What to say when someone is urged to get married during the Chinese New Year
1. Be anti-customer and disrupt the other person’s position
When asked about the marriage situation, first care about the other person’s situation, “Auntie "When will the eldest cousin get married?" "When will the second cousin give birth to a child?" "Uncle's salary has been promoted in a few years. How much has the salary increased?" "How is your square dance? "Little Apple" "Have you learned the dance steps of "?" The other person either poked a sore spot and lost interest in chatting, or he was immersed in his own personal life and forgot about your existence.
2. The bitter meat tactic
When it comes to marriage, make a sad gesture, like Xianglin's sister-in-law, describing the misfortune of the last relationship. It is best to add "I no longer believe in love." "My heart still hurts, what should I do?" "I'm not ready for the next relationship" and other lines. Elders will feel pity for you when they see you touch the scene, and they will stop the topic and bring it up later. .
3. There is no limit to the beauty trap and coquettishness (not applicable to boys yet)
Blinking watery eyes and looking at the other person’s face: “I hate it, she’s still young!” Do you dislike me and want to marry me off so soon! I want to stay with my parents for a few more years!"
4. Face the enemy head-on and be prepared
With a full face Answer confidently: "I'm also thinking about it, don't worry!" If you don't want to be nagging your parents to urge you to get married, it's best to put on a confident and confident look to make people think that you have found the right one. We have found a way out, everything goes well. But in order to prevent cheating when parents ask, you still need to make more preparations, such as forging the image and information of a non-existent boyfriend, and making everything up to be watertight.
What to do if you are urged to get married during the Chinese New Year
1. Don’t stay home and not return home
Many people will choose to stay home and not return home when faced with their parents’ urging to get married. , the phone call is perfunctory, and it saves listening to the nagging of parents. However, this is not a fundamental solution after all, and your parents also have good intentions. This approach may be effective, but it will hurt your parents' hearts.
2. Change the topic
Parents will often mention marriage and finding a partner to you during phone calls or chats. You can easily divert their attention by choosing a different topic. Seeing that you have changed the topic, they will also restrain themselves.
3. Tell them your own thoughts
If you are busy with your career, or you don’t really want to find a boyfriend/girlfriend, or you have other reasons, I I think you can tell them your thoughts directly and I believe they will understand you.
4. Make a plan for yourself and give them a guarantee
You can think about your plans based on your actual situation, and then tell them when you plan to find a partner. If your plan is reasonable and they won't force you, then you can easily avoid their urging to marry.
5. Give it a try
If you also want to find a boyfriend/girlfriend, you can also take this opportunity and let your parents provide you with a blind date. Maybe you can find someone you like in a blind date? If the blind date is not suitable, then it can be regarded as knowing a friend!
6. Use retreat to advance
You can also choose to accept the blind date arrangement from your parents and go see the blind date. If you don't like a few people in a row, it just gives you a reason to tell your parents that blind dates are not suitable for you and that you can find a partner on your own.