A careful man is always too selfish. Such a man will rarely put himself in the shoes of others, will only see their own interests, but will not put the interests of others in the eyes into the heart. In his mind, his own interests are higher than everything else, even if his own interests are satisfied, he can rarely take into account the interests of others.
What is the performance of a careful man:
1, the fault is not in him
He will always show a look of no shortcomings, put the blame on you. Once something goes wrong, he keeps blaming you.
2. He wants to know everything about you
No matter how small it is, as long as it's all about you, he wants to know. Be careful, this may not be a sign of love, protect your privacy.
3, personality independence is not enough
The boundaries of their own relationships with others are not clear, because the personality is not mature to the extent it should be, in intimate relationships more need to seamlessly mix with each other as a way of proving their existence and value.
4, not enough security
Insufficient self-confidence, fundamentally the inner security is not enough, not enough psychological solidity, the need for external things to fill constantly.
Husband careful reasons:
Your husband or your boyfriend careful reasons may be very simple, is that you are too busy every day, and then will not pay attention to things at home, you stay together every day time is too short, or you are always with a male colleague relationship is so hot, so that he was jealous of, there is also that you are very strong, whether it is in the work or make money You are stronger than your husband in terms of work and money-making, so he doesn't feel safe and that's why he's getting more and more suspicious and careful.
Men's careful expression is different from women, women in the surface, and men in the bone. Think carefully, the man accuses the woman of being careful, nothing more than what suspicion ah, calculating ah, stalking and so on, in the final analysis is the majority of small things, the most people a little annoyed. And men, whether in the officialdom, love affairs, the family showed careful and big heart, but will make people afraid.