Love can't be measured by matter, and there is no standard answer to love, no matter what kind of love it is. Love is not a transaction, and can't be measured by giving and returning. If love is a kind of giving and returning, it is not true love.
There is no room for care about love. Love should be pure and flawless. Love is selfish at the same time, because love will not be shared with others. Love is selfless at the same time, because love is unwilling to hurt each other, and love is holy. Such love is the greatest wealth in our life! It should also be what each of us pursues.
How to judge whether others love you or not;
1, the person who really loves you will not force you to deviate from the person you love.
Relatives are people you should trust. They should love you, especially their parents. Some people say that anyone can hurt you, but the only guarantee is your parents. If that person encourages you to turn your back on your parents or even turn against your enemies, such a person certainly doesn't really love you, but has ulterior motives.
People who really love you won't let you do anything treacherous.
People who really love you will think what you think and do what you do, but they will not stop you from doing treachery. A person who truly loves you must have principles, so when he treats you and handles your relationship, he will never let you betray your faith, let alone encourage you to do it.