Need to communicate with your mother-in-law in advance, after all, living in a different era, the concept of education of the child is certainly not the same. As a mother-in-law, the face of the child, the doting component of the majority, this time as a mother, you need to rationally look at the mother-in-law on the child's education, from which to find out where the two can fit, it is best not to because of the different ways of parenting differences in the differences between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, affecting the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
One of the main
As the mother of the child, and the mother-in-law in the parenting style of disagreement, if some of the smaller problems can choose to turn a blind eye, do not worry too much and mother-in-law. For example, mothers-in-law like to hold the child, by rocking the child to sleep, but some mothers like the child lying on their side to sleep, this is just a different way, for the child's future growth has little impact, the mother does not need to count.
Children usually like to wear what clothes, or mother-in-law to the child to wear their own good-looking clothes, but in the mother's opinion do not like the time, this time as a daughter-in-law is the need to back down, after all, everyone's aesthetics are different, as long as there is no let the child freezing, wear what clothes is irrelevant.
Mother-in-law, after all, is the past, in the care of children's problems is certainly a lot of experience, as a daughter-in-law, only need to grasp the focus on it, such as the child's education, as well as usually the child's living and eating habits, etc., and once the error is found, you can correct it in a timely manner, so that you can get along with your mother-in-law.
Two, the correct mindset, respect for the elderly
Mother-in-law with children, is sacrificed their own old age to take care of the child's diet, for the elderly, care for the child is also a tiring job, but the elderly are willing, this time as a daughter-in-law is required to be grateful. Usually in the education of the child, not in front of the mother-in-law, often remind the child to do what they can do by themselves.
When I get along with my mother-in-law, I generally accommodate her, as long as it does not affect the healthy growth of the child, basically will not say, even if the mother-in-law's parenting style has a problem, but also will be alone and mother-in-law rational communication, try to find a mutually acceptable point, so as not to have a contradiction with the mother-in-law, but also conducive to the harmony of the family.
Some elderly people may not have good habits, or because of the difference in the age of life, so for some of the mother-in-law's small habits can not be recognized. For example, the mother-in-law will use her own chopsticks to feed the child, and use her own mouth to kiss the child's mouth and so on, this time as a daughter-in-law can be communicated with the old man alone after the fact, said that the disadvantages of doing so, the mother-in-law for the child will pay attention to.
Three, let the elderly life colorful
My mother-in-law and I together with the child, my mother-in-law is not every day only around the child, but also have their own life. She would go to the square dance in the neighborhood, chat with her friends, and sometimes participate in community activities, and if I was busy, I would let my mother-in-law take care of the child.
This will not only make my mother-in-law feel respected, but also will not cause conflict because of the problem of parenting style, but also make the old man's life colorful, the old man is happy, the family will also be harmonious.
The relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law has been a big problem since the beginning of time, especially in the way of parenting, it is normal to have differences. as long as they communicate with each other, so that the elderly in the child, but also to have their own life, not all day around the child, so that the elderly will not be all the mind on the child, and the daughter-in-law's contradictions will be a lot less.