Being born in a family, a child has a lifelong influence on children: a child with a good family atmosphere has seen what good feelings are, has a keen sense of love for health, and is easy to run in a good direction. And those children who grew up in the cold war when their parents quarreled don't know what is good. It takes a lot of effort to kick away those bad feelings, and it will take many years to know which way is right. From the moment we choose marriage, we should assume the responsibility of being parents, manage marriage with heart, cherish marriage and let a child grow up in a healthy and loving environment.
In the marriage of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband is like a link connecting two entrepreneurial women. When the two sides disagree, if he can stand up and mediate between them, it will be a big deal and a small matter, instead of ignoring it. Generally speaking, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be too stiff. Smart men always know that "husband-wife relationship" is the center of the family, and they will not let their parents interfere too much in the life of husband and wife, and they will come forward to discuss with their parents when they meet anything. Because the safest relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to keep a certain distance, respect each other and be polite to others.
Complaining that some people are unhappy because they are always comparing with others and complaining constantly. If you always compare with others and are used to complaining, you will only feel that you are in a sad situation. People can't expect to get all the benefits of this world. Choose what you love and love what you choose. This is the secret of long-term happiness.
Communicate with many couples, busy during the day, and finally go home from work to brush my mobile phone. Without communication, * * * has little in common in language, and two people who should be close relatives are drifting away. The distance between heart and heart is far away, and it is more difficult to understand each other. Once there is a contradiction, it is just impatient. The necessary ability to manage a marriage is "communication", willing to share every bit of life with each other, and knowing how to endure your temper when quarreling. Couples who can communicate effectively can have a happy marriage.
When they grow up, some women begin to focus on their children and family after marriage, giving up their previous career interests and thinking that giving blindly is the best love for their families. No more dressing up, no more reading, and life is rough and perfunctory. I gradually lost my enthusiasm for life, and I got less and less care from my husband and children for a long time, and the ending was usually unsatisfactory. A woman's home is always her own. Don't give up on yourself too early, you must dress yourself up, improve yourself and care for yourself. You are valuable and your love is valuable.