Is this love stuff really only for fate?

I understand that fate is also for those who are prepared. People and people's destiny, really deep, can be sustained for a lifetime, any wind and dust rise and fall, love does not change; people and people's destiny is really shallow, at first sight joy, stunning the years, gentle time, a gentle turn, will become an eternal stranger. Fate, all things are destined, half of it is not human. Doomed fate, is the fate of the mystery, is the will of heaven, just like the winter snow, summer flowers, just like the results of the fall, spring buds, who can not change, destined to accept the cycle.