The "Baby Parenting Guide" says: If you want your baby to have super expressive abilities, parents must express what they see with their eyes to him. Tong's mother has always dreamed of training Tong Bao to be a speaker, so she mobilized the whole family to regularly "bomb" Tong Bao's classmates with language. Talking about that day's trip, Tong's mother kept talking along the way: "Baby, those rolling hills are the mountains, the fruit-bearing ones on the mountains are the jujube trees, and the one falling from the jujube trees is your dad..." From Dad Tong, who had fallen from the jujube tree, was not to be outdone: "Baby, the rippling blue waves are the lake, the swarming fish in the water are the swimming fish, and the one who has been unable to catch fish by the lake is your grandpa..."
Key points of language training
Through Tong’s mother’s unremitting efforts, Tong Bao’s language expression ability is increasing day by day. At the age of 4, he can not only sing songs and tell stories, but sometimes he can also make poems smoothly. After two lines of "doggerel", everyone who met him said that he would be a "host" in the future. Next, Tong Ma will talk to you about her experience in cultivating "hosts" -
Point 1: You talk and he listens
Learning any language starts with "listening and listening" , so if you want your baby to speak "early", the mother must speak "frequently". When Tongbao couldn't speak, Tong's mother began to "chat" with him. For example, if Tongbao cried loudly, Tong's mother would ask: "Is Tongbao hungry? Don't worry, we are breastfeeding!" Mothers should try their best to convey everything in life to their babies through language. They should speak the key words slowly and clearly, and repeat them as many times as possible. Special attention should be paid to the fact that mothers must use standardized language when "talking" to their babies, and avoid "childish spoken language". For example, do not say "eat" as "eat rice", "socks" as "socks and socks", etc. wait.
Point 2: He said you should learn
Babies under 1 year old have a period of babbling. When they are in a happy mood, they will continue to make "babbling" sounds. At this time, the mother can imitate and echo him, so that the baby is encouraged and willing to make more sounds. Of course, this "game" between mother and baby can continue, but it is no longer a simple "imitation". When babies learn to speak, mothers can use the method of "organizing the baby's words and repeating them again" to correct their logical errors or unclear speech problems.
Point 3: You tell him to learn
Imitation is an indispensable step in learning a language. When Tong Ma teaches Tong Bao to speak, she will adopt a face-to-face posture with him, use exaggerated mouth shapes to attract his attention, slow down her speaking speed, and repeat it many times.
Point 4: Read and talk
Singing children's songs, reading nursery rhymes, and telling stories are all good ways to increase your baby's vocabulary. In addition, mothers can deliberately add some adjectives when talking to their babies. Mothers can also teach their babies to recite some ancient Chinese poems, which will help them understand the rhythm and rhythm of the language.
Point 5: Listen patiently
Mothers should encourage their babies to talk more. When they talk, they should show interest in listening and be patient. Do not interrupt or rush them. , let alone laugh at the mistakes in his words.
Expert tips
Magic weapon 1: Master the baby’s language development rules
Generally speaking, a 70-year-old baby can master 50 to 250 words by the time he is 2 years old. words and be able to combine them into simple two- or three-word sentences. Only babies between 10 and 15 years old will show "speech delay", that is, they will not be able to speak 10 single words at 18 to 20 months, less than 50 words at 21 to 30 months old, and will not be able to use two-letter phrases. . But even so, mothers don’t have to be too anxious. Your baby can always catch up with other children before the age of 5, but you should pay attention to communicating with your pediatrician.
Magic weapon two: Correct the baby's physiological stuttering
Many babies will develop "physiological stuttering" when they are two or three years old. You will find babies who are already able to communicate and have daily conversations. Mothers do not need to worry if they suddenly start to stutter. You should know that this is a normal phenomenon in the development of babies. Next time your baby is eager to express himself, you can squat down, hold his hand, and tell him: "Don't be anxious, speak slowly."