Sometimes I ask myself, for middle-aged men in an awkward age, want to re-enter the profession, the next can still see the light of day? I went through this year's ordeal, always feel that I still can not find themselves next to go what kind of road, how to formulate future goals, and what to do, if still young, it is estimated that you can also use the youth to get more want to gain, but as today into the middle-aged themselves, feel that many aspects are not able to do. In the eyes of others, perhaps the middle-aged man at a crossroads, it is easy to produce confusion, lose the original fighting spirit and struggle, resting on the status quo, some of their own pressure are abandoned in the back of the head.
The impact of the epidemic by the author this year in the old home to stay too long, I feel that I suddenly changed, in their own deepest part of the once wanted to achieve some of the goals into the inner pressure. Not their own do not want, but feel that they have lost the original power, while the body also feel some strain, not the life is so important, but if once a serious problem. Will bring the family heavier burden, sometimes not I do not want to work hard, but efforts also have to look at how to carry out, aimless to bump and bang, not our age dare to bet, if there is no clear idea, only think of a step by step work, will only be forced to their own way to a desperate situation.
Many of my friends say that people are valuable in not giving up, not giving up, many entrepreneurs in China are in their 40s before the real success of entrepreneurship. Entrepreneurship for every man is estimated to be a lifetime would like to have a career, but for the ordinary people to boring wood that you lose the opportunity to have the opportunity and chance. There is no certain internal motivation to support, is very difficult to break through the bottleneck of the self, closed themselves up, can not get out of the self-imposed circle. Society is a big wave of the process, either you have a shrewd mind and forward-thinking ants before or Wei, using very little capital to pry you start career. But living in today's competitive society, there is no higher education, there is no strong technology and skills, really want to become an entrepreneur on the road, it is not easy. I remember the author once wrote an article wrote, men if you lose two things you go to do the work is a waste of time? Can not learn technology, make money not money? But for a middle-aged man in his 40s, choosing a career is a new challenge, low wages and it is difficult to maintain to the family's normal expenses, high wages and others will set some high conditions of the threshold, so the middle-aged man to change careers is so difficult.
Sometimes I think, at the moment the most money in some industries will naturally accompany the high risk, for example: construction, minerals, high altitude, electricity, heavy industry, decoration, these for middle-aged men may be the usual people like to talk about a sentence is that, with the physical strength to get a high income, but not all of them can afford to eat, if you originally have a problem with the body, even if you see a pile of money in front of you! If you have physical problems, even if you see a pile of money in front of you, you may not be able to get it easily. Each industry has his disadvantages, must be combined with their own specific circumstances to choose, want to earn more money, it is estimated that all men under the sky dream of the wish, for themselves, for their children to do their part. I believe that all parents with children will have such an idea, which is also as the fathers have been continued down the glorious tradition.
In fact, a person living in the world is so difficult, remember a few days ago to see a deliveryman in Chengdu, a car accident, his body was crushed by the car, such a scene and reflect what, people live is really not easy. In order to make more money, more to give their families some happiness, they fly in the traffic all day long. Have they not thought of this also has the danger, delivery error time will be met with fines or complaints, who will really understand what you do during this period. This society is living in a world where money is the measure of happiness, and it is difficult to get by without it, so it is important to have money as a basis for eating, dressing, and studying.
The reason why the rich people in this society sit around all day and do nothing is that they have money in their pockets, and the reason is that other people are born in good environments and locations. What family land was expropriated by the state, housing demolition, in the country's development zones, do what is better than the conditions of the backward place thousands of times. I remember a fan of the author's friends in Guangdong, every day only to see them early in the morning to eat morning tea, after eating on the card game, and at noon in the hotel dinner, afternoon walks and singing, square dancing, people's homes on the property on a few buildings, the monthly rent on more than 10,000 yuan. Not to mention the high amount of savings at home, people spend tens of thousands of dollars on a year-round medical checkup. As an ordinary family in the Mainland, some in the poor conditions of the province, all day long, busy all day long, may not be able to earn 10,000 dollars a year down.
So, we can't really compare people, and people's destinies are different. Being in a poor and remote place, you are destined to have to rely on your own hard work, either by leaving your wife and children or your parents, and going far away to go to repentance orange to work to change their status quo. It is hard to earn some money, trying to do everything possible to buy a house in the city, so as to change the future of the children's path, so that they will not suffer the same situation. This may be the pressure faced by many men who have started a family, especially those middle-aged men, but also a lot of pressure. I don't know if you have the same idea on the other side of the screen, but you can tell us what you think.
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