Certainly there will continue to look for an old partner, but I suggest that it will not be deliberately to find, meet the right person, can be accompanied, but not necessarily to get married, there is no *** with the desire to procreate, there is no *** with the creation of wealth, marriage is just a piece of paper. Since both people have the need for companionship, they should treat each other sincerely and look out for each other, otherwise it really is better to be alone and more free.
There are three main reasons why I don't want to get remarried: one is that halfway couples are unreliable; the other is that I have to face the complexity of the second marriage "family" relationship; and the third is that I have a colorful spare time nowadays and I feel that I won't be alone.
One is that halfway couples are unreliable. Some of the old people to get married is money, often see on TV 70-year-old, 80-year-old looking for 40-year-old or 50-year-old nanny, often small nanny and other money to get the house, regardless of the old man dead or alive, making the old man ended up miserably passed away; some of the figure is someone to take care of the older body functions decline, not the same with the sweetness of the * * * suffering and * * * married couples, care for one or two days can be, a long time on the beginning of the The complaint is widespread, the so-called "long time before the bed is not loyal husband (wife)", so this figure money and care of halfway couples are not very reliable.
The second is to face the complexity of the second marriage "family" relationship. Entering into marriage is a combination of two families, remarriage of the two sides of their respective original have children, because they just find their parents spouse has no emotional basis, can not establish cordial family relations, if encountered in poor economic conditions of a party in need of medical care, it is estimated that their children will have a problem, so that contradictions naturally arise; on the other hand, the family property inheritance issues, the elderly couple's property because of the other side of the child There is no support relationship, that should be inherited by their own children when they pass away, so that there are many second marriages of poor economic elderly party gone after their own fall into a homeless end, because their children have taken the old man's house, so second marriages need more to be sensible can not just talk about feelings, and sometimes you have to take into account the interests of the nature of the second marriage.
Three nowadays there are colorful spare time everywhere, feel alone will not be lonely. I think you can plan to travel to different beautiful scenery in the country every year, such as the heat of the day to go to Yunnan so that the four seasons like spring Lijiang stay for ten days and a half months, cold days to go to Sanya, Hainan, such a sunny place to stay for a month; usually and three or five friends during the day shopping, drinking tea at night, but also can play the piano, dancing, singing karaoke, yoga, running, reading books and so on. A person's life can be both busy and full, very nourishing not lonely, do not need to find another companion and spread a bunch of trouble.
So in the first half of life, we may pay for the children's family, the second half of life, we should learn to run their own good to start a free and easy life, do not need to look for a partner, adding to the trouble, do as you like to do things they like to do on the very good.