Some of the elderly character is not very good, but more has been molded, it is difficult to change, such as stubborn, greedy for small gains, petty, mindful of the small, when the matter is calculating, etc., do the children have to understand and do not need to blame.
According to the characteristics of the elderly, with reference to the following methods, looking for opportunities to create opportunities for the elderly to find more joy, in order to relieve loneliness, loneliness, physical and mental health of the elderly has a very big role.
For the elderly, the best way to maintain health, is to be happy, happy and happy every day, relaxed mood, can reduce the pain of the disease, relieve all kinds of depression, which is conducive to the recovery of the disease, and even rehabilitation and healing.
However, for most of the elderly, want to be happy, happy but unavailable, all day a melancholy expression, such a later life, is bound to be very low quality. Family has the elderly, do children's necessary to create conditions so that the elderly can live a happy life, is very important to the elderly physical and mental health.
For the urban elderly, generally have more or less pension, do not have to worry about life, so seek happiness, is a health care professionals must learn.
As an old man living in the city, there are many belonging to no spouse, or have a spouse with children, but no time to accompany the lonely and isolated category of the elderly, these people go where to find happiness?
We based on the current situation of ordinary life in the city, analyze that the following ways to solve the boredom of the elderly, to find happiness happy, the elderly or children can consider choosing:
1, the city, generally divided into many streets or neighborhoods, the vicinity of the usual live a lot of residents, of course, there will be a number of elderly people. The elderly more, get together, should be able to some *** with fun, for example, tea and chat, chess entertainment, square dance, etc., can add a lot of happiness.
2, some of the elderly character is more withdrawn, do not get along, then listen to the opera (some old people especially like to watch Beijing opera, comedy, etc.), read novels, now hot short video, funny and wacky what content, can also bring some joy.
3, some of the elderly have a certain talent, you can also do self-media, and the audience across the country to share your talent, can get a very good sense of pleasure. If there is no talent, you can also share your current ideas, experience and insights, etc., enjoy it, as long as not to earn money as the purpose, can get a good sense of achievement, I often see the elderly in their respective media platforms to do the video.
4, often with the family, relatives, friends call, send video, talk about family life, mutual concern and greetings, can also eliminate many feelings of loneliness.
5, the body at any time with some candy, you can gather some of the children in the neighborhood to play, can retrieve some of the feeling of youth. As long as you do not give in to old age, the mind is not old, you can happen a lot of stories.
6, many of the elderly are skilled, can be hired back to participate in the work, participation in the work can obtain a certain income, produce a sense of achievement, mainly to eliminate loneliness and loneliness.
7, there is a skill of the elderly, in addition to rehiring, you can also use this specialty, to make more like-minded friends, *** with the same fun, generally have similar personality traits, and often get along with each other, such as painting and calligraphy, history, religion, fishing, health and so on.
8, some of the elderly, the body is not very good, a lot of time a year to stay in the hospital, the hospital management is now very strict, hospitalization are not given to leave the hospital, then more exchanges with the same room of patients, in addition to learning more about health care, but also relieve boredom is not?
9, some of the elderly state is relatively poor, some conventional methods, have been unable to implement, then there is a trick: self-indulgence. How to entertain yourself, it is often personalized, according to the old man's hobby to determine. For example, some elderly people also like to chase the star chase drama, like to listen to the voice of the idol, then let him chase it, as long as he likes.