First, to be able to have their own security, do not rely on others to have their own income. This is the need to have a pension and medical insurance, if not these, you rely on your children can not rely on, children have their own work and family, they also have their own burden, so try to take care of themselves, old age money is a kind of happiness.
Second, the old have a mutual dependence on the old companion, people old and sick, if a person alone at home is very dangerous, so there must be a companion around, two people to take care of each other, each other, so we must treat the side of the people who can be with you with the ****, so that the old man does not suffer, old age suffering is really suffering.
Third, there is a healthy body, the old usually more exercise, pay attention to their regular life and light diet, so that they will not be sick, will not bother others to take care of themselves. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal on your own.
Fourth, have their own hobbies, like I support my mom to play mahjong, playing mahjong, dancing, or learn qigong, tai chi, some older people can play chess, and even like my dad also like to play computer games, can be, the children should be supported, so that they have their own social circle of the heart is happy, long-term thinking about the problem of preventing Alzheimer's disease. The fact that they have a social life is a good thing, and it's a good thing that they're happy, too.
The basic elderly to do these four, their old age is relatively happy, the children it, but also filial piety, more to help their parents to overcome the difficulties, the children know how to be grateful, but also the old man's greatest happiness.
People to old age, what is the greatest happiness?
People? Whether you are a high-ranking official or people, rich or beggars, senior intellectuals or an illiterate who can't read big words. Always in accordance with the youth, youth, middle age, old age this ironclad law to go on, who can not change.
Back to the theme, people in old age, what is the greatest happiness? There are several main points;
First, the body to be healthy, a person to more than sixty years old, a variety of functions are increasingly decline in aging, inevitably appear this kind of problem. If you do not timely examination and treatment, brewed into a serious illness and then cure both money and suffer, the body is important, commonly known as what do not have a disease, do not have what do not have no money. When the old, no money and then have a disease can be a problem.
Second, the children filial piety, the old couple have children, children have a good job, the salary is not low. The children's family couple love, children healthy and lively and lovely. If the children are close to the old man's residence, they can often go home to see the old man to buy some commonly used items and food. The elderly will be happy to see their children. If the children are far away from the old man, it does not matter if some of them are successful in their career or in foreign countries. Today's communication is particularly developed, the idle flaws to the elderly send a video, the two old to see far away in the foreign country of the children's life is very good, the old man heart is also very satisfied.
Third, the old man has a pension, the old man in the young for the country in the position of diligence, hard work, after retirement, the national social security monthly pension, so that the old policy has been implemented, the old people I have a bottom in mind, and do not have to worry about money.
Fourth, it is best for the elderly to have their own separate housing, the size of the area does not matter, it is ideal not to live with their children in a house. The old man has the old man's habits, the young man has the young man's habits. The old man used to go to bed early and get up early, while the young is the opposite. In terms of food and drink also can not eat a piece, the elderly like soft, light, and young people and the elderly is still not the same.
In view of the above reality, if the two old (or one of the first to pass away) the remaining this whether male or female, as long as they can cook their own self-care, you can take care of their own. If you can't take care of yourself, let your children find a nanny to take care of the elderly, and the cost can be paid by the elderly or your children.
Fourth, the elderly should have hobbies, to find their own fun, healthy and happy to live the remaining years and even more than a decade of precious time. If the elderly are very healthy, during the day, you can go to the park and old friends to play tai chi, chess, skating, fishing, arts and cultural activities. Or enroll to the University for the Elderly, where to learn calligraphy, painting, dancing and other activities. That is, exercise the body, and cultivate the sentiment, can be said to be a good thing.
In short, what is the greatest happiness of the elderly? Everyone has their own views, men and women also have different views on this. In any case, living in a socialist country, the central government, the State Council attaches great importance to the work of the elderly, there are committees on the elderly around the main work in this area, as far as possible to make the elderly life happier in their old age.
People in old age, what is the greatest happiness? See this question say my mother-in-law!
My mother-in-law is almost 60 years old, in her old thinking, the man should not enter the kitchen, that are women should do. Regardless of her physical comfort, she has been forced to do what she thinks should be done, but also because of that, my father-in-law is used to being served by her as a lord, three meals a day, every bowl of pasta, every bowl of soup is her personal end to the front of my father-in-law's body has been not to move. Every time you eat, the bowl is never collected, either to watch TV, or go to the lunch break on time. He also turned a blind eye to any illnesses in his mother-in-law's body, as if they had nothing to do with him.
On one occasion, my mother-in-law accidentally scratched her fingernails working in the field, and kept bleeding, and returned home to her haphazardly bandaged her wounds, and at noon, she still made her meals on time, and after dinner, she wanted to let my father-in-law help, and he didn't care, and she endured to wash the dishes, and she kept her wounds in the water, and it took more than a month for them to grow back. I came home later, heard those things at home really a little angry, a woman in the family even live so humble, the usual then, the woman has a wound still do not care, what is this ah? But what can I say? Husband does not know heartache, son does not know filial piety, can only say that everything is her spoiled. She always take themselves as a machine to make, and she is also used to have a sick person to carry, have a job a person pounced on dry, when the disease is well, everything is the same as before, what to do continue to do. She rarely thought about her own body.
This kind of thing is too frequent in this family, this kind of old man, I don't know one day she can't suffer anymore, exhausted in bed, her old age can still have happiness? I don't know if anyone will give back to her in her old age what she has given before. At that time, even if someone can give her a bowl of rice, a bowl of soup, someone can accompany her to chat with her, those who have never had a life before, I think for her is the greatest happiness.
Happiness is actually very simple, there is always someone around to love, someone to love is the biggest happiness!