away as possible.
The "he" she said is the one who has a boyfriend after breaking up with me, that is, the one who chose to leave me in every way.
Then I replied to her faintly: we will never have contact again. Just because of my reluctance and concern for you, you are heartless again today. It's just that I regret it now, it's too late, that's all. Goodbye.
It's not that I can't stand parting, but that I can't stand the traces left by each other after parting. We're all fine, just at the wrong time. I almost didn't see you, I almost missed you, you almost became my woman, almost, almost. If I hadn't met you at the beginning, if I just appeared by your side now, would I have moved you and stayed with you all the time? Going to Guangzhou for medical treatment has no effect. Later, I heard that her brother had a professor-level psychological tutor in Hubei, so I took a train for more than 20 hours from Shenzhen to Hubei.
The most fascinating thing about love is that your smile always touches another person's heart, knowing that there is no blood relationship between them. Constellations have different personalities, but they seem to be smart and can always guess your heart. It's like what was on her mind when she mentioned "he" in front of me. Like why she deliberately hid behind his back and chatted with him, but deleted all the records. It's like I know in my heart why she got this disease because "he" left.
The departure of "he" made her collapse with strong self-esteem. After she left, she still owed her a lot of money, and the vows of eternal love collapsed with the departure of "him", but she still only had "him" in her heart. Although "he" has left her. Although they are still in contact.
After coming back, her illness has almost recovered. I thought the next one would be good. Yes, I thought it would be good. ...
I still remember that when we met again after parting, she smiled and said to me, you are fine. Meeting you is the luckiest thing in my life. When I'm ready, I'll be with you down-to-earth and never part.
That night, after the last sentence, I drank a lot of wine. I sat alone on the side of the road and shouted at the road: drink when you are lovelorn, and let go when you are finished! If you don't love me, please take back that ambiguity. Thank you.
Not everyone must be kind to themselves, and not everyone must be responsive to themselves and pay for you. You can have what you want, but I hope you can think about whether you deserve what you have.
Two people's feelings, one person's constant satisfaction, one person's constant profligacy, always feel that others should be good to you, but have you ever thought that it is a blessing for a person to be good to you and a kind of luck to be hurt? A person can be kind to you at any time and anywhere, and can also be kind to others at any time. He can also take back these beautiful things at any time without cherishing them, in exchange for the disappointment and retreat of others. Waiting is a painful torture.
Disappointment is enough, clean up your mood and start over.
I looked at the time and sent a message: I won't go tonight, but I'll come with you tomorrow.
Then don't come. I really regret being with you. It took me three years to get your company these months. Get out of here as far away as possible. Your cowardice and concern make me feel that others are very kind to me. Leaving you was the right choice. If I could choose again, I would rather not know you. If I were not ill, I wouldn't come to you again. I can live a better life. Do you know why I deliberately mentioned me and him in front of you? That's because I want you to give in. I'm doing well now, so don't worry. Go away.
I ran out of the house crazily and drank a lot of wine. ...
I'm not yours. I can't be nice to you. This sentence is the same for you and me, because from beginning to end, we have nothing to do with each other, and everything is self-pity.
A person, all his life, has never loved one or two wrong people, not one or two stories, only one or two stories? Life is always ups and downs, no one lives for whom, and no one can't live for whom.
The days are still going by. Occasionally, a madman will visit her circle of friends and know that she is doing well now, as if she had been hit in the heart, which hurts, hurts, but there is nothing she can do. What a pity! I don't know if it's false to say no regrets, and it's even more false to say regrets. In this way, if you are the only one injured, then you can rest assured, because I am stronger than you.
So hard to forget alone, need a pack of cigarettes or a bundle of beer? Neither, but don't meet, don't meet again, don't disturb after breaking up, it is the best ending we give each other.