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When I watched the Legend of Zhen Huan, as soon as Anling Rong appeared, I knew that she and Zhen Huan could not be good sisters.
Why? You see her flickering eyes and trembling posture, and Zhen Huan's bright atmosphere is not extremely disproportionate? Their temperament talk, in fact, has already shown their respective character, and character, has long been in the fate of the destiny
Initially, the friendship, with accompanying and pleasing to the meaning, not really sisterly love.
In one episode, Zhen Huan's proximity to Chun Guiren stimulated Anling Rong to say;
This sentence is the truth, not only marriage, in fact, to do girlfriends, but also pay attention to the 'door to door'.
When I was in high school, there was a girl in my class from a remote mountain village, Yun, who was at the same table with the director of commerce and industry's daughter, Xue. The first time I saw her, I was so happy to see her, and she was so happy to see me, and I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her, and I was so happy to see her.
The two are naturally inseparable, going to the bathroom hand in hand together. The first time I saw this, I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face, and I was able to see her face. But slowly, we found that Ah Yun stayed in the dormitory more and more time, to Xiao Xue's goodwill began to ignore. Of course, there is no palace drama in the death of the drama, but it is slowly faded estrangement, and finally do back to the ordinary classmates, into a nodding acquaintance, that's all.
After the party after the exams, mentioned three years of wind and rain heartache, we have some drunkenness. Some people talk about the first year of high school two people close to each other, Ah Yun just shallow smile, whispered a sentence; 'we are not a world of people ah.'
The first condition of being a bosom friend is to be able to understand each other. Only in this way, the two women who are secretly thinking of each other can walk hand in hand in a long time, which is not easier than a man and a woman to keep each other's life.
However, you talk about your childhood Disney and Hermes, I can only say that my picking mushrooms on the mountain. We have different horizons, different concepts, at first sight of the pleasure of the past, the rest is not the unity of opinion is not the same pace, and gradually the words do not talk more than half a sentence, friendship is not step by step on the road to death, is not it?
"Once we went shopping together, she into the boutique I can not afford, the whole day, she is constantly trying clothes, I feel like a princess around the clown."
You see, the girl's friendship, in fact, also mixed with a lot of comparisons and careful, disparity is too much material conditions, produce true love is not easy. The first thing you need to do is to look around and see if the girls you are playing with have a similar background to the ones you are playing with.
The reasoning behind the material base determining the superstructure is universally valid.
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Before I was 15, my best friend was called Qingqing. The name was simple and the person was plain.
Elementary school to junior high school, we are classmates, *** with the earliest experience of growth. 15 years old after I continue to go to school, do not want to study her in the introduction of the relatives, went to the provincial city of a family to do a small nanny.
The first winter vacation in high school, I heard that Qingqing went home, I rushed to go. She permed her hair, wearing a blingbling shiny skirt, I was a little dumbfounded, she smiled sweetly and asked me if it was good.
I just had to nod, sat down and excitedly said this half a year of school life. But she was not excited, yelling at people who came to the house to play mahjong. The sound of rubbing mahjong crackling up, mixed with their lively talk and laughter. I sat alone in the corner, suddenly felt very lonely, got up and went home, she did not notice.
Finally, it is slowly walking away. Instead of saying that time has smoothed out the feelings, it would be better to say that a long time to make us more and more different, from the dress to the value of the concept, and can no longer find the same point of ****.
The first year I went to college, Qingqing followed the just together with the boyfriend to Guangzhou, into an electronics factory as an assembly line worker. 20 years old went home to set up a wedding banquet, with the hard-earned money to build a two-story building, but also disk down the town of a small store ready to do business. We meet less and less, occasionally in the QQ chat, but also always in three or two sentences after no topic.
Her bridesmaids are working together to recognize the little sister, a few people laugh and laugh, stepped on a ground of firecrackers red debris. I put the red envelope into the happy plate, in addition to a congratulations, as if it can not say other words. Maybe we don't remember, or a little girl, had looked at the TV white wedding dress, promised to do each other's bridesmaids.
Now, Qingqing has become an occasional friend in my circle of friends. She sunshine baby, foul-mouthed scolding husband cursed extreme customers, I write my little article, ultimately living into two parallel lines.
We all have new girlfriends again, still can sleep in the same nest listening to the sound of rain chat all night. If growing up is a non-stop meeting and parting, the girlfriends may also be a long time to lose and gain.
After all, we are all growing and changing, the three views are changing, thinking is changing. Who can guarantee that after a few decades and you with the square dance, or today with shopping and drinking tea that?
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In love, what attracts us may be someone completely different from ourselves. But when it comes to making friends, most people choose people who are similar to them.
Back then, the thing that attracted Dani to Xiaoya was the very thing in her that was similar to her own toughness and unyielding. They walked hand in hand through the best four years of their lives, and saw the reflection of growth in each other's eyes.
Just after graduation to a different city, the beginning of a daily phone call to chat, gradually the frequency of contact into three or two days a time, once a week, once a month ......
Xiaoya's focus seems to be slowly changing, the two occasionally chat, she brought up the most how to take advantage of the youthful young She was also concerned about her own health and well-being, and the fact that she had a lot of money. Dani, on the other hand, is concerned about her unfinished plans and programs, pondering the details of the event, and is quite disdainful of Xiaoya's chatter.
Over time, there is always some hesitation when mentioning the phone, more often than not, simply ignore it. There is nothing wrong with anyone, but the feelings are just fading day by day.
You may not have thought that growing up sometimes means that we have to say goodbye at one fork in the road after another, and at first we may be able to smile at each other, but when we are drifting away from each other, each other's backs are nowhere to be found, we may still be friends, but no longer can be pushed to the heart of the girlfriends.
Because please into the life of the person as a loved one the day after tomorrow, in fact, is the same as the lover, need to be completely "door to door" ah, is not necessarily a material difference, but must be the spiritual world of the three outlooks are compatible. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
You're poor, I can provide food and shelter;
You're caught in the whirlpool of feelings, I can pull you out of the swamp;
You're not good at work, I can be your three arms;
The only gradual deviation from the heart, I have no intention to also difficult to salvage,......
That may be the reason why after leaving the campus, our life is constantly subtracted. Because after entering the society, experience grows, more and more believe in a saying: