7 years ago, I Ma Xiaoshun, drove into the Arc de Triomphe in France, began my ascension to the university summer trip to France, and the title of the foreign country is different, after the trip I went back to study.
The day I graduated from college I had already achieved financial freedom. Not on my own, though. Obviously by my parents. Have a few million in savings already, I think, but don't have a personal car with a driver's license. Going to college has been very low key, went to a very average Beijing second university. I don't even have a date.
My mom and dad have a son, and the day I graduated, I went to my parents' factory. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.
Then from the ordinary workers to do up, in addition to a few big leaders inside the factory, no one knew I was the Prince. The parents also made a point of explaining that they would pretend not to know me. At that time, the factory salary is more than 2000, honestly, this money is not enough for my life, I want to go outside to live, but the economy is too tight.
The factory dormitory was very noisy, and at first, I couldn't sleep every day. But it is also slowly into their circle, drink and eat together and so on, plus I am basically the moonlight family, earn money are treating dinner, so in the factory I have a very good relationship, everyone is willing to make friends with me, eat, drink and play together. The food is not bad, that is, the wine are generally drinking more than ten dollars, this point is a little less adaptable, the taste is really not as good as my New Year's Eve at home occasional entertainment drink ...
They and I talk about how to steal some of the factory does not use the things, how to avoid the quality control, which leader has adopted a factory girl, the factory is not a suitable system, I also secretly remember, secretly think. The only thing I'm not too happy about is that the team leader of our workshop is always looking at me in a bad way. Always looking for my trouble, there is no way, I will secretly send him two more cigarettes ......
The factory is about a quarter of the factory girl it, which place people have. There are more from Sichuan and Guizhou. There are a lot of girls, but also in the factory to find objects, and then moved out to live. A lot of girls, just into the factory is very simple a person, not half a year it, out to live. Then wait for another half a year to quit and get married~ Honestly, I'm not too interested in girls, because their style of dress and the way they treat others are not quite acceptable to me. I like to moisturize this kind.
And then, all of a sudden, there was a new girl. She was very attentive to me. She and our general workers are different, she is a fresh college student recruited, into the factory went directly to the quality control, learning is a chemical industry. Wages are also much higher than our ordinary workers, about 4000 more. I once in the factory to send materials, go to the drinking fountain to drink water, workers generally put the cups, put near the drinking fountain, really too tired, I accidentally put a blue cup touched off the ground, and hurry to take to the wash, wash when she happened to come over to see. She said it was her cup. Then even recognize, she will occasionally bring me an apple, banana or something, ask me if I'm tired. I am also quite unscrupulous, so I said tired ah, or you give me a massage? She then looked at me helplessly and said okay ...... Of course, I won't let her press it, but I can feel her sincerity.
I don't know what she sees in me, after all, leaving aside my parents, I'm just an ordinary worker. Because of the identity of the reason, I ask myself to even the second bachelor's degree did not enroll, just enrolled in a secondary school. Once my line to do the product is not qualified, was her draw, because the yield rate is too bad, to fine, usually is a fine of 500. I looked at her, tears in the eyes, wrote the ticket. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to afford it, but I'm sure I'll be able to find a way to make it work for me.
It's not about writing her real name, I'm afraid people will recognize her.
Writing here, Wisdom Q&A surely some people say very much like a novel, real life is not the same as the novel, only more dramatic. And, it's not a novel. Just a memory of my life.
Just call her Kiki, for the sake of narrative convenience. Then after the chat, she called me aside at the end of her shift and secretly slipped me 500 bucks. At that time she had only been working for a month, I know she can't save much money ah. Of course I didn't take it. She threw the money at me and left. Honestly, I didn't care much when I wrote the ticket, because this person is never right, and I don't think she did anything wrong by writing the ticket. My paycheck is over 2,000 or over 1,000, and it affects me in the sense that I have to buy a few less meals and go out a few less times. That's nothing, we are all just working for the sake of work. And the quality control products are reviewed a second time, so there's no way she's going to play favorites with me.
But I do understand one thing. That is, 500 is nothing for me, but for Kiki it's a lot of money, and I'm just not stupid.
