After marriage to go back to grandma's house less time, during the New Year by chance to go back to find the family wall more a table frame certificate - golden wedding. This certificate, which represents 50 years of marriage and half a century of marriage, was hung on the wall of the family photo by the grandfather. And then look at the other family photos written in the footprints of the years, the heart feels warm, but also sour.
At the beginning of the last century, most people were married to their parents, and Grandma and Grandpa were no exception. Grandma married into this big family at the age of 18, and because both parents left when they were six years old, the three sisters in the family were raised by their aunt, and the youngest of them was adopted as a child bride. The youngest was adopted as a child bride, and Grandma and her sister had to help out around the house to make ends meet, borrowing money from everywhere, and it just so happened that Grandpa's family were Grandma's creditors, so the marriage started out as a very real money-lending process. Grandpa was the eldest son of the family, and had received several years of Japanese education, and knew Japanese and Mandarin, but in the old days, under the extremely patriarchal concepts, Grandma started her life as a bitter daughter-in-law after the marriage.
In my limited memory, my grandfather was a very formal and serious person, and when I was a child, I only dared to stick to my grandmother, and I often felt that my grandfather was not angry, so people did not want to get close to him, but my grandfather's attitude towards my grandmother was like that of our children, and my grandmother was often scolded for her role. Since I had no autonomy, I had to rely on Grandpa for my living expenses. Whenever Grandpa lost his temper, he never heard Grandma say anything back, and she was always scolded obediently and peacefully. The first time I saw this was when I was a grandson, but I didn't understand why my grandfather was so angry.
When I began to slowly understand, I often went back to my grandmother's house to talk with them, make tea, take a walk, because my uncles and uncles are living in a different place, only two old people are left at home, although some of the Taiwanese I still do not understand, and often have to explain to explain, but I like to stay with the amiable grandmother. Especially hand in hand to the village to walk, look at the flowers, look at the grass, look at the crops in the field stalks, but also look at the southern sun gradually set, this land records their seventy to eighty years of time, from a muddy field stalks, to the small stones and then turned into asphalt; stepped in the land on the pair of footprints clearly imprinted once, even if now wearing shoes, grandma is still accustomed to the stability of the feet on the ground.
Ten years ago, grandpa had a tuberculosis, all the children are clear and not optimistic, but grandpa with their own willpower and grandma's determination, and successfully through the difficulties. From that time on, I vaguely feel that grandpa has a little different. became more smile, do not love to sulk, and no longer often on the grandma big small voice, on the contrary, will go to ask grandma to do what will go there, grandpa began to stick to grandma, will also play a little temperament to say what to eat, the usual time on the fight, test each other's memory, the two often a bunch of grandchildren's names will be called the wrong way to make fun of each other's head is not smart.
I did not ask my grandmother if she felt the difference, but I somehow muttered - the original look of a sunny day after the disaster and ****.
But after another bout with tuberculosis, five or six years later, Grandpa faced another challenge, this time with lymphoma. I remember going to several hospitals at the time, but no doctors were willing to tell us it was cancer, and only vaguely explained that they would have to take a biopsy and open up the patient's stomach to find out what was going on. In the end, my grandfather had half of his stomach removed and started chemotherapy, and finally succeeded in his miraculous fight against cancer. He is now in excellent health, with only annual follow-ups.
There were two major tests during the few years of the Golden Wedding, and by the time this certificate was issued, more than 50 years had passed.
Thinking of myself as married for just over a year, I was unconsciously thinking about what it would be like to be with each other fifty years from now.
These are the first time I've ever seen a woman in her life, and I'm not sure if I've ever seen a woman in her life, but I'm sure I've never seen a woman in her life. But if you don't have the worry, the worry, the warmth and the process of experimentation, what will be left in life when you look back? Walking in the clouds of the snail Authorized to reproduce the original source juvenile husband and wife to be accompanied by the old