Many people say that women take advantage of their youth to marry a good man, from now on is to enjoy the blessings, do not have to struggle. In fact, this is a blasphemy to the modern woman.
On the outside, it looks like the women who are really doing well are actually working very hard behind their backs, very hard. You can only see the bright side of others, but did not see her hard work, picking lamps overtime moments.
For example, Gong Beibei in "Anjia", with the title of female doctor, working in public hospitals, to have visibility, career and family.
While she looks like a woman of honor to outsiders, only she knows that she drags herself home in the dead of night, after her family has fallen asleep.
Back home, you can't rest immediately, you still have to find time to write your thesis, the narrow house, not even a separate study, you can only squeeze in the bathroom, turn on the computer, pick the lights.
This is the unknown side of Gong Beipei. In the big city, there are too many women like Gong Beipei. Because they are not satisfied with their current living conditions, they can only work hard and aspire to improve their living environment as soon as possible.
If you meet a struggling husband, you can still reduce the time you spend struggling, but the fact is that not every woman is so lucky to meet a man with a strong desire to get ahead.
Most men, like Su Chunyi in "The Snail's Dwelling," are likely to get by with their lives and stay in their original positions for several years, forcing Heping to work part-time as a Chinese language teacher.
There is no such thing as a woman with a good life, but a woman with a really good life who has fought her way to the top.
A reader commented, "I'm not happy earning 20,000 a month, and my hair falls out when I'm stressed."
Yes, what's so strange about this, married women, which has the so-called quiet years, all seemingly calm, all the dark tide, implying a defiant heart.
She said:
I work and live in a first-tier big city, married to a husband in bad condition, the job income is not very high, I, before I got married, and did not feel the impact of not having a house will have a big impact, until after the birth of a child, I just suddenly realized that the rent house, too suffocating.
Rent is rising day by day, I would like to change a two-bedroom, so that my mother-in-law to help with the child, you can live alone in a room, but my husband did not agree, said two-bedroom is too expensive, but also dislike of me: and said that you want to buy a house, you spend more money every month to pay rent, how to buy? Wait until you save enough money, the price of housing has gone up to nowhere.
Husband will only mouth to say, but never thought to struggle, mother-in-law, said that I said to take care of the child, in fact, only to help with the daytime eight hours, to the evening, after dinner, the time she is going to go to the square dance.
Sometimes I have to work late to go back a little late, her face is not good, mouth muttered: "How come back so late?"
The implication was that she was delayed in her dancing.
My heart is in the right place. If I had the financial means to put the kids in care, how would I have been able to look at my mother-in-law's face every day?
In order to change this difficult situation as soon as possible, I work three days a week, Saturday also rush to work overtime, when I rest at home to read the writing, to some of the big v articles, the money is to earn a lot, but I myself is exhausted. Other than that, my hair alone fell out a whole lot.
Seriously affecting their own face value, sometimes my husband will take the ugly words to sarcastic me, I feel aggrieved, if it is not in order to improve the conditions of existence, hope to buy a house as soon as possible, I need to be so hard? I'm not sure if I've ever had a good time, but I'm sure I've never had a good time before.
Later, my girlfriends see me so hard, always advise me: women spell spell, but do not forget to maintain ah. Men are very realistic, wait until the wife is old, early aging time, but he changed his heart, you can be on the lookout oh.
I heard, I think it makes sense, so, only to pay attention to hair care hair up. Never let your hair continue to fall down, or new hair has not grown out, the old hair fell almost, then my image is not a big discount?
When I thought of this, I was shocked inside and decided to start working on my hair care.
Heard of a called Lemao hair root nutrient solution, for hair care has a certain effect, especially for serious hair loss.
After understanding, this nutritional solution is a plant extract, which can strengthen the hair root, replenish the scalp with nutrients, regulate the scalp oil, and reduce the occurrence of hair breakage and hair loss.
Isn't this exactly the effect I want?
It's easy to use too, just apply 3-4 drops 2-3 times a day to areas with severe hair fall and massage gently to promote absorption of the nutrient solution.
Women will make money, but also to spend money, good to themselves, learn to love themselves, men will love you.
Once upon a time, I only thought about saving more money to buy a house, but when it comes to the necessities of life, to buy for the husband and children never wavered, but when it comes to buy for themselves, but extremely harsh, in order to save money, wear a company uniform every day, shirt and skirt, monotonous clothing, can not afford to do hair, every day, will be tied up, do not know, the hair fell out of the big one, and gradually, the hairline have begun to move back! The first time I saw this was when I was in the middle of the night.
Whether a woman is starting to age, the hair is the first to tell you the answer, not to deceive people.
Fortunately, I came across this Lemao Hair Root Nutrient Liquid, which is a good gospel for women with high stress and serious hair loss.
It can nourish hair follicles and repair damaged hair roots. With more hair, people look young and energetic, and their confidence comes back.
Later, the leadership assigned to me a few projects, although the pressure is a little bit big, but after the completion of the most likely to be promoted and increased salary, so that my house will have to fall.
Later, my project was successfully completed, and I was promoted to a higher position, and my salary went up. With my savings, I was able to buy a second-hand house, and my dream came true.
The woman who is married, and married poorly, where there is the so-called quiet years, all rely on their own fight.
Women in the struggle at the same time, do not forget to treat yourself a little better, and strive to make yourself a rich and colorful successful women.
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