Qiqi looks not only not bad, but also quite beautiful, skin is very white, body is also very good, just do not like to talk, in addition to the occasional chat with me, the other workers she basically ignore, usually I'm old through the office glass, see her with a black frame glasses in the serious look at a variety of books, her table is also placed on a few very cute dolls, and a small plant, I do not know. But I didn't really want to find a date at that time. And she is also in the factory, I am also afraid that when I really enter the factory to take up any position, the factory people rumor out that I like to engage in the factory girl or something. So I could tell that she had some interest in me, but I didn't dare to express it. If I had met her in college, I really would have decided to fall in love with her. So then Kiki probably felt some of that too and got a lot colder with me.
They, the second-line ones, and our first-line workers are like two watersheds. Our first-line workers, the best work is a team leader. If the second-line workers do well, their wages rise quickly and they can easily get into the leadership. This is also a difference in class, and most of the second-tier workers are college students. The workers are less educated, and they don't have much to talk about.
The days were so much easier to get by, and I was ready to finish the year in earnest, analyze the factory's problems carefully and write about them, so that my father could see what room for improvement there was. Then I will be at ease to mix a casual job, and then a different perspective to observe the management. In fact, my parents, my education is always trying to let me try a different way of life, I'm very free-range, I spend money and so on, they do not mind, and even encourage me to invest in something, reliable or not it does not matter, as long as the control of a good degree on the line.
And then, all of a sudden, I realized that my team leader, who was particularly bad to me, was chasing after Kiki. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this," he said. This is the time to know the warmth of human feelings, usually I shouted at them to eat and drink are very good to me. As soon as they encountered such a problem, they brushed me aside. And the team leader started to put shoes on me again, deliberately finding fault with me. I was fined three times a month. I was very angry. The first thing I want to do is to make sure that I have a good understanding of what I'm talking about, and I'm sure that I'm going to be able to do that.
Then, there were other girls who said, "I'm fine, I'm just having a meal," he said. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get it right, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get it right," he said. The first thing I did was to ask her to do something about it, and she said, "I don't know what to do.
At the dinner table, the team leader kept trying to get her to drink. But she doesn't usually drink. So she didn't drink a single sip. Later on, she suddenly stood up and said to me, "I'll have a drink with you," and poured herself a glass of beer. Then she poured herself a glass of beer and looked straight at me. The people at the table were rather embarrassed, because just now everyone said a lot, she did not move the wine. I don't want to drink in this situation, I said: don't drink, girls drink too hurt the body. She just drank the glass of wine in her hand. Then, she said to me: I'm quitting this month. I didn't say anything more and drank the wine in my hand.
Then the set-up is understood, Kiki just drank a glass of beer, but was so drunk that she had to be assisted in walking. Usually on good terms with the leader of the group, they heckled and smiled badly at the eyes, to go to the hotel to give them both a room.
I this person although not what righteous youth, this time or to stand out. The result is very simple, I was a few of them beat up. For breaking the group leader's good deed. In the end, Kiki was sent back to the dormitory. The next day, when I went to work, I found out that Kiki had resigned. Honestly, I was quite sad in my heart.
It's a bit messy to write because it's a memory.
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Keep writing.
For the first time in my life, I got beat up. Although it did not beat me much hard, just a few people beat me a few punches, kicked me a few feet, but the heart is still angry. Lying in the bedroom to think about, tears almost fell out. So I went straight to the director of the workshop, explained the situation, I also wanted to see how he would deal with it, and then I opened my eyes.
The workshop supervisor led me to the team leader and started to scold us. Yes, that's right, he scolded both of us, taking me with him~and it was obvious that he was biased towards the team leader. In the end, he said to me: "If you want to do it, do it, if you don't want to do it, get out of here, the factory is not a place for you to fight and talk about love. And then pointed at me, and said: wages deducted 200, and then the same situation, immediately get out.
Actually, the cursing is worse than what I wrote, so I won't write about it, that's all.
He didn't notice it himself when he said it. The vice president of production, who was touring the plant, happened to come to our workshop and was standing right next to him. He might have noticed it, but the deputy plant manager wouldn't have interfered with anything like that. But the deputy director knew who I was, or rather who my old man was. His face was as black as a charcoal, and the man was an old man who froze and held his tongue. Turned his head and walked away...
