Content introduction: Before loneliness is confusion, after loneliness comes growth
“For a long time, I spent too much boredom, pseudo-sadness, and pseudo-satisfaction by writing. I'm really confused. I care about details, but I'm considerate and kind. When I say I like it, I really don't know how to answer. Sometimes I pretend to be calm or smile happily. Being incompatible with this world, constantly fighting, learning to obey, and observing calmly, we finally understand that we should not be participants in other people's worlds, but the builders of our own world."
This book records. 33 kinds of loneliness, hoping to remind you of your own selfless and invisible growth. Finally, I hope you are less afraid of being alone than others, and I hope you will be moved by yourself when you think of it in the future.
After reading the review, I may not be able to understand it at the beginning, but the subsequent content becomes more and more attractive. My previous impression of Liu Tong was limited to "Jobs and Jobs", but through the book, I saw him Completely different from the one on TV. He is also lonely, speaks delicately, loves to cry, and is like a girl... (not in a derogatory sense...) Of course, part of the credit is due to his Chinese major. As a senior on the road of loneliness, writing and media, he is worth learning from.
2. "All Lonely Planets Meet" by Zhu Xi
Content Introduction Dreams are never something grand and beautiful. It is just a pitifully shriveled seed under the heavy soil. Even to others, if it does not bloom into dazzling flowers in the end, it means nothing. But I myself know what kind of sea of ??stars resides in my heart. I just know it myself.
The inspirational girl Zhu Xi’s growth insights, girl’s love and dream scenery on her way to study in a foreign country. This is a book of courage to face the world alone, given to everyone who goes there alone. Because we are fearless, our youth is different.
Comments after reading: Although it is related to dreams, it is not chicken soup. The writing style is Japanese, and it is quite empowering. The writing is excellent in terms of youth literature theory.
Content Introduction The world is so big, but you and I are so small. How should we behave and get along with each other? Milk Tea Rene Liu spent a year exploring and reflecting on the truth about herself and getting along with others. She is you, she is me, and she is every one of us who has lost ourselves and forgotten the beauty of being alone in various relationships.
"I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms" is Rene Liu's latest written work. It includes Rene Liu's long confession, dialogue with eight friends, and 53 selected photography pictures, exploring the relationship between herself and getting along with each other.
"Looking back now, before production, arranging to write this book on the topic of "being with oneself" and "getting along" may, to me, be like Che Guevara's "Motorcycles on the Eve of the Revolution". Like "Journey", before entering another stage of life, through conversations with friends, you can re-examine your life and try to find the path you may take in the future."——Rene Liu
After reading. Comments on this book "I Dare to Be Lonely in Your Arms" is a new book written by Milk Tea when she was pregnant. With the theme of "being with yourself" and "getting along", she not only shared a lot of her thoughts and insights about life, but also about being alone and with others. The unique perspective of getting along also allows you to see a different and richer three-dimensional version of her, the one who has a great sense of humor, knows how to play online games, and is anxious before giving birth.
Under her leadership, we saw her conversations with 8 friends. You will know that Lu Guangzhong turned out to be a "Huangdi Neijing" controller, Chen Qizhen did not spend more than one hour online a day, and Mayday's Stone I have never traveled alone but studied alone... Through the words of Milk Tea, we see how these singer-songwriters, TV program producers, stage directors and psychological counselors understand "being with yourself" and "getting along" .
Content introduction "Lonely People Must Be Full" is a collection of essays about food and emotions. This book is divided into four parts: Chapter 1 is a healing food story; Chapter 2 is an inspirational essay; Chapter 3 introduces the origin of food; Chapter 4 is a weird food fairy tale.
Each article revolves around an ingredient theme and vividly tells stories of warm food emotions.
No one can live without the fireworks of the world. All love, hate, fame and wealth are just a cloud. In life, it is better to just have a good meal. Only good food will not reject lonely people. When you are lonely, please give yourself the best comfort. While you are still able to eat, go through everything you can eat, cook, read, listen to, and love.
This is a heart-warming and appetizing collection of essays, a different Zhang Jiawei. There is a dish in everyone's heart. If you don't eat it for a long time, you will miss it. Everyone will have a little loneliness in your heart. If it doesn't change for a long time, you will get used to it. There is a person in everyone's heart. If you don't see it for a long time, you will miss it. He (she)...
After reading this book, I think it should be called "healing food literature". Mr. Zhang loved cooking and had a lot of experience. He traveled around and tried to grasp the temperament of food in various places. He said that the chicken in French supermarkets is aggressive, that the taste of saffron is unfriendly, that mutton is a gentle and gentle gentleman's meat, that pig's trotters stewed with soybeans are too affectionate and affectionate... All the ingredients have their own characters in Gongzi's writings. Poetically vivid and enriched.
In addition to the food itself, what is more important is the people behind the food. When you eat carefully prepared food in your mouth, you can taste the good intentions of the maker.
This book tells the stories of many little people - the spicy-tongued stinky tofu grandma and the "dead old man" grandpa, and the owner of a large intestine noodle shop who paid money to deliver takeaways to people stuck in traffic jams after heavy snow closed the roads. , an Indian boss who is obsessed with researching spice recipes in the Alps...
There are many little interests mixed in - when I was a child, I thought that ducks could lay salted eggs by eating salt, and my friends cut winter melon as watermelon. He also wondered whether the flesh of melons was white, and Mrs. Fang Xuanling drank poisonous wine to defend monogamy, creating a "jealous" allusion...
From the inside to the outside, it is knowledgeable about the present, the world of life, elegant and interesting , all connected by one taste bud.
