Happiness is the sand in your hand. If you hold it, it will run away slowly, but if you hold it too tightly, it will run faster. Therefore, in the face of the ever-losing sand of happiness, we need to master the degree.
First, happiness needs to be carefully maintained in our life, and we always feel that we deserve it. Whether it is the result of our hard work or our happy marriage, we always feel that these have become a part of our lives. Since it is our own, there is no need to maintain it carefully.
In fact, this mentality of not cherishing happiness is slowly letting the happiness you already have pass away with time. Happiness is not laissez-faire, but needs careful maintenance.
Second, happiness also needs living space. Our attitude towards happiness directly determines the time when happiness exists. We can't let go of happiness, nor can we hold it too tightly. Happiness is like sand in your hand. If you hold it too tightly, it will leave you faster.
Happiness also needs breathing. In fact, happiness, like us humans, needs living space for its existence. If you hold on too tightly, the breathless happiness will definitely leave you. Therefore, we hope that happiness will always accompany us, so we need to give happiness room to breathe freely!
Third, moderation can maintain happiness. When breathing freely, we also need to pay enough attention to it.
Happiness is not that you don't need to care, but that you want to get moderate attention. In the process of maintaining happiness, we should remind them of your existence from time to time while giving them free breathing space. Only in this way can happiness feel your relationship and love. You should let happiness know, you know it exists, and you hope it can get better!
Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think of my above views? You can leave your opinion in the comments section.