Some people say that all love cannot be limited by age. And love itself is freedom.
For love, most people think that it belongs only to young people. For the elderly, this is unnecessary.
Can it be said that the elderly have no right to pursue "love"?
In fact, people of all ages have the right to pursue love. Because of love, it pays attention to love, not rigid reality.
In this regard, we can find that although some people are old, they are getting farther and farther on the road of "pursuing love".
Are these people who pursue "love" mostly men or women?
In the eyes of most people, it is definitely male. Because older women still pursue love, they will be called immoral.
This view is still a bit rigid after all.
Because under certain conditions, older women are more open-minded and will boldly pursue their own love.
Especially some lonely women, they will not only pursue men, but also prefer young and strong men.
The so-called "old cows eat young grass". This behavior of eating young grass is not only for men, but also for women.
For this question, let's listen to what the following lady has to say.
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Aunt Wang is 65 years old and her wife has left her for five years.
In the five years since she lost her wife, she actually didn't live with her children, but lived alone in the old house and lived a lonely life.
Why doesn't she live with the children? Because aunt Wang's children are all renting houses outside and their children are married, it is not appropriate to live together.
Therefore, her life is lonely and no one follows.
In order to relieve her depression, she often goes to the park near the village to dance square dance with others.
When I first danced square dance, Aunt Wang found that she not only liked this lifestyle, but also liked the coach who taught her to dance.
Coach, 55 years old, still unmarried. Nobody knows why.
As for Aunt Wang, she especially likes the gentleness of the coach and the feeling of dancing with him.
Slowly, in the long run, the two sides get along well, and even a few times, she lives with the coach.
Because everyone in the park belongs to the village, the story about Aunt Wang spread quickly.
Moreover, it also reached the ears of Aunt Wang's son.
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When Aunt Wang's son heard this, he was actually surprised and had a sense of inexplicable complexity.
Surprisingly, he didn't know how his mother fell in love with each other. How can the other party have a crush on a woman 10 years older than himself?
The complexity is that this man, who came to his mother's side, has what purpose and how much criticism he will receive.
In addition, he also believes that if a man can take good care of his mother, I believe it is a good choice.
With this complicated mind, he returned to his old house on a weekend and wanted to talk about it with his mother in detail.
When he returned to the old house, he found the man cooking at home and his mother washing vegetables. They seem to get along well.
In order not to disturb them, the son came into the house after the man left.
He asked his mother, "Mom, I heard that you have been close to a man recently. Is that so? "
Aunt Wang was surprised and said, "It must be those gossips. I'm not afraid to admit it. I have been single for many years and want to find a partner. "
After listening, the son said, "Mom, I don't object to your finding a wife, but it depends on the purpose of this person, or you won't know if you are cheated."
Aunt Wang, as a mother, was actually very happy when she heard this, because she knew that the child had agreed to her behavior.
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Here's a problem. Why does 65-year-old aunt Wang like 55-year-old boys?
For many people, this is incredible. Do older women like younger men, too?
Actually, that's for sure
It has been said that everyone has the heart of "the old cow eats the young grass", but most people will not show it directly.
Especially the elderly who have been widowed for many years, they not only feel lonely, but also have the desire to hope that others will "love" him again.
Just like Aunt Wang mentioned above, her wife has been dead for many years. No matter how she lives, a person's life is lonely after all.
Therefore, it is normal for her to find a wife or fall in love with a young man.
This "normality" stems from physical and psychological needs.
No matter how old a person is, appropriate physiological needs are necessary.
No matter what kind of situation people are in, they need certain psychological satisfaction.
When these two needs are missing, the idea of finding new love will arise.
And this idea is the main source of their preference for young and strong men.
Text/There are deer in Shushan