Then, I suddenly smiled...relieved. It felt like everything around me was suddenly poked through a piece of paper. Really, it's that feeling of suddenly growing up. A lot of things were figured out. This society is like this, to say a perverted words, I feel that I received this beating quite worth it.
That night, my father called me and told me to stop working if I couldn't, and to come to the office tomorrow. I said, "It's okay, I want to continue.
The director of the workshop and the team leader, not long after the factory directly find a reason to dismiss. The few people who beat me, also went to transfer to do hard labor. The workshop director is actually still my father's old family, the year into the factory or my father personally called to arrange, but also in the factory for many years. Later, someone told me that the team leader is actually related to the director. But the old family can not beat the boss his son ah, and even more can not be punched and fined. I later heard from the nanny that the day I was beaten, my mom was so angry that she didn't sleep all night. After that day, my father never arranged for anyone from my hometown to enter the factory. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do about it," he said.
As for whether or not to fight back, retaliation and so on. Seriously, this kind of thing, our family can't do. If the one who hit me was in the same condition as our family. I can't even think of what my dad could have done to fight back. But if it's just an ordinary person, then it's a no-brainer. When I think about it later, I don't think it's a big deal. As for why, people think for themselves.
The occurrence of this incident also prompted an early end to my career as a laborer. But every day I go to sleep, a picture keeps appearing in my mind, a girl wearing a blue jacket and a white knit sweater, stood up from the wine table and looked straight at me with her eyes, and said to me: I'll have a drink with you. Thinking about it, damn, the tears can not help but fall down...
Many people say that the boss's son will not go to be a worker. But I really think quite a lot of ...... a friend of my dad opened a hotel, son graduated that year also went to the hotel to work, just started to bathe the guests hand towels open cabinets, and then the manager to see him quite a lot of muscle (played a period of fitness), said you go to the back of the scrub it, scrubbing the back of the higher wages than this, there is a commission. He rubbed his back for half a month, a month after the official work, vice president, deputy director of operations. The hotel is also quite large, belonging to the one-stop consumption. He also seriously told me how to rub the back to save energy.
As for Kiki's matter, my dad definitely knows. But he doesn't care. The reason for this is that he knows that Kiki and I are too unlikely to have a relationship. I'm not sure if I've ever been a young man or a young woman, but I'm sure I've been a young woman. As far as I know, the families around me that have a little bit of a career have very messy marriages. Two or three divorces are common. And let's not talk about mistresses. It's too shady. It's not just men, it's women too. So there is no good or bad in everything. Money is something that can give rise to many problems. Rich people don't necessarily have to be generous, and they don't necessarily have to live in mansions. My dad's friends, there are many who live in neighborhoods. Some of them don't even like villas. Those who have villas also have powerful dogs. If you ask me why, I can only say that we can think for ourselves. But plastic surgery is really more, more than 50 uncle's into a small fresh meat. 60-year-old aunt into 18-year-old face. This is all there, but you have to always maintain, otherwise old very quickly.
The factory is over, I went home and talked to my dad seriously about the problems I met. I even talked about Kiki. My dad and I basically talk about everything, he's usually busy, and sometimes he's not able to be home once, so the two of us can talk for a long time. I seriously thought about it, I went to work in the factory really does not serve any purpose, just waiting for death. And between me and Kiki, the more I tell myself that it's impossible for me and her, the more I think about it, and I don't even want to delete my cell phone number. My dad was happy to hear that, and felt that it was not easy for me to open up my feelings for once. He then encouraged me to just find her.
I went to the factory to work, in essence, my father is not to find any factory problems, or want to exercise me. My dad has made a lot of effort to develop my character, and he has let me participate in various activities since I was a child. As for marriage, my mom wanted me to find a good match. I've met a few people when I was in school, but I couldn't talk to them. The princesses of rich people, not many of them are oil lamps. The look is ...... hey ...... my father, there is a comrade's daughter, and I grew up in the marriage. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to find the right one, but I'm sure you're going to be able to find the right one, and I'm sure you're going to be able to find the right one. It turned out to be a boy and a girl. That little girl looks really beautiful, is to play small beautiful, but also special temperament, white rich beauty this three words I just see, will automatically brain into her. But after growing up, his father every time he came to our home, the girl did not come, a dinner party my father specifically called and said, you bring your daughter to come ah long time no see. As a result, his daughter was sick and didn't come. I thought about it, maybe she has someone else. His dad really wants to set us up, and he gave me the girl's cell phone number and everything. But I can't be Ma Wencai is not.
