If you're trying and reaping the rewards, bless you, it's getting better.
Times never lack of hard work, or people who are constantly learning, there are always people who are better than you are still working harder than you, and do nothing but you are still in the same place, blindfolded in the drum.
Someone said: can be seen effort, are superficial.
High school you can see the classroom hard study, others are also the same in the hard study, but you can not see is that other people after school in order to stagger the dining hall peak still stay in the classroom more than half an hour to study, you can not see is in the dormitory bed under the small lamp buried in hard work of them. You think you have been very hard, in fact, far from enough.
To the university, you think you can be emancipated, get into a good school outside of their own has stood at the top do not have to work hard, failed to get on the college entrance exams on the preferred university that life is hopeless again and again to give up efforts. The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the company.
Time, the university to the end, you will find people's university how so colorful, how so full of harvest, and their own years as if yesterday and today's distance to nothing. You begin to agonize, begin to be anxious, and even begin to self-abandonment, but you think you will be better off if you give up?
The cruelty of life is much more than that, and such cruelty is what you gave yourself four years ago.
I have always believed in the words of Aristotle, "What we do day in and day out determines what we are like".
It's not hard to find examples that confirm this quote.
At the beginning of the year, a story appeared on all the major news websites.
Because of the restructuring of highway toll stations, the Tangshan Municipal People's Government announced that from January 8, all toll stations stopped charging, a large wave of toll collectors were forced to leave, and a group of toll station employees and government staff conversation video was uploaded to the network.
Among them, a 36-year-old female toll collector made an impressive statement.
"We can't learn things, than the 20-somethings are slow and inconvenient, all do not like us such a labor force ...... I can't do anything now, I will charge."
I really can't believe that this is a thirty-something years old people say out words, that is the life of the struggle period should work hard to continue to learn the stage of ah, how to charge in addition to what will not be it.
The opposite of the above is that early this year, Alibaba released a recruitment, once the fire network: the recruitment of 60-year-old product experience officer, annual salary of 350,000 ~ 400,000 yuan.
The masses of people who have been living life to the fullest saw this recruitment with a flirtatious mindset, "I've already recommended it to my mom, who loves to square dance." ; "How can there be such a good thing?" ......
However, in fact, these old people who went to apply for the job, is a group of what kind of people?
The grandmother, who graduated from Tsinghua University, is probably older than me in terms of online shopping, and knows a lot about blockchain and Internet products; the 62-year-old uncle, who can do PPT, PS, H5 pages, has his own public number, and has his own self-created online "Fraud Prevention for the Elderly" course, and has more than 10 years of online shopping experience, 7 years of experience in the Internet, and more than 10 years of experience in the Internet, and more than 10 years of experience in the Internet. The first time I saw this, I had to go back to the office to get some experience in shopping.
They don't have any advantage in terms of age, learning ability, or energy, but they still manage to reach a level in their old age that many young people are ashamed of.
I think the reason for this is that they never stopped trying new things, kept progressing, and did not stay in their comfort zones all the time, trying to keep up with this new era and not lagging behind.
In this era, one of the most terrible things is to keep a "stable" dead wages to mix life, but also comfort their own ordinary valuable, but did not realize that they are quietly abandoned by the times, abandoned by their peers, and even abandoned by the people older than you.
When you are 20 years old, you can jump from job to job without any obstacles, choose your favorite, and have no fear of earning a lower income, so you can love your job.
At 40, you don't have to worry about the impact of sudden unemployment, unexpected family changes leave you penniless, and you are able to sleep well at night.
At 60, your body is still healthy, your diet is good, your children are filial, and your bank card balance gives you a sense of security.
And all these, give up life is very difficult for you to realize. What kind of life you lead in the future lies in how you spend your minute in the present.
In the explosive article "Mobay founder cashed out 1.5 billion: your peers, are abandoning you" some time ago, the author, Wang Ear, said, "If you have a little slack, you will be left behind. Even if you stay where you are and you grow slowly, it's a step backward. Don't ever go through each day on cloud nine without loving money, working hard and hustling when you're young."
For a long time I was ashamed to talk about my love of money, for a long time I was taught to think that love of money is something to be ashamed of, but when I realized that money is something essential for everyone and should be earned, I felt sad and shameful for my previous thoughts. Young people should love money, or everyone should love money, to be precise, they should love to earn it, to earn it by their own efforts and through the right channels. In their own capacity, to give themselves and their families the best, I believe that at least the material above is to rely on money is able to realize a large part of the material rich at the same time your spirit will also pursue better, the same, money will help you realize the basic.
I know, see here there will be a lot of people refute, say what "more money can not buy love", who said that the rich can not have love, the fact is that the rich love more cool and more happy good, no money to support the love is just a plate of loose sand, so, earn money is right. Young people should love money and for the right effort, full and hard.
I certainly believe that some people really do not like to work hard, is really like the status quo, I will not say that you are forced to constantly struggle. If your family of origin is certainly not bad, do not worry about food and clothing, and mom and dad young and healthy, not too many younger siblings reading expenses, you only need to pay for your own food, clothing, housing and transportation every month, so you just do not want to work too hard, then you may be entitled to so rest on your laurels. But also wish you in this peaceful world has been always been, blessing wish good.
Then, as its ordinary you and I, the family still have younger siblings to study for money, mom and dad years old also to the retirement period of our efforts to keep don't slack, okay? Every effort you make will be seen by this era, she will reward you, if not, it's just that the time has not yet come, I believe that in the road you continue to work hard, you will always reap the benefits that you have always wanted to use but never had.
We move forward together hand in hand, and strive to walk together, the future you will certainly thank the present efforts of their own, the times will also secretly reward the silent efforts of you.
In the end, I hope that what you wish for can be realized.