At this point, a person's life, work, but also in the peak state, to the age of fifty, basically is in the state of retirement. Especially women, according to the 55-year-old retirement, to the age of 50, there is no work motivation, the future of the cause, there is no head start, work is almost three days fishing two days sunshine net, on the day counting one day, sitting and waiting for retirement.
The man may be a little better, fifty years old, but also want to work a little harder to promote a little bit, and strive in ten years before the retirement of sixty years old, to enjoy the treatment of departmental or departmental level, or earn a little more money.
So a person, at the age of fifty, is really not young anymore, and many rural women, at the age of fifty, have become grandmothers. However, fifty years old, whether the year is not young, mainly depends on their own mind and spirit. Although, from the age point of view, fifty years old,, not young, but also depends on their own mentality and which age group of people to compare, if with sixty or seventy years old than, still young, if and twenty or thirty years old than, it is the aunt and uncle of the generation.
And, if the mentality is good, fifty-year-old woman, live with the same as the thirty-something woman, still live a very dashing, some fifty-year-old woman, maintenance with the same as the twenty-something girl, good figure, beautiful, plus dress fashionable, will look younger, plus a better mentality, still show young, will not think she is old.
Some of the women around me are in their 40s and 50s, because they have a good mindset and dress exquisitely, plus they like practicing yoga, and their bodies are maintained very well, and they look as good as a girl in her 20s, with a good mental outlook, skin, a momentary temperament, and demeanor, etc, which is also better.
Of course, there is another factor here, that is, there is a harmonious and happy family, and the family has money, because, only if you have money, you will buy good cosmetics, only have the capital to do beauty and cosmetic surgery, only will not be every day for the oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and the trivial life of the bondage, there will be no anxiety, and more will not be because of the lack of money, can not be for the children's house, and worry about the son can not marry a daughter-in-law, and so on, you have money to travel, to fitness, and to the world, you have money to travel, to fitness, to the world. You have the money to travel, go to the gym, go to play and so on.
Dear self, this year you are fifty years old, congratulations! You have spent half a century in peace. No ups and downs, but gained a lot of valuable life experience.
Looking back, it has been half a lifetime! Since then, yesterday's days are more and more, tomorrow's days are fewer and fewer, I know you will be a little gloomy because of this. Yes, "the flow of light is easy to throw people, red cherry, green banana", the poem of a "throw" word will be the ruthlessness of the years is expressed to the fullest! Once upon a time, you are still a young and unprofessional mud child it, the blink of an eye, has been two sideburns stained with frost half of the old man!
Remember when the first white hair appeared on your head, was 38 years old, the kind barber carefully helped you pull down, you twisted this white hair in your hand, the heart has a feeling of sadness. With the growth of age, gray hair was a prairie fire, more and more, until now hair is full of "traces of snow". No one wants to serve the old, but the years are a pig killer, whether you are a dignitary or a grass, who can escape it? So you have to know clearly: youth has been like the sunset before the moment of the evening sun, fading away! Though helpless, let's accept this reality gladly.
Dear yourself, looking back at the first half of your life, cried, laughed, disillusioned, complacent, uncertainty, struggling ...... years in the bag has been filled with sweet and sour, bitter, spicy, salty and other flavors of life, although there is no impressive achievements, but did not fail to live up to the life, especially for many years of work, but also should be in your life! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new job, and you'll be able to do it.
Of course, sleep and sleep work also let you miss a lot of opportunities to accompany the growth of their own children, the good thing is that the children since childhood, not to worry about adults, grew up both involved in the tide of reform, learned to start a business, learned to be a person of truth. The child's excellence is also considered to give you great psychological comfort! I also have regrets that I didn't help bring up my eldest son well, and didn't do a good job of guiding him. In today's fashionable words, the years have not spared us, and you have not spared the years!
Dear yourself, now the 50-year-old you, although you have entered the fall of life, although the years in your body carved the vicissitudes of life, although the old age of the various discomforts will come from time to time to "invade" a bit, but I feel that your state of mind has quietly changed!