Then I called Kiki. She had quit her job over a month ago at that point. I didn't know if she had changed her number. Before making the call, I had already thought about what the consequences of my behavior would be. I felt that I could bear it.
Writing this, not only to find a tree hole to record this matter, but also hope to remind to the boys more simple than me, at all times, please retain the original heart, do not be blinded by their own body, like to let go to like, others may not even know who you are.
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The later will be recorded next time,
The past two days are busy, I take time.
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It's now noon on May 4, thanks for watching and for your kindness ? I'll update the ending tonight if there are 100 likes or comments without water ~ right here
(To explain, none of the comments section was posted by me. My intention was to record my own, a story of sadness in the midst of joy. Life is like that, even sadness has joy, even joy has sorrow. I was going to ask everyone how this story ends, but then I gave up and decided to write something practical, even though it might not be that thrilling and no one would like it. But here are all the real audience, I should record the more real self.)
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7 years ago, I Ma Xiaoshun, drove into the Arc de Triomphe in France, began my ascension to the university summer trip to France, car beauty wine and food, is my daily small dishes.
Everyone loves to make a wish in front of Notre Dame in Paris, but I prefer its back, that kind of mystery one by one even I this heartless rich boy can feel its sadness, maybe because of that clock tower monster, Quasimodo Quasimodo.
But to be honest, I don't believe in that kind of love at all.
Alexandria Bridge, representing the eternal aristocratic pride of the French at heart. Not far away is a bridge that reveals the emotional fragility of the French, a bridge I call the "Bridge of Locks", lined with locks of all kinds, each trying to hold on to an unattainable relationship, a gesture that to me is called "fragility"!
I love Paris more than the domestic environment (without any unpatriotic meaning), most importantly because of the ubiquitous romantic atmosphere, everywhere in the street lovers. I never imagined that in the first year after returning to China to study and graduate from the factory, I, the unforgivable prodigal son, met a girl who changed my life of debauchery.
The phone beeped thinking, as my mood, but also full of apprehension. There are a lot of feelings, we do not know where the future direction? And will we still go ahead and let go.
"Hey...Ma Xiaoshun, it's you." I heard the tone of her language also had a little bit of a small surprise.
"Yeah, that's right, it's me. Kiki, are you okay?"
"Fine."
Some phrases are omitted here.
"That, be my girlfriend."
"I don't think we're a good match, you're ready for someone to fall in love with and I'm looking to get married right now, I can't afford to play around."
"Suppose I beg you"
(The car didn't even drive itself, the car cell phone code, let's all have a meal together, and then update it after the meal, OK)
On the picture, a few days ago was wrongly blocked, there is still a need to update it... ...there are 3 people do not see ~
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Maybe it was a girly gesture, but anyway, after hearing the words "What if I begged you?", Kiki cried, and she sobbed over the phone, saying, "I'm willing to do it. Of course, I also left a mark of happiness, hidden in my heart.
On impulse, I told her, I'll come to you. If I like someone, I think it's to be so defiant.
Then I came back to Kiki's city, A City, and opened a small clothing brand with the little money Kiki and I had together. That is, in a shopping mall rented a corner, why I want to open a clothing brand it, because my family is in that city, wholesale clothing is very simple to hit the logo is also the scope of their services, wholesalers happen to be my father's comrades in arms. I just made a call and asked that comrade in arms to buy clothes.
Kiki also gave the clothing brand a nice name "shallow small cold" (not in reality, to avoid suspicion).
This is the fastest way to get rich that I can think of. I'm also seriously trying to figure out how to do some marketing. I still have some business talent. Then changed the place to a bigger venue, the business was finally revitalized by me... In the peak season, the daily turnover is more than 5000 points. At that time, I also counted the annual salary of 700,000 to 800,000 yuan, I think, but it is not stable.
