Dear you must be healthy! In the 80s and 90s, when you have nothing else to ask for, a healthy body should be the most important thing.
For one thing, you can live a dignified life and have a high quality of life; for another, you will not drag your children and grandchildren down, so that they will have less worries. If you can take care of yourself, you can still live in style, although you can not gallop to enjoy the prosperity of the world, but you can enjoy your children and grandchildren.
At that time, you also counted on living enough children, the majority of which have had, should not experience you also experienced nearly a life. For the life and death, happiness and sadness, the life of the ups and downs, there should be bear to bear, have tolerance.
Not to things like, not to their own sadness, when to develop a calm heart, light joy shallow sadness, will be a stable you, optimistic and open-minded, the years do not hurt.
I know you can withstand the cold and lonely, many years of housewife life, has long been practiced your relatively strong heart, know how to enjoy the solitude, but then you can not be a house old lady, you have to go out, there is a set of old friends to get along with comfortable, can take care of each other. Every parent is not willing to become a child's burden drag children, some things some words can talk to the old sisters, you must also be a warm old lady, on call, do an old happy fruit, you can sow the sunshine around.
You can go together to dance steady square dance, to play strong fitness tai chi, to do through the meridians of the beat exercise. If the body allows, you can also participate in a senior fashion modeling team ah, eighty years old you, must be the modeling team to show off the capital! If you can still stand like a pine and walk like a breeze, you say who is older than us! That's a big sister! You can still take your camera and continue to capture the beauty of life everywhere, as long as you can crouch down, stand tall enough, and your eyes don't get blurry, I think you have forty years of experience as a photographer, so you should be able to shoot at a pretty high level, right? Haha! In short, but where the body allows, you must be a pursuit of fashion, not willing to out of the old lady, your children and grandchildren when you are proud of you!
If your body is not so strong, but at least you can take care of yourself, at home you can take care of the flowers and plants, you can also give the children cooking, as a loyal doorkeeper, responsible for them to receive delivery. In short, to be a useful person, do not give the children trouble.
If you happen to be not healthy enough, or even in sickness, then be strong, be brave, look on the bright side, and deal honestly with the present and the future.
Look how afraid I am of getting sick, and take care of your body now for the sake of your eighty year old self! There's nothing more important than that, to love yourself is to love others, especially at your age.
By the way, you should have an autobiography by then. People in this life is the need to record, regardless of outstanding or mediocre, they have to give themselves an account, write and learn things, live to the old stick to the old, the idea is not old to keep up with the times, which has nothing to do with age, not old is necessarily muddled, eat a day of food to earn a day, you can become a half of the living dictionary, you can be bummed out but seek to gasp for air, but life is just this time, you will not give up the chase.
At the age of eighty, you are happy and satisfied with your grandchildren and the four generations. Having said that, I am reminded of a saying that a man's old age does not depend on himself, a large part of it depends on his children.
So ah, when you are young, you have to cultivate your children, they are successful, you will be old and unattached, you will be able to support the old, and have a happier life in old age, so young moms and dads, to cheer up oh.