Some people say that "friendship comes from **** the same cause", some people say that "at home rely on parents, go out and rely on friends", some people say that "in times of trouble to see the confidant, the fire refining real gold". ...... I feel that this variety of "say" how to reveal the "principle of practicality" and "principle of exchange"? In fact, the real friendship does not rely on the cause, fortune and status, does not rely on the experience, status and situation, it is in the nature of the rejection of utilitarianism, rejection of belonging, rejection of the contract, which is between the independent personality of the mutual echo and confirmation. It enables people to be alone but not lonely, and to interpret the meaning of their existence to each other. Therefore, the author believes: friends are those who make each other live more freely. Hubbard, the English poet, said: a friend who is not something we want is a true friend. Visible, the real friendship should have "nothing to ask" nature, once there is something to ask, "ask" has become the purpose, friendship has become a trinket. Let friendship share the sorrow, let friendship deepen the exchange, let friendship to promote the work of ...... so, friendship seems to have become a busy tool, then it itself and what is it? Should be for the friendship to remove the burden, but also let the friends easy up. A friend is a friend, and there is nothing else to be desired. Li Bai and Du Fu hated to see each other, but their farewell was so hasty. Li Bai's farewell poem is: "Flying puffs are far away from each other; let's finish the cup in our hands." Since then, he never met Du Fu again. The sentimental Dufu was always in thoughts of Li Bai after the farewell, and often expressed in his poems. Li Bai should have been pining for him too, but Du Fu's name never appeared in his poems again. There seems to be a great imbalance here, but friendship in the world is not conditional on balance. Even if Li Bai is no longer pining, Du Fu has made a unilateral and wonderful commitment. Li Bai wants nothing from him, and he wants nothing from Li Bai. Friendship is profound because it wants for nothing, regardless of whether they are balanced or unbalanced. What is true friendship? Some people may say, "Friendship is 'brotherly love'." This is not true friendship. True friendship is a close bond that people build on mutual understanding and trust in their interactions. It gives people understanding and trust, joy and strength, inspiration and progress. For thousands of years, there have been many, many examples of this kind of true friendship that gives understanding, joy and inspiration. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya were good friends, but each of them served his own master. Later, when the prince Bao Shujia served was appointed as Duke Huan of Qi, Bao Shujia recommended Guan Zhong to Duke Huan of Qi as his minister, but he himself was willing to live under him. Under the assistance of Guan Zhong, the state of Qi grew stronger and stronger, and eventually became a hegemon who "divided the vassals and ruled the whole world". After his success, Guan Zhong said with great emotion: "I was born by my parents, and I am known by Bao." Since Marx and Engels met in Paris in 1844, the two men *** together for the international ****productivist movement, in the struggle to form a sincere and selfless friendship. 40 years, they sincerely cooperate, close, in all major issues of the same view, *** together with the writing of many classic works of scientific socialism. Even when they lived apart, they corresponded, exchanged ideas and supported each other. Both men were proud to know each other, and their friendship transcended ordinary friendship and became a great story in the history of the international ****productivist movement. Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai met in the spring and summer of 1932, and they understood each other very well at first sight. From then on, they fought side by side to promote the revolutionary cultural movement and formed a deep friendship. During the White Terror, Qu Qiubai took refuge in Lu Xun's home, and later Lu Xun gave Qu Qiubai a place to live and allowed him to publish miscellaneous essays under the pen name of Bai Zhi. Lu Xun wrote a couplet written by Qu Qiubai himself, "It is enough to have a confidant in life; in this world, we should look at each other with the same heart". After Qu Qiubai's death, Lu Xun insisted on publishing the "Sea Forest" for his friend to express his deepest condolences. The above three stories tell us what true friendship is, and it is naturally indispensable for young people at the beginning of their lives. Friendship is a priceless treasure in life, a bright light in life, a brilliant flower in life. Let us sow friendship with sincerity, and let the sacred flower of friendship bloom forever with passion and understanding.
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