In the face of increasingly intensified conflicts, I think learning to put yourself in the shoes of others is the solution. The heart, that is, put yourself in people's shoes. Whether it is the public or the dancers, if we can stand on the other side of the position on the behavior of each other, it is bound to be less angry, more understanding; less confrontation, more tolerance.
"We are old, as well as people old." The reason why square dance is so hot, the reason is that China's aging population increases, people's living standards improve. Square dancing can strengthen the body and improve the relationship between neighbors, so it naturally becomes the best way for them to spend their time. These old people find happiness in dancing, make friends, and get great physical and mental stretch. Who in the whole world doesn't want their parents to be healthy and happy in their middle and old age? Since you want your parents to be able to enjoy the happiness of heaven in their old age by all means, why should you prevent other people`s parents from obtaining simple happiness? At the same time, square dances tend to be crowded and widely dispersed, and with hearing deteriorating with age, it makes sense that the accompanying music would be louder. Since you will be for the old parents quietly turn up the TV sound, then why can not "old, as well as people old" it?
"We're all young, and we're all young." Although the "capture" square, "treble" speakers are China's big mom's helplessness, but the "nuisance" fact can not be denied. Many young people living in the "square dance neighborhood" has been suffering from "sleep at night, had to get up early in the day" trouble. In fact, most of the dancing mothers also have their own children, if the children living in different places call to complain about their own neighborhood square dance made "no peace", I think every mother will cherish up. Then why can't the dancing moms put themselves in the same shoes, their own influence, but also other parents of the "treasure in the eyes" "heart meat". "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that.
Not only is China's square dance, Chinese-style crossing the road, Chinese-style tourists ...... behind each "Chinese-style", not full of banter. If pedestrians hold groups of red lights before, can take into account their own driving encounter this situation will be how to feel; if the driver in the "road rage" before complaining, can think of pedestrians facing "cars do not let people" reality of helplessness; if tourists with uncivilized behavior to destroy the scenery, can Considering the feelings of other tourists who come to see the beautiful scenery ...... If so many "if" can become a reality, then many "Chinese style" may no longer exist. And "compare heart to heart, push yourself to others", is the key to the ideal into reality.
The story of "Jing Gong heard the order" must be familiar. Yenzi in the "baby heard the ancient wise ruler, satiety and know people's hunger, warm and know people's cold, escape and know people's suffering" in the light of thought, certainly worthy of praise, but we need Jing Gong "was ordered out of the fur hair and corn and extreme cold" of the action of the boldness.
Only "put your heart into the heart, push yourself to others" implanted in people's hearts, people understand each other, mutual tolerance, "Square Dance" can dance out new style.