This book outlines a more splendid and vast food map in people's hearts, triggering a beautiful yearning from taste experience to spiritual realm. If you are satisfied with braised pork, what about steamed pork? After eating beggar’s chicken, what about curry chicken? After eating all over China on the tip of my tongue, the cheese fondue in the Alps is still calling. Mr. Zhang said: "While you are still able to eat, go through everything you can eat, cook, read, listen to and love."
Yes, Heal loneliness with delicious food, and the world is waiting for you in a more beautiful place.
Content introduction I have seen too many bad things, but I feel that everything will be fine.
I have too many bad emotions, but I know how to deal with them.
Don’t talk when you can kiss, don’t quarrel when you can hug, don’t be in a daze when you can move, don’t refuse when you can reunite. Don’t treasure good things, and don’t wait until tomorrow to do what you can do today. From now on, try your best to do what you promise yourself, and try your best to reach where you promise to go. The world is too dangerous, time should be wasted on beautiful things.
Lu Sihao started writing articles at the age of 17. He always tries to record every beautiful thing around him with the most authentic words. He said: "As long as there is light in your heart, you don't have to be afraid of the night." This sincere book tells you in warm words, don't be afraid.
Comments after reading The first time I read Lu Sihao's book was his "You Have to Believe, There is No Tomorrow That Can't Come". At that time, I had just graduated from college, and my classmates and I were busy looking for jobs under the scorching sun. At first, I was confident that as long as I had a sincere and down-to-earth attitude, I would definitely find a job. However, in fact the results were not as good as expected.
Now, after reading the book "May Someone Accompany You in Wandering" written by the author, my inner belief in life and love has become more confirmed. This is my fourth year of being single, but I have never wasted my life or complained about the ups and downs in a person's life. Instead, I have worked hard to live a bright life alone, ready to go, in order to wait for that pleasing person. After the emergence of capital, capital will flow together and the water will flow steadily.
Yes, in fact, when we can still love and have time, we will all meet the person who is worthy of our wandering. It is also like this sentence written in the table of contents of this book: Everyone is working hard to live in his own way.
Content introduction Li Ruiqing has been writing since he was 13 years old. He always tries to use the most authentic words to record every good thing that happens in his life.
He said: "Everyone has the same characteristics when doing what they like: bright eyes, full of passion, as if their whole body is shining."
This book uses warm and uplifting words to sincerely tell every confused and lonely you not to be afraid. We have all been confused and we have been hesitant, but we still insist on our dreams and insist on not giving up the light in our hearts even when we are the loneliest. Youth, loneliness, persistence, madness...you will understand it after experiencing the pain of years of experience.
The so-called growth means that we become more and more real, more and more able to accept our own existence, better able to get along with our lonely, lost, and frustrated selves, and not afraid of the dark night. , can fill the heart with starlight.
Only by working hard can we have more choices. Only by working hard will the future be full of possibilities. Only by working hard can you find the stars to accompany you when you are lonely.
Comment after reading: In his ignorant youth, he was sent to the United States to live independently at the age of 15. He has been influenced by Chinese and American campus culture and has a unique understanding. Fortunately for us, he chose to vividly share these experiences with more people using humorous language. This book is not only a youth novel, but more like a cultural novel, a travel novel, an essay novel... …
The exquisite packaging and exquisite illustrations can easily make people misunderstand that this is a flashy novel, but when you start reading the first chapter, you will be attracted by his humorous language. Funny language fragments are hidden in the article, which is funny but not frivolous. After reading it, it is still in my mind.
In addition, the author thinks about some comments about the United States that he has heard in China from a Chinese perspective, and then refutes the rumors based on his own experience. For example; "Are all American teachers serious and conscientious?" "What is the state of American students before exams?" "What kind of performance do American students usually have in class?" "Do American teachers accept gifts?"... These are questions about American campus culture. The questions must be answered in the minds of those of us who yearn for life in the United States but are currently unable to realize our wishes. And the author also fulfilled our wishes. We saw American academics who played games in class to get high scores in exams, so-called poor students who disdained scores, and lazy and naughty teachers...
Introduction On the earth in 2045, there is an island that is swept away by storms and huge waves-Disappointment Island.
Tang Qingyuan, a Chinese doctor of biology, met the melancholic and lonely mysterious scientist Sean Ward on an isolated island. While working together to study the blue-eyed albatross, Tang Qingyuan unexpectedly discovered that there was something hidden behind this mysterious scientist. A huge secret, he actually exists in a very special way...
At the wedding of the only pair of blue-eyed albatross in the world, even in the face of a fifty-degree hurricane, their faces remained unchanged. Tang Qingyuan, but when he saw Sean's dark green pupils, he felt the gentlest call from deep in his heart.
Facing the violent hurricane of Disappointment Island, two lonely souls fell in love on the most primitive island in the world.
They are all aliens in this world -
Doomed to be alone. ——Fortunately, they found each other.
Comments after reading I am a bit at a loss as to where to start. Because this book has brought me so many experiences. I just record every bit of what I learned from the book based on my heart.
Sean said this to Tang: "Every half hour on the earth, a species becomes extinct. Every time a species becomes extinct, human beings are one step closer to loneliness." It is true that human beings are the most vulnerable species in nature. The most intelligent and spiritual creature. But similarly, humans are also the main culprit in destroying the ecological environment.
They wantonly plunder the lives of other aliens without any uneasiness or condemnation of conscience.
Human beings will destroy other lives for the sake of temporary appetite, hunt rare animals for their own benefit to obtain their furs and sell them for money, and abuse them in order to vent their emotions. Pet dog or pet cat...
That's it.
And this book is a good warning to us - nature needs us to care for it rather than conquer it. We should learn to live in equality, harmony and goodwill with other creatures. Otherwise, many years from now, humans will be the only living creatures in the world. At that time, loneliness can swallow them up, and they will truly understand the horror of loneliness.
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