People who have entered the heart have left their marks in their own hearts. They say forget. How can you forget? They said they would let go and turn around, but their hearts were full of bitterness.
Once a sweet past, that person's every move, just like a movie, the camera flashed quickly, but it lingered for a long time, but it could not go back to the past. I want to cry when I think about it.
Zhang ailing said:? A person's greatest weakness is not selfish, savage and willful, but paranoid love for someone who doesn't love himself. ?
Everything has a process. Only you can save you. Being paranoid about someone who doesn't love you is a kind of pain to yourself. Only you can redeem yourself. Only by reconciling with yourself, convincing yourself and willingly letting go can you regain your freedom.
A person's obsession is too deep, that is, he will not let go of himself and will not compete with himself. Actually, it has nothing to do with that man. What you have to deal with is your relationship with yourself, clear up your disordered heart, love yourself more when you are in pain, and find happiness again.
Actually, it's not that hard to let go of someone. It is enough to do this well.
Let go of your unwillingness and rebuild your life bit by bit.
When we are together, we are moving towards the end of time. How can we give up halfway? This sense of psychological gap makes us work harder, unable to see through and persistent, but that person has opened a new chapter of his own.
The more I think about it, the more unwilling I am. I want to get back together, and I want that person to spoil himself again. Actually, it's just that I don't let myself go. You know, before he appeared, you lived alone and had a good life. How did you at least lose your happiness when he left?
Not all relationships have a beginning and an end. Love itself is a running-in process. The suitable ones will stay, and the unsuitable ones will naturally leave us.
We should learn to accept, let go of our unwillingness, try to live alone again and rebuild our lives bit by bit.
Don't call that person's unanswered number again. Don't go through that person's circle of friends in the dead of night. He can't let go. Why not?
Continued contact or entanglement will only make the memory deeper and easier to let go. Sometimes people should learn to make decisive decisions. Now that two people are separated, it means that fate is over, contact is broken, and one's life is back.
Cultivate hobbies and learn to divert attention.
When you are lovelorn, you really can't be idle. Once you are free, it is really easy to think and feel sad, so you must learn to cultivate hobbies and divert your attention.
After work, you can go to the gym. You are really tired at first, but as long as you stick to it, you will really feel relaxed and free, and the whole person will be much healthier.
It is easier for a person to see things and think of people in a narrow and familiar space. You might as well invite three or two friends to go out and have a look. Looking at the distant mountains, the vastness of the sea and all kinds of delicious food can heal your heart, and you will rediscover beauty and fall in love with life.
Life has always been created by ourselves. We can ask for help at some levels, but at some levels, we can only live on our own. The pain of lovelorn is to be digested by yourself.
Don't stand still, the world is so big, go out and have a look, try something new and interesting, and make some interesting souls. You will find that people who once thought it impossible to let go are gradually submerged in their memories.
It's not that I don't think of it, but I think of it less and less frequently. That person, that memory, seems to be getting farther and farther away from you. You have regained your freedom and found yourself.
Do not reject new relationships and believe in God's arrangement.
There is a saying on the internet:? Sometimes, God wants you to end a relationship, not to confiscate your happiness, but to keep looking at your unhappiness. Even God loves you dearly and feels unworthy, so he lets you go. ?
You have to believe that since things don't work out, God must have other plans. Losing him is his loss, but you are not suitable, not that you don't deserve to be loved. When you shine, you have more choices and can choose higher-level people.
The lovelorn period is just when you are alone. You don't have to care about his feelings and do things you don't like. You have more time and energy to carve yourself.
Whenever, starting your own business is the right choice. Learn to take the initiative in your own hands, not be influenced by fate. Don't hesitate for a lost person, but be more determined to go your own way and forge ahead.
Life needs courage, and it's hard to get past it. Take lovelorn as a test to hone yourself. You should believe that the power of time will heal your wounds and arrange a suitable person for you.
Some people close their hearts once they go after falling in love, so how can the new story develop? Before meeting new people, you should have enough confidence and courage to start a new chapter. Maybe things will change, and the next one is just your fate.
A person will mature only after experience. If something happens, he will always bury his head in the sand, be an ostrich with peace of mind and never grow up.
It is the normal state of life to love and not give up. Although the process will be very painful, crossing the past means growing up. If you don't want to accept it, you should learn to accept it. This is your responsibility for your life.
Sometimes I can't let go, I just don't want to. Face it frankly, the process is painful, but the wound will heal eventually.
When you learn to let go and get out of the pain, you will appear again, and you will write your new story with courage and confidence.