A: It is difficult for adults to maintain friendships, mainly because adults tend to be more realistic, with families behind them, responsibilities, and more concerns, all of which make friendships need to give way to life, so it is difficult to maintain friendships in the adult world, and these difficulties tend to be life, reality, and unavoidable.
First of all adult friendships often need to take into account the needs of reality. Although friendship can sometimes help us solve a lot of problems, but everyone wants to "higher level", this mentality makes everyone want to become better, so that everyone wants to maintain is helpful to their own friendship, this situation in the long run, may be for those who really need to maintain the friendship caused by This situation may cause the neglect of those friendships that really need to be maintained in the long run, making the original friendship gradually fade away, and it will slowly become realistic. This is mainly due to the fact that reality forces one to make choices that one feels are in one's best interest, which ultimately causes some friendships to become difficult.
Secondly, behind adult friendship is family and responsibility. In adulthood, because of the needs of the family, as well as the need for their own responsibilities, everyone wants to have to think about their own family, so that the original carefree life had to be left behind. The original simplicity will be forgotten, may be sometimes because of their own consideration of the needs of the family, and friends may be because of some small interests on the intensification of the conflict, to their own and the friendship between the friends caused some unnecessary impact. Because behind the family, behind the responsibility, these make the original careless need to carefully consider, this consideration to maintain the friendship caused some harm, may cause the last friendship is not settled, the original friendship will gradually fade, so in this context friendship is difficult to maintain, may also think of the heart to maintain, but the actual action may be more in favor of reality.
Summary of the above, the adult friendship is difficult to maintain mainly because adults need to consider their own back family, as well as the back of the responsibility, which makes the friendship has to give way to life in many cases. Adults in the maintenance of friendship, try not to involve the interests of the maintenance of simple friendship, because if the friendship involved in the interests of the friendship may make the friendship deterioration, such friendship may not be able to maintain a long time. The only way to maintain a simple friendship is to add time to it, so that it can be sustained for a long time, and the friendship can be better and better.