At the age of 50, the edges of your youth have been rounded by the years, and your temperament is tolerant and easy-going, and you are no longer in a hurry to compete with each other when things are not going your way, but you laugh it off. You have always appreciated what Mr. Yang Jiang said, "Inner calmness and composure is the most beautiful scenery of life", and now you have felt that "calmness and composure" in you.
50 years old, you have a deeper understanding of life and sense, know that the happy days know life, understand that there are some things are not forced to come, do not think that there should not be non-thinking. Whether it is prosperous or deserted, the scenery that you have seen should not be too attached.
50 years old, you have felt that the world's bustle is someone else's, with their own relationship is not great, began to like to live a quiet life, realize that happiness is hidden in the simple plain, "the taste of the world is pure joy!
You are 50 years old, you cherish friendship more than ever, because you know that friends are the most beautiful encounter in life, is able to enter the depths of your heart and your warm embrace, help each other to walk together for a lifetime! Let the world be troubled, walking in the crowd of people who understand you, "three or five friends sitting, light tea talk about family life" is always the most pleasant thing on earth ......
Dear yourself, you have some plans for the days after 50 years old, right? At your age, most of you are in the awkward stage of having children and grandchildren, and so are you. The kids are in the start-up phase, and it's hard to steal a moment's leisure to enjoy the joy of "bringing up the grandchildren"!
The oldest and the youngest are still alive and well, so I don't know how I'm going to be able to afford it. So in the future you have to cherish your body more, health is gone, nothing is gone. leisure time, you have to continue to maintain the good habit of reading, because reading can help us out of the narrow self, to appreciate the vastness of the world, in the trivialities of life to us a peace, a quiet. If the occasional inspiration to knock on the door, you also want to code words at the right time to "feel"! The world is so big, more walks, more to see, in order to appreciate the different scenery, experience a different flavor ...... to do a lot of things, dear yourself, busy it, so that your dull days brighten up!
Dear yourself, I remember that someone once asked you, "You are now considered to be clothed and fed, feel happy?" I know you like two kinds of statements about happiness, elegant is: something to do, someone to love, have something to look forward to, is the best state of happiness; vulgar is: the greatest happiness is nothing more than the daytime can be talking and laughing, and at night you can still sleep a good night! You replied: the understanding of happiness varies, just as there are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's minds, but with less desire, there will be more happiness, "If there is a peach blossom garden in your heart, where is it not between water and clouds"? I agree with you: less desire, more happiness!
Dear yourself, time is like water, the years have no trace! Although the length of life is shortening a little bit, I sincerely hope that you will restart the new voyage of your life with confidence at the age of 50! Remember: one must get better as one gets older! Even if you are far away from the flower season, but the blossoms are scenery, but the flowers fall into a poem, I hope that you still laugh at the clouds, blossoms and flowers fall, no matter whether there is a poem in front of you and a faraway place, you have to live the day into the shape you want! 2019 is a new beginning, please keep the good in the bottom of your heart, and let the annoyance go with the wind! Borrowing from the popular saying at the moment, I sincerely wish you in the coming days: there are songs, love, and a warm home; there are poems, dreams, and a frank and distant place!
May the time not grow old and the years be still!
Love you to me!
What a joke, fifty-year-old people certainly belong to the middle age! In the past, China's division of middle-aged and old people is sixty years old, now with the improvement of living conditions, people's physical condition, mental state, etc. tend to be more youthful, sixty-five years old before all belong to the middle-aged.
Physical fitness. Fifty-year-old men and forty-year-old nothing different, eat, drink and play, dashing, energetic, healthy, not at all due to the decline in physical aging affect the life and work. Therefore, the government has introduced a new policy to delay the retirement age of men to 65 years old, which also shows that men at the age of 50 are still far away from retirement and old age. The same is true for women, although just or about to enter menopause, but the overall quality is better.
Appearance state. Modern people live in good conditions, pay attention to maintenance, many people in their fifties can not see wrinkles on the face. I have a female colleague, she went to school to visit her daughter in high school, the teacher asked: "Looking for your sister? "Wrong mother and daughter as sisters.
