The winter night is long, nearly 90 years of a pair of old people, how to spend this cold winter.
Grandma sighed and said, life is not easy when you are old.
The two details she mentioned made me feel the weight of the word "not easy".
Grandpa is more than 90 years old, bought him a lot of cotton pants and down pants, the day is so cold, but he did not wear a single one, but instead, he chose a small bed quilt cover on the legs. The reason for this is that it is not convenient to go to the toilet because you are wearing too much, and it is easy to get your pants dirty.
Listening to my mother-in-law's narration, my heart was flooded with a burst of acidity, my grandfather's respect for his life, the old party members, the old village head, the village young and old are very respectful of him, old age actually became so fragile.
He was also increasingly disappointed with himself, and always said, "I'm getting old, I'm not good at this anymore.
And Grandma, when she was young, she was a good housekeeper, a woman who could get the same amount of work as a man, and could make good food with limited ingredients. But it is such a small woman who refuses to give in, but also in the face of age defeat, has not been able to lift the spatula to fry properly - can not lift.
Aging is a natural law that no one can escape. The end of time, we will have an old man.
There is a joke, don't count too much, women why make it difficult for women, anyway, old age are going to dance together square dance.
The seventh national census data show that China's population aged 60 years and above reached 264 million. It is predicted that the "14th Five-Year" period, the national elderly population will exceed 300 million.
In recent years, along with the "living alone", "empty nest", "disability" and other words, the elderly group is public opinion focused on how to make the elderly live a more dignified life, How to make the elderly live a more dignified and better life is a topic worthy of our *** with the same concern, which concerns each of us, because we all have an old man.
The Internet has become an indispensable part of our lives as time rolls on.
5G, face recognition, artificial intelligence, all kinds of technology rapid iteration, but this digital age, for the elderly is not so friendly.
The convenience of "one-click direct access" allows young people to save time and effort, but allows older people to stumble around, making their lives, which were not so easy, even more difficult .......
"94-year-old old man to do bank card was held up to do face recognition", "the train, the old man bought a new cell phone will not use, looking for strangers to help, the results of the money inside the no", "the old man does not use the smartphone, can not scan the health code, by the duty driver and passengers out of the car", "moncler outlet online spend 6 hours to transcribe the train schedule" .......
This kind of news is heartbreaking to read.
Does not know how to use a smartphone, deserve to be eliminated by the times? Netizens gave their answer:
"Too smart and unfriendly."
"The old man walks slowly, I hope more care, we all have an old day."
"I hope it's cell phones that are eliminated, not the elderly."
The loss of the "silver-haired people" was finally seen, the state introduced relevant policies, companies began to provide more intelligent products and services for the elderly, the community opened a cell phone classroom, banks, stations, etc. opened a green channel for the elderly, the children began to go home to teach their elders cell phone knowledge ......
As long as there is love, the digital divide is no longer scary.
In some urban parks and squares, there are matchmaking corners, which are different from the usual matchmaking corners, and the elderly people who come here are not looking for their children to get married, but for themselves.
They are in different situations, but the goal is the same, to find a partner to live with, to reopen a relationship.
They write a notice in advance and post it on the bulletin board, or they sit in a corner with a piece of paper in front of them, waiting for the beginning of a relationship.
That's how Auntie Chou harvested her relationship. The man is eight years younger than her and is divorced. The first time I saw this was when I was a kid, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid in my life, and it was the first time I'd ever seen a kid in my life.
However, the relationship was not blessed by her children. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling, and I was able to get the ball rolling.
After getting along, Auntie Zhou was impressed by her boyfriend's thoughtfulness, and despite her children's objections, she moved to her boyfriend's place and lived with him, and used her savings to support her boyfriend's small business, and the two of them also received a license.
After the marriage, the male party's thoughtfulness is no longer, do small business failure, the two rely on Zhou aunt's pension life. Children and Zhou aunt broke the relationship, her husband did not imagine that will take care of people, Zhou aunt is very regrettable.
In contrast is another story. The name of the main character is not unfamiliar to many people. It is the cerebral palsy poet Yu Xiuhua, who became popular with a poem "through half of China to sleep with you".
Yu Xiuhua's life is a bit of a legend. Born as a disabled person due to lack of oxygen, she was filled with a passion to become a person who pursues her dreams. She spent most of her life fighting, fighting against physical inconvenience, fighting against unfair fate, fighting against a choppy life, and fighting against a loveless marriage.
The first thing she did when she got paid was to divorce her ex-husband and break free from a life she did not like.
At the age of 46, Yu Xiu-hua is not an old man, but she has spent most of her life.
With all the ups and downs and hardships, she still hasn't given up the pursuit of love. She said, "It is because there is no love, so it will be crazy to imagine love. I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it. Love poetry has been written as a result."
Finally, in the beginning of 2022, she found her own love, and 90 handsome guy came together because of love.
Some people questioned the mismatch between the two, yet others marveled at Yu's bravery.
Born to the sun, tends to light, love is her light, the pursuit of love what is wrong?
? Love the story of Grandma Moses, from her there is always a source of motivation: life is never too late to start.
Taiwan has a "family village", the village has a 92-year-old "Rainbow Grandpa", 86 years old to pick up the brush to start painting wall painting, at first because of the life of boredom, Grandpa only in the house graffiti, and then more and more fun, he began to paint outdoors, neighbors see him painting good. The neighbors saw him painting well, also promised him to paint on their own walls.
From then on, everywhere is the grandfather's canvas, from dawn to sunset, day after day, never stop, and then the whole village is left with the grandfather's work, the village into a fairy tale world, avoided the fate of demolition, but also became a net red hit point, attracting a large number of tourists.
Japan's 81-year-old grandmother when she was young, because of the family's poverty, dropped out of school early to work to subsidize the family. When she saw her peers going to school, she could only shed tears. The dream of "going to school" was buried in her heart.
After surviving the hardship, she was already in her 70s when her children grew up and started their own families. The dream came back to her, and she still wanted to go to school.
After three years of hard thinking, she finally made up her mind to fight for her dream, and like a child, she started all over again, learning English and computer ........ After nine years of stumbling and stumbling, she finally went to the school of her dreams and became a classmate with her grandchildren.
She wholeheartedly enjoys her own school life, drinking milk tea, watching movies and chatting with her young classmates, and is trusted and loved by everyone, and her classmates also like to consult her on relationship issues.
Life seems to be restarted, the time was stretched out of the distance, their "wow" days, is so shiny.
Always afraid of aging, thinking of the time when my hair will be gray, no more young face, only an old heart.
But there are always some people, with their stories to tell you, a full head of silver hair is not so terrible.
You still have love, dreams, love ...... These steaming things, accompanied by you through a long and bitter life.
Life closes a door and always leaves a light. Do not lose hope, courage and perseverance.
Only if you are close, the sun will shine in, may every old man, or will eventually be an old man, be treated gently.