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The Internet is a popular phrase, the month of hatred not **** Daitian, outsiders read there is always so a hint of the effect of watching the show, but only those who have experienced it know, which contains how much helplessness and bitterness, if you can, who want to have a grudge with people, but in reality, there are a lot of mother-in-law do not treat their daughters-in-law as a family member, but a nanny's vision to The first thing you need to do is to get a good deal of money to pay for the work you've done, and then you'll have to pay for the work you've done.
And every mother-in-law with this kind of thinking can't handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, and it even affects the relationship between son and daughter-in-law.
And unfortunately, Yueh-Lan's mother-in-law is this kind of person.
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When Yueh-Lan's mother-in-law, Li Hui, broke her leg, Yueh-Lan was happy to know.
I don't blame Yueh-Lan for being too cruel, Yueh-Lan really can't mention anything good about this mother-in-law of hers.
When Yueh-Lan married her husband Chen Dawei for three years, she suffered the anger of her mother-in-law for three years.
When she married Chen Dawei without asking for a penny for the bride price, the man who swore he would love him for life, between Yueh-Lan and his mother, every time he did not hesitate to choose to stand on his mother's side, and turned his head to persuade himself to put up with it.
And the mother-in-law has never blushed at Yueh-Lan since the beginning, because in her mother-in-law's opinion, Yueh-Lan is the cheap daughter-in-law who married, and feels that Yueh-Lan can't live without Chen Dawei, the woman.
So after Yueh-Lan gave birth to her daughter Niu Niu, her mother-in-law didn't even think of taking care of Yueh-Lan and her mother and daughter, not only did she not take care of them, but she also asked Yueh-Lan to be responsible for the family's diet during the month, and the food that her mother-in-law buys every day is also very poor, and the only meat is given to Chen Dawei, and sometimes Yueh-Lan would like to eat it, and when the chopsticks just reach out to the past, her mother-in-law purposely coughed more than one, and talked about scolding, which has made her aware of what is in the mind of her mother-in-law. The first time I saw this, I was able to get a good look at my mother-in-law's mind, and even if I had a craving for it, I wouldn't eat it again.
But Yueh-Lan is breast-feeding, she can bear, but the child's nutrition must keep up, so she will let Chen Dawei secretly bring her some nutritional supplements from time to time, and then was found by her mother-in-law, she pointed at Yueh-Lan nose scolded, said she is not good for laziness, but also to make his son behind his back to secretly buy a good meal, have not seen such a lazy woman!
When Yueh-Lan heard this, she was so angry that she went straight back to breastfeeding, and the baby was so hungry that she screamed.
Mother-in-law heard the baby crying and scolded Yueh-Lan: "You can't even feed a baby enough milk, what's the use of a ru house, you might as well cut it off!"
Originally, the mother-in-law did not help herself in the month even if, but she also had to point fingers, dislike themselves this and that, coupled with the daughter did not have to eat, already aggrieved heart by the mother-in-law after a scolding, rubbing the burn, she did not hold back, and the mother-in-law had a big fight.
This time, the mother-in-law called Chen Dawei and told Yueh-Lan off.
Chen Dawei listened to his mother-in-law's words and complained about Yueh-Lan. When Yueh-Lan asked him to bring him some food, he deliberately found an excuse not to bring it anymore.
Yue Lan was so angry that her chest hurt and she had a cold war with Chen Dawei for half a month.
Chen Dawei saw that Yueh-Lan did not admit her fault, and also disregarded the fact that she was in the month, the child did not help to bring up, and the household chores were no longer shared, Yueh-Lan's monthly illness fell.
03
Now, as soon as the weather turns cold, Yueh-Lan's joints are like keystrokes restarted, and her body aches.
And every time she thought about it, there was no way to calm the anger in her heart.
So when her mother-in-law broke her leg, she was kind enough not to run to her bedside to gloat.
But things went beyond Yueh-Lan's imagination.
Mother-in-law asked Yueh-Lan to go to her bedside to serve herself.
Yueh-Lan refused without thinking.
Mother-in-law was so angry that she scolded, "You are the daughter-in-law of our Chen family, it is only natural for you to serve your mother-in-law, there is no place for you to refuse."
"I won't serve, what can you do to me, I am married to Chen Dawei, not sold over, want me to serve you, dream on!" Thinking of her mother-in-law's attitude towards herself, Yueh-Lan was on fire, but her mother-in-law was good, she really thought she was a soft persimmon to pinch, and actually had the nerve to ask herself to serve her.
Chen Dawei also followed to persuade Yueh-Lan to take care of her mother-in-law, and said that the daughter-in-law of the family must not wait for her mother-in-law, and that Yueh-Lan would be poked and prodded if the word got out.
Yue Lan snorted coldly, what is there to be afraid of, if a person has gone through what she has gone through, she is still afraid of other people poking her backbone? For those who don't know right from wrong, why should she mind what they think.
Because of Yueh-Lan's insistence, Chen Dawei had no choice but to hire a nanny to take care of her at home.
But the nanny has more eyesight ah, see the mistress of the mother-in-law does not seem to be very interested in, gradually also do not so interested, every day is a perfunctory work, it is difficult to Yueh-Lan's mother-in-law, because of the fall of the leg, can not move, lying in bed all day, sometimes want to drink water, called half a day no one to answer.
At first, she also asked Chen Dawei to change several nannies, but gradually she can't do it anymore, because she knows that another nanny is the same, as long as Yueh-Lan does not pay attention to, sooner or later, they will observe, and at that time, she still want to fall into no one to take care of.
The mother-in-law, who understood this, could no longer be tough in front of Yueh-Lan, and even had to look at her face sometimes when she talked to her.
And Yueh-Lan won't be able to forget what she suffered during the month just because her mother-in-law talks to her more politely. Although she doesn't hate her mother-in-law that much, it's impossible for her to shake hands with her.
04
It is said that to enter a family are destiny, we have to cherish, but the reality is that many mothers-in-law will not feel so, do not take their daughters-in-law as a family not to say, but also want to make their daughters-in-law, not only want them to give birth to children, but also asked them to take care of their husbands, as if this can reflect their value, but forget, in a family, everyone is not redundant, and the family will be able to take care of the children's needs. The fact is that the government has not yet started the process of making a decision on this matter, but it has been able to do so in the past few years.
The role of the mother-in-law is particularly important.
When the young couple first formed a family, the mother-in-law's help, such as giving birth to a child, and helping the daughter-in-law during the month of birth.
It is said to help each other, only the mother-in-law's help in the early stage, in return for the old daughter-in-law's return, if they are like the text of the mother-in-law, in the daughter-in-law most in need of help time do not help even if, but also disruptive, dislike of, it is very easy to end up in the text of the mother-in-law's fate.
Is the daughter-in-law cruel? No, the hearts of the people are meat long, you honor others a foot, others will return you a ten feet, so if you want others to be good to you, first you have to be good to others.