? ? The old father took the initiative to help take care of the grandchildren, the son wrote an agreement, promised to pay 300 yuan per month maintenance fee, that constitutes the legal relationship between the offer, so the son needs to pay the old man.
A few days ago, according to media reports, Jinan, an old man to the child's parents to ask for "with grandchildren," the elderly father took the initiative to help take care of the grandchildren, the son wrote an agreement promising to pay 300 yuan per month in alimony, but the delay is not honored, it is to find a variety of reasons for shirking the payment of the father, the father has repeatedly urged no results, and angrily sued the relatives of the child. In the end, the father was angry and sued the biological son. The court was in favor.
I and the side of the small partners to see after this news, can not help but clap up, really is for this old man to call. As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, but the old man not only did not borrow on the son of the force, but because the son did not promise to pay 300 yuan per month "with grandchildren fee", the two sides to the court, really want to cry ah.
In real life, the love of parents for their children, deep and broad, not asking for return. News of the old man's son swore to write an agreement for the elderly, promising to pay 300 yuan a month maintenance, that constitutes a legal offer relationship, so the son needs to pay the old man. The father of the child in the news, as the legal guardian, should fulfill his obligation to raise, protect and educate the child, but he has shifted the relevant responsibility to the old man, letting the old man take up the responsibility and obligation for the child. Legally speaking, the elderly have no obligation to support their grandchildren, and helping their children with their children is a matter of affection, not duty. In the news , the old man's grandchildren entrusted to the care of the old man, the old man actually have the fact of support, and the old man's son and to the agreement, the promise to give the old man remuneration, therefore, the old man's son should be to the old man to pay the cost of support, and should not be gnawing on the old man.
? ? In fact, the monthly living expenses of 300 yuan is not enough to raise the child's expenses , this area of 300 yuan, perhaps more symbolic meaning. In fact, the grandchildren to grandpa to bring, the elderly grandfather both to take care of the child, but also to bear the expenses of raising, and the old man's son even promised a district of 300 yuan have not been fulfilled, it is really not justifiable; at the same time , not only is the problem of the money, will be given to grandpa to bring the child, but also failed to fulfill the obligations of parents, in violation of the relevant laws and regulations.
? On January 1 of this year, the Family Education Promotion Law was formally implemented, which is the first time that China has specialized legislation on family education.
The Family Education Promotion Law stipulates that parents or guardians of minors should pay attention to the physiological, psychological, and intellectual development of minors in the implementation of family education, respect their right to participate in relevant family affairs and express their opinions, and should "personally raise, strengthen parent-child accompaniment; **** with the participation of both parents to play the role of parents ". In my opinion, Family Education Promotion Law on just give birth to, do not care about raising, put the child to the elderly of these irresponsible parents, with the law regulates the responsibility, from the legal point of view of the parents do not fulfill the above obligations, it will be an illegal act, and therefore have to bear the corresponding illegal penalties.
In my opinion, the family is the first classroom of life, and parents are the first teachers of children. The above news, the son should be timely and full payment of alimony to the elderly, and more to reflect on this matter. In fact, the old man to recover not only the alimony, but also the son of the old man's commitment to the responsibility and accountability; at the same time, I think it is best to let the children grow up around their parents, the love of the elderly can not match the parents' companionship, can not make the children in the most need of parents in the growth stage of the lack of love, because the companionship of the child is the longest confession.
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