Time flies, I have to live comfortably in my sixties, and I have to understand some truth.
First of all, as children to support the elderly, as parents to support their children, as husbands or wives, such as Qi Mei, should also respect each other and join hands for life.
In addition, we need to pay attention to the following three points.
As the old saying goes, children are blessed with children and grandchildren. Excessive intervention in children's lifestyle and habits may get the opposite result, but it will make children feel bored.
When a person is young, he may seek the help of adults and parents around him to help him eat, walk and even sleep.
But after puberty, due to physical and psychological growth, people will be more and more eager for freedom in the second development, hoping to get rid of the restrictions of their parents and have their own perfect life, so if their children.
Too much intervention after marriage will only cause children's disgust.
On the contrary, we can use this time to enrich our spare time, such as dancing square dance, feeding birds, growing flowers and grass, playing chess and so on.
The first half of my life is full of trivial things. In the second half, you must learn to look down and put it down.
Give children enough time and space. When they encounter big things and want to consult and ask for advice, they will naturally come back to find themselves.
People are called advanced animals, not only because they can have their own thoughts, but also because they can learn to control their actions.
It is undeniable that everyone has worldly desires, but after living for most of his life, he should know how to control his emotions and exercise restraint when appropriate.
The so-called idea of not crossing the border with the opposite sex around you means that when people reach middle age, they have the burden of family and the responsibility of being a wife and husband. A person should learn to be responsible for those who love you, or for those who love you, and learn to exercise restraint when emotions that violate ethics and law and discipline appear.
In the TV series Everything is Fine, Su Daqiang crossed the line with the nanny around him, which eventually brought him a series of troubles and almost led to the tragic ending of family breakdown. In the end, he can only let his daughter Su Mingyu clean up the mess.
Therefore, after the age of 60, we should learn to maintain respect for the opposite sex around us and get along and communicate in a reasonable social environment.
In recent years, social news has reported many times that the elderly have been cheated of pension money because of various health care products. In fact, it does reflect that some elderly people in society lack care and are deceived by various reasons, but on the other hand, it also reflects that some elderly people lack guidance and methods in managing personal property.
First of all, we must establish a sense of fraud prevention. Many things in people's life are dealing with money, but it is because of money that they lose some ability to see the truth clearly.
Secondly, you can manage your personal money through reasonable and effective financial channels, such as buying government bonds or bank deposits.
Finally, when using your own money, learn to discuss with people around your children and ask for opinions and suggestions from others.
Try to avoid taking on everything by yourself for fear of disturbing children, and do things in an orderly way. Only in this way can the elderly be reduced from being cheated.
If you want to live a comfortable life, you must have a big pattern.
After the age of 60, learn to look down on some things, don't haggle over every ounce in life, and don't interfere with children's housework.
Only by learning to restrain yourself and respect others can we gain more friendship and affection. Finally, you should learn to think twice before you act. There must be a certain method to manage your own finances, and you can't listen to others at will.
Only in this way can we live a good life according to the lifestyle we want. The harvest is complete and happy.
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