50 years old really old? This question is a good question. In my opinion, each step into the 50-year-old wheel, there may be different answers. Some say they are old, some say they don't feel old at all, and some have never even considered the question.
For those weathered people, 50 years of life storms, whether it is bumps, or setbacks; whether it is good times, or adversity, there is nothing more than premature mental aging is more likely to make people show their age. Because people live, rely on the spirit to sustain the energy of life, support the entire mental world of the spirit. Therefore, all the mentality is not good, life attitude negative people, less than 50 years old has felt their old.
For those who have a better mindset and a good physiological quality, 50 years old is still full of energy. Though they may have experienced some setbacks and disappointments, but due to the development of good living and working habits, and maintain a stable rhythm of life, instead of letting the body and mind are to maintain a healthy development. People like this type of people, even to the age of 60 still feel very young.
Growing old is a natural process. But for people in their 50s, the natural aging of the physiology is an unchanging law. If physiological aging is coupled with a bad mindset, it will soon make a person age rapidly. There are some people who have no passion for life when they are 50 years old, and the only thing they can do is to look forward to retirement, and then, and then again, to spend the rest of their lives aimlessly like that.
According to the United Nations World Health Organization's new standard for age classification, 18 to 65 years old are young people, 66 to 79 years old are middle-aged people, and above that is the elderly. In this way, 50 years old is not even considered middle-aged, of course, different times and different environmental background, there are different standards of measurement. In China, many people define the age stage of 40-50 as middle-aged, so a 50-year-old may belong to the middle-aged in terms of age.
But everyone's perception of age is different. Although everyone's age is fixed, middle-aged and old people can have a young and energetic mindset, and can enjoy a vibrant life that is not limited by age. My grandmother just turned 50 this year, and there is an age difference of about 10 years between her and my grandfather. She is not my real grandmother, my real grandmother died early due to illness. When my grandfather married my grandmother, my father and my brother-in-law were half-grown children, and we all resisted my grandmother at first. But after marrying Grandpa, Grandma has been treating Dad and his younger uncles as if they were her own, and although she is still young, she has never had a child.
Years of living together also let the father and younger uncles understand the grandmother's motherly heart, so they have been treating the grandmother as a real mother, I also like the grandmother. Grandpa usually always likes to have a serious look on his face, but grandma is amiable and lovely. Even though she was already 50 years old, she had a great conversation with us youngsters. When I was in high school, grandma even chased the stars with me and went to see our idols' concerts together. When I went to college I taught my grandmother how to send red envelopes for online shopping, and she learned quickly. Now, she is fine will also occasionally look at the live broadcast and talent show variety show, often said to support which young lady little brother.
Every time I talk to my friends around me about my grandmother, they are all surprised, and they probably didn't think that a middle-aged man in his 50s would have such a cute side. Perhaps because the mind is too good, so the grandmother's physical condition has been good, she basically does not have the common back pain of people of the same age, we shop together, she is more than I can shop, shopping for an afternoon shopping malls are not red face not gasping, she is also very fond of sports, in addition to the occasional dance, will often follow me to do the health of the yoga and pilates.
In fact, sometimes we always have a stereotype of a fixed age group, we feel that 50 years old is the middle-aged people, it should raise flowers and tease the birds, dancing, or around the grandchildren. But everyone is an independent individual, everyone is different, 50 years old can also be in the prime of middle-aged people, and even can be fresh and lively young people, you are which kind of people completely by your own decision!
Personally, I don't think fifty years old should be considered old age, or dare to call themselves old. Then middle-aged it, of course, can not be counted again, because the usual middle-aged people is the age of 35 ~ 50 years old between the people, after 50 years old, obviously has been over the age of middle-aged people.
Then, why do you say that it can not be counted as old age?
Because, as the average life expectancy continues to increase, the average life expectancy of domestic citizens has almost reached 77 years old. 50 years old, now for the average life expectancy of 77 years old, this figure, indeed, is not old. Now the real old people, at least should refer to the people after 65 years old. And people between the ages of 50 and 65, a little more reasonable, should be called "middle-aged" more appropriate.
