Hubby was arranged by his mother to meet on a blind date, before my favorite blind date were all rejected by her, but this looks unimpressive, not tall, thrown into the pile of people can not find the man she was so satisfied, I do not understand what her reason is.
At that time, I meant that I did not like, no eye, no spark in the eyes of the two, I do not have the idea to go through life with him. But my mom opened her mouth and said: "Find a man to find such a, those fancy things simply do not need. The man looks ordinary and reliable, other women will not hit the idea, you can go through life smoothly and steadily. Believe mom, mom is for your own good." I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it," he said.
Marrying other aspects are very normal, just, finally, my mother asked for 200,000 bride price, in-laws did not say, gave. The dowry honestly, my mother's family is still a bit too much, just give me the most basic some dishes, quilt these things. A little more valuable furniture, money, and what a no, finally, I counted myself, all these things, the cost adds up to less than a thousand dollars.
In this case, I looked at the items in front of me, think of the mother to get his family to give the bride price when the eyes inside the light of the kind of ecstasy, I understand, why my mother is so interested in my husband, may be because of this reason.
His family is very good, not long after the wedding, my husband let me quit home. He means that their family does not need a new daughter-in-law to show her face, the family does not lack the money. I just need to stay at home to cook and clean up the house.
Originally, I was reluctant to do so, but after my mother heard about it, she scolded me on the phone, saying that other women would like to marry a rich man, so that they don't need to earn money to support their families, and only need to live as a rich wife to enjoy the happiness, and that I am the only one who is still pretentious, and said that she had somehow given birth to such a stupid daughter without a brain.
My mother-in-law forced me to do it, and my mother's family scolded me, so I came back. Since then, the housework is all about me, every day my husband came back from work, I have to be responsible for the tea and water, the mother-in-law did not do anything, playing cards and dancing back I have to serve the same.
If the dinner time is late, the food is not appetizing, etc., as long as there is any problem found, the family united against me, saying that I myself will not make money, do something like this are not doing well, never seen a woman like me so stupid. It turns out that until this point I realized that my IQ is really low, where I go, my family scolded the most is that I am stupid, they are rare to reach a unity.
Then, I really live into not worry about livelihood broad wife? I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it. You've seen a woman who is as tired as a mom all day long! All day around the stove around, but also can not get half a good word not to mention, the husband's salary are his own management, in addition to a little bit of the most basic food expenses, his money will not fall into my hands.
Want to buy some clothes, cosmetics, with a little money I saved before marriage, but also have to listen to his gossip. Said now I dress up is what I want to do, are already married. I can't stand this kind of life between, also went to look for a job, but every time people haven't stayed for two days, my mother-in-law will find to my unit, said I have a husband to support, don't worry about food and clothing, but also has to come out to work, that is, not to be in the room, not with good intentions, do not intend to live peacefully in her family, the words scolded quite unpleasant.
She was so unreasonable and shameless, and the employer felt that my presence brought them unnecessary trouble, so I was politely persuaded to leave.
I have no choice but to go home again to be a housewife, this pair of mother and son again began to say that I married hundreds of thousands of dollars spent, a little thing can not do not say, but also want to run outside.
Really how are they justified, truth and justice are always accompanied by two people around. A pair of heart like steel, nagging just like a monk, the truth will be firmly in the hands of the mother and son, become my married life in the nightmare, only one year of marriage, I have been completely disappointed in this family, this marriage.
I think they are a pair of people who actually have no confidence in themselves at all, and because of this, they want to circle me in their controllable snobbery, forcing me to look up to others and watch their faces, in order to get a kind of pride from which they can get sick satisfaction.
In addition, in their view, I am just a piece of merchandise sold as a commodity by the profit-oriented mother's family, so they can play me in the palm of their hand. I see through these I do not in a will, will really live their whole life as his family free servant, I strike.
"Daughter-in-law, why don't you serve me tea? The other day my mother-in-law was overbearing and asked questions." "Mother-in-law, I am not a free babysitter."
I answered her calmly. Once again, I secretly got a job, and I vowed that this time I would find a life that was truly my own, even if it meant getting a divorce and going back to having nothing, I had hated the life of being treated like a puppet on strings, like a puppet.