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Autumn Ceramics once starred in "The Temptation of Going Home", Lin Pinru, a weak character, honest, dressed in rustic, poor, how are not subject to the snobbish mother-in-law's treatment. Her mother-in-law often ordered her to do all kinds of chores, treating her like a free nanny and picking on her from time to time.
Lin Pinru married Hong Shixian, for her mother-in-law, it is simply a high-class, in the mother-in-law's heart, simply do not recognize this marriage. That's why it was so hard for Lin Pinru's marriage to last and she finally had to leave home.
Why is it so hard to maintain a marriage that your mother-in-law doesn't recognize?
Because the mother-in-law doesn't see her daughter-in-law in a good light, doesn't look down on her daughter-in-law, and even feels that her daughter-in-law has taken away her wonderful son, that's why she will make trouble from it, and mess up her son's and daughter-in-law's marriage. In the end, the daughter-in-law couldn't take it anymore, and that's why the divorce ended.
Tong Min came from a poor family in the countryside, but she worked hard to get ahead, studied hard, went to college, got out of the countryside, and relied on the energy of serious work to reap a sizable paycheck in the big city.
Despite the fact that this salary is not a problem at all, her mother-in-law is strongly opposed to the idea of marrying her boyfriend.
The reason for this is that the boyfriend's family is not the right kind of family. His family is a businessman, and his family is not short of money, and he is an only child, so if his parents leave in the future, he will be the only one who can afford to buy his own property. So his parents are guarding Tong Min like a thief, worrying that her impoverished mother's family might be eyeing their property.
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Tong Min thought this was hilarious, could being rich make you look down on people so freely? So Tong Min proposed to break up, Qi Da is not a spouse, not worthy of your family.
But the boyfriend didn't want to break up, he looked at the personality of Tong Min, thought she was different from other girls, and proposed to get married.
Tong Min told her boyfriend: "Your family is really rich, but I don't want to live in your family's contemptuous eyes all the time.
But I didn't realize that less than half a month after the breakup, Tong Min found herself pregnant, and her boyfriend decided to get married after learning the news. Tong Min is very torn, not yet married, unmarried pregnant, more in-laws look down on, but if the child is done, and hurt their bodies.
Days like this day by day, the fetus gradually grew, the mother's family also said, married, the in-laws will change the attitude, even if the marriage before you can not see you, but not to look at the face of the monk to look at the face of the Buddha, married, is a family.
Tong Min was half convinced, but still agreed to get married.
After getting married and living with her in-laws, she was subjected to the so-called house rules every day, where she couldn't get up late in the morning, and women couldn't go out to meet their friends as they wished, so she was supposed to teach her children and do housework at home.
Even though Tong Min is pregnant, she has never enjoyed the life of a one-day queen.
If her husband had been nicer to her, her mother-in-law would have spoken in a strange way, saying that she had married a daughter-in-law and forgotten her mother, and that she was a demon.
If your husband gives your child a dish to eat or puts on the bath water, your mother-in-law will be jealous and say something like, "Don't you know how to do it yourself? Men are not your lackeys."
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Despite the fact that she gave birth to a son, her mother-in-law still didn't want to see Tong Min and didn't want to take care of her during her monthly cycle. The mother-in-law called her mother to come to serve her, and her mother-in-law said, "My dear mother, this is very expensive, so be careful not to break it," and "My dear mother, you need to wash the dishes more often, because they are greasy, and you country people need to be hygienic, or else you will get sick in your stomach. "
They are all talking about Tong Min's mom being a country bumpkin, as if country bumpkins come to her house to take advantage of the situation. Tong Min held a bellyful of fire, if not for the mother to stop, really want to dislike the mother-in-law. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," she said, adding that the company has been working on a number of projects in the past few years.
After the first day of the month, my mom went back and left me alone to take care of the kids. My mother-in-law still chooses to dance or play cards when she's not busy, but she doesn't want to help her with the kids.
The mother-in-law said to the women in the same neighborhood, "Whoever gave birth to the child, did not earn a penny, just know how to spend my son's money, and do not do a good job of bringing up the child, do not want to bring up the child, then divorce."
These words reached the ears of Tong Min, angry to death, and then because of a small matter, Tong Min can no longer tolerate, and the mother-in-law had a big fight,: "You just can't see me, and feel unworthy of your son! Well, I go, divorce on divorce, who cares about your family's money. I don't want the money, but you have to pay to raise a child!"
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Originally, I thought my mother-in-law would give in and restrain her harshness, but I didn't want to, and my mother-in-law still wouldn't let me go: "No one is stopping you from getting divorced. The fact is that my son will still be able to marry an 18 year old girl if he is divorced, and you will have a hard time getting married again."
This kind of in-laws really can not continue to stay, Tong Min do not want to continue to entangle with them, leave on the divorce, to fight for the child custody, as well as child support, leave this kind of ruthless in-laws, better than anything else.
Some mothers-in-law, very snobbish, look down on their daughters-in-law, no matter what the daughter-in-law, she will not change her mind, will not be better for the daughter-in-law. Because in her eyes, the daughter-in-law is not worthy of her son, rather than the pain of marriage, it is better to stay away from such in-laws, even if the family has a mine don't marry over.
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