Properly consolidate development.
1, often recalling love: love is the forerunner of marriage, and the scene where men and women love each other and can't leave for a moment is really wonderful. After marriage, often recalling the love scenes before marriage can arouse the feelings of husband and wife, increase the romantic feelings in memories, and look forward to the future, thus enhancing the feelings of husband and wife.
2. Arrange another "honeymoon": The honeymoon at the time of marriage is the most intense period for couples. At that time, the two put aside all other thoughts and completely entered the love world beyond honey, enjoying the "Garden of Eden". After marriage, if we can make use of holidays and arrange "honeymoon" at different times every year, such as traveling in different places, recreate their love world and relive their past dreams, we can constantly set off waves of love and make the relationship between husband and wife stronger and stronger.
3. Celebrate commemorative festivals: wedding anniversary, partner's birthday, engagement anniversary, etc. It is an important day in the history of husband and wife's love. When the time comes, take appropriate forms to commemorate it, so that both sides can feel that the other side has deep love for themselves, which will play a great role in consolidating the feelings of husband and wife.
4. Compensation for past debts: Many couples failed to report their love in an ideal way when they got married, such as failing to go on their honeymoon and buying a decent gift for their lover. In a few years, when the conditions are met, remember to finish these unfinished things to pay off the debts owed in the past, which will make the other party feel that you are a very affectionate and loving person, and your love will multiply. For example, many gay men buy gold jewelry for their lovers after marriage, and many couples over 30 take wedding photos.
5, learn to please your lover: some men and women, when dating before marriage, always try to please each other, but after marriage, they no longer care about each other's feelings about themselves. This practice will hurt the feelings of husband and wife. Therefore, after marriage, lesbians should, as always, be gentle and caring for their husbands; Gay men should carefully understand the inner feelings of their wives. They should not only be considerate and caring for their wives everywhere, but also learn some skills to please their wives, such as being a senior consultant to buy clothes, helping her make a beauty plan and being humorous from time to time.
6. Create some unexpected surprises: Surprising each other unexpectedly often acts as an emotional "stimulant". So creating a little surprise is very beneficial to enhance the feelings of both husband and wife. If you don't tell the other person, you can meet his or her relatives in the distance, buy the other person something you really want, create an activity for the couple that the other person is not prepared for but likes, and so on. It can make unexpected surprises appear, make generate bloom strong emotional flowers in the surprise, and set off an exultant love heat wave.
7. Appropriate farewell: "A farewell is better than a wedding". After a quiet couple's life, consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate their yearning for lovers, and then be happy together. At this time, the emotional heat wave of husband and wife's thoughts can be interwoven into a happy reunion carnival, pushing the calm feelings of husband and wife to a new peak.
8, pay attention to their own image: some people, after marriage, clothing, appearance and so on. No more attention, no more pruning. Especially gay men, this problem is more serious. In fact, both husband and wife don't want each other to leave a bad image in others' minds. Therefore, paying attention to self-image can not only please each other, but also win face for each other in public. Otherwise, it may affect the feelings of both parties.
9. Prevent children from falling in love: Many couples, after having children, often put all their emotions on their children, often ignoring the emotional needs of their loved ones, especially lesbians. This practice is biased. It is necessary to give love to your children, but it doesn't mean that you should give up your constant devotion to your lover. That will not only neglect the lover, affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also cast a shadow over the family.
10, Love Time in Foot Bath: In the fast-paced competition of modern society, everyone is very busy with their work. Many people are too busy with official business to take care of their love life, so that couples often can't eat and sleep together, which affects the consolidation and development of their feelings. Therefore, no matter how busy the work is, we should skillfully arrange and make time for two people to live and fall in love together.
1 1, keep the freshness of sexual life: sexual life is an important way to contact the feelings of husband and wife, and good sexual life is a necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop the feelings of husband and wife. Many couples have the same sex life after marriage, lacking innovation, which leads to emotional passivation. Therefore, it is necessary to create a fresh way of sexual life. By changing the time, place and location of sexual life, both husband and wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sexual life and keep the flowers of feelings fresh forever.
12, leave some privacy: no matter how big-minded, people will be jealous of their lover's gossip. As for the other party's affair, it is even more intolerable, leading to a family crisis. Therefore, it is not a good strategy to "confess" the privacy in the past personal marriage history to the current lover. In that way, not only does it not help to enhance feelings, but it will bring avoidable emotional crisis. Therefore, keeping some personal privacy is a wise choice to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife.
13, beware of making friends with the opposite sex: it is normal for couples to have their own social activities after marriage. However, we should be careful to make friends with the opposite sex, and keep a sense of proportion when communicating, so that the relationship between the two can only be controlled within the homosexual relationship. For friends of the opposite sex who obviously like themselves or are even bad to themselves, we should actively alienate ourselves and rationally handle emotional entanglements. The best way is to take part in social activities as little as possible, and even if you can't refuse, ask to bring your lover. Especially in the case of the danger of "third party" intervention, it is even more necessary to do so to put an end to its unnecessary ideas. Support the cause of love. Everyone has their own business after work. Therefore, no matter the man or the woman, they can't just focus on their own careers and ignore each other's careers, let alone force each other to sacrifice their favorite careers to obey themselves. That will only hurt each other's feelings. Both husband and wife have the right to pursue their own careers and the responsibility to undertake family obligations. The correct approach should be to find ways to carry more family burdens and enthusiastically support your lover's career. If both sides can do this, they can eliminate contradictions and enhance their feelings.
14, mutual respect: everyone loves face. Criticizing your lover in front of others is the easiest way to hurt their self-esteem and affect their feelings. Therefore, we should learn to respect each other. The more people there are, the more they should flatter their lovers in order to win each other's favor. Only when husband and wife are together, you can give him (her) some advice and even make severe criticism, and the other party will feel the deep love reflected by your painstaking efforts while accepting it happily, so as to repay you with double love.
15, beware of financial crisis: after marriage, if you can't make ends meet, there will be a family financial crisis, which will affect the feelings of husband and wife. In some families, money belongs to a manager. If the financial affairs cannot be made public, family conflicts will also occur if one party's economic requirements are not met. These are all worthy of vigilance. Therefore, husband and wife jointly manage their finances, adhere to living within their means, be diligent and frugal, and be careful. Always keep some liquidity in hand for a rainy day. In this way, we can prevent the financial crisis before it happens, despite the emotional crisis.