San Mao said, if the heart has no place to stay, it is wandering everywhere.
There is no support in the heart, the soul has no place to rest, the heart is always empty, do what feel meaningless, is no hope to live, so a person's heart always have to be a little bit of support, this little bit of support is the driving force to live, to live the power.
Everyone's spiritual support is different, some people rely on their loved ones, as long as there are loved ones in the heart, there is hope, there is the power to struggle; some people rely on their loved ones, hoping to get love and companionship from their loved ones; there are also people rely on their own work or career, that the value of life lies in the hard work, to create a career, so that they can be achieved, such as Yang Liping, her career is to create a career, so that they have some achievements. For example, Yang Liping, the object of her trust is her dance career, in order to this cause, poured all her time and energy, but also gave up a lot of things.
No matter what kind of spiritual support, as long as there is, can still live, but if a person does not have spiritual support, or had the spiritual support suddenly disappeared, it will also feel the heart was suddenly hollowed out like, can not find the meaning of life.
For example, the sudden death of a loved one, the sudden departure of a loved one, or a career that has gone downhill without a chance to turn around, etc. Once you lose your spiritual support and lose your heart, you will feel that your whole world has changed, and you will feel that you have lost your hope.
"Parental love" in the Jiang Defu and Anjie love a lifetime, each other is the other's soul support, in their old age, Anjie went to dance, Jiang Defu also want to follow, and then Anjie was sick, in a coma during the Jiang Defu all day and night with the side, can not eat, can not sleep, he was very afraid of Anjie first step away from him, but fortunately Anjie still woke up, the end or very! The end is still very beautiful.
It can be imagined that if Anjie didn't wake up in the end, Jiang Defu might also find it hard to live, to live without hope, to live every day without knowing the meaning of life.
Anonymous says that the mind is not where it lives, but where it loves.
The most important person in your life is still there, and there is a sense of security in your heart. If the most important person in your life suddenly leaves you, it's as if you've lost the whole world, and you can't find a place for your heart to live again.
Like Xiao Yaxuan, after her mother passed away, she seems to have lost her spiritual support, despite the past many years, but also always feel insecure, in front of the lovers mentioned her mother will be sad to tears, envy lovers have a mother to love, the family is beautiful.
Most people's spiritual pillars are their relatives, loved ones or children, no matter which one is lost, the heart will be very sad, and some people may need a few years or ten years of time to get over it.