Besides, in real life, people who live past 80 years old are already more, and those who live to 90 years old are not uncommon, and those who live past 100 years old are no longer rare. From this point of view, 50 years of age, also seems to be just over the middle age, indeed, far from reaching the point of old age.
Then, why is it that people of this age are still afraid to call themselves old people?
First of all, 50-year-old people, we are basically still active in their respective jobs, not at all to wait for the appearance of retirement. And the unit or, post or, in addition to some innovative enterprises, they are still basically the main force in the work. In those who are basically already in the semi-retirement state of fifty-eight, nine years of age in front of the veteran employees, of course, they do not dare to call themselves old people.
Secondly, this age group is in a typical period of old age and young age. Especially for people who have given birth to two children, that is even more special. The real old man in the family is seventy some eighty years old parents; and the child, if it is the only child, may have just graduated from the university not long ago, most of them have not yet started a family; if there is a second child, the small child may be just about ten years old, eight years old or so. You say, this state, who dares to call himself an old man?
What's more, the economic pressure on this age group is still very high. There are several reasons: First, most of them should be a house slave, the body is generally carrying dozens, hundreds or even millions of mortgages, every month still have to earn money to pay back the loan; secondly, there are generally four old people in the family to support, to take care of; fourthly, the adult child to get married, marry, minor children still need to be raised. These four, each of which involves money, property, materials and other expenses and costs, which is not easy.
Therefore, 50-year-old people really do not dare to call themselves old people, because they do not dare to grow old at this point in time.
And then in a special appeal, please society, please more understanding, support and treat people around 50 years old. Because, whether it is work or life, whether it is social activities or family affairs, they are really not easy.
Is 50 really old?
I was born in 70, and I'm almost 50. When I think about it, I really feel very emotional, most of my life is so passed. Sometimes, also ask myself, really old? To be honest, as far as my personal self-perception is concerned, I am not old, physical health, no problems, quick thinking and quick reaction, good memory, speak logically, good communication. I have a good memory, speak logically, and communicate well. I have a strong ability to resist pressure at work, and I am not inferior to young people in terms of high intensity and high efficiency. And, still independent study, learn English, also learn to write.
But I think I'm getting old--
I think I'm still young, still 20 years old. But the number of times I was called auntie when I went out was increasing, and I consoled myself because I had the temperament. The head of gray hair can not cover up, every month to dye. This should be the family genetic, my mother very early gray hair. The first time I saw this, I had to go to the hospital to get a prescription for a newborn.
My family is also reminding me of my old age, my husband had a stomach hemorrhage a year ago, and his health is not as good as it was before, so I have to get up early to buy groceries and cook, and I have to take care of three meals a day. My mom, who has long suffered from heart disease and high blood pressure, was also diagnosed with diabetes last year, which is worrisome.
Most of all -
In the company, I have become the eyes of others almost retired people . I'm surrounded by colleagues from the 80s and even 90s who are almost as old as my son. Although, I think avant-garde is not outdated, language and clothing is also trendy, usually we communicate without obstacles. But when you go out to play together, you can see that there is a disconnect, and they are automatically grouped according to age, and my age is the oldest one.
And then there is the good-natured joke, envious of my early retirement to enjoy the happiness, or go home with grandchildren, there is no need to study or advance, there are any opportunities to try to let the young people on.
I was also asking myself, should I be old?
I'm energetic and fit, and I've been working at the desk for 30 years, and I have no problems with my lumbar or cervical spine, unlike my younger colleagues who often cry out in pain and go to the hospital.
It's a waste of time for myself and society if I retire at the age of 50.
So, I adjusted my mindset, set goals for myself, prepared for a few years in English, and this year I want to get a certificate; then I intend to learn some courses online, and start writing about life. If possible, then consider the idea of entrepreneurship, is ready to start doing after retirement.
Lastly, perhaps the age of the old, the appearance of the old, people around you view you old, but they can not recognize themselves as old. There is a pursuit, have a dream will never be old!