The relationship between Kiki and I was slowly established as boyfriend and girlfriend, and she told me that when she and I got married, the whole hotel was going to be seven colors. Just like Zixia said to Wukong, to let Wukong marry her racked with seven-colored auspicious clouds, the stage must all be made into a big red, so as to appear festive, although a bit cheesy. The host of the wedding must choose a very ugly one so as to emphasize the groom's handsomeness even more, haha. I also feel that Kiki's and my personalities are quite compatible. We're both the kind of people who are easily satisfied.
A lot of things happened in those two years, I guess, and I've been thinking about whether or not to confess my family history to her, and my parents' side has been urging me to come home. But I was afraid that she would be angry if I told her, because I just started out by saying that my parents were divorced and no one cared what happened to me. Kiki's family is just an ordinary family, and I took the time to meet her parents. Her parents were pretty happy with me too. Even the house was bought, the head of household only wrote Qiqi's name alone, but also to her to pay the mortgage. I also made a good decision, in the future, just a city and home both run well.
Maybe the only problem, is to determine the wedding date.
By the way, the other heroine in the article, the daughter of my dad's comrade-in-arms, is called Liu Huiting. People don't need to guess.
The day of the wedding, I wore a big red groom's robe, the bride covered with a red head, which was discussed in advance. She likes Chinese weddings. I was held in my hometown wedding, a city know friends did not come to participate. The entire hotel was covered with colorful balloons and ribbons. I even had the waiters change the tablecloths to seven-colored ones. The entire wedding terrace was decorated in red. We had a huge ugly male officiant, but he did a pretty good job. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it.
Toward the end of the wedding, I took the microphone and said to the bride: I don't know how far away forever is, but I will definitely wait for you at the end of forever.
Looking up, the red curtain behind me was shining with lights bearing the names of the bride and groom.
Groom: Ma Xiaoshun Bride: Liu Huiting
(Noon break time to write, some rough, the night to the end, under the big handwriting big ideas big future)
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Continued writing~
Some people say they can't read anymore.
I took over my parents' factory, and it's still running fine.
Kiki took over the "Asako Leng" clothing brand.
And my daughter-in-law Liu Huiting and I have a 5-year-old son. The family has a nanny who works odd hours and lives in the most common three-bedroom apartment. Except for not having to cook and clean the house. It feels no different from before in a city.
Even I bought myself a 30,000 yuan Longines, my friends asked me how much the watch cost, I said the high imitation is not worth it. They didn't believe me, and I just looked at them and laughed, dementedly.
Kiki said that when she has money, she will buy me a watch of this brand.
I remember, I have not forgotten.
The year after I confessed my life, both parents as well as Kiki and I were at loggerheads, what happened in between, let's just pretend I've forgotten, maybe I've been dead since that year.
I just remember, there was a girl, wearing a blue jacket, white knit sweater, suddenly stood up from the wine table, eyes straight at me and said:I'll have a drink with you.
One evening my son was out playing with his buddies and was late coming back, when I went to look for him, he had an extra shirt in his hand and shouted, "dada, back."
I was just about to scold him for not being good, why didn't he come home when all the other kids had gone home. The first thing I did was to ask my son if he could find a way to get to the top of the stairs, and he said that he would not be able to get to the top of the stairs, but that he would not be able to get to the top of the stairs, and he would not be able to get to the top of the stairs, and he would not be able to get to the top of the stairs.
I carried my son on my back, who was tired of lying on my back. The sun is about to set, from the west side of the clouds through the last bit of light on my face and my son's face, our face was printed extraordinarily red, which is like two silhouettes, ~ Liu Huiting waited downstairs, she was looking at us quietly smile.
I walked slowly, step by step, closer to Liu, and could clearly feel the weight of my son getting heavier and heavier. It was still light, but I was especially careful to step firmly with each step. Because I knew that what I was carrying on my back would be my entire future world.
--The first half published in Zhihu, the second half of the end in the wisdom of this article, all rights reserved @ from the job Q user: anonymous user
Very normal psychology, in fact, is that she is mentally unbalanced, and can not yet be accepted, this is not a smart person to do things. If you feel that friendship is important then treat her with sincerity and sensitize her, if it doesn't work then move your brain and turn your wrist. After all, those who do not obey their subordinates, are slightly lacking in leadership skills! In fact, to put it bluntly, the crowd is the same as the animal species, there is only one leader! From job Q user: Mr. Xie