Qin Aunt / 69 years old I am 69 years old, I have reached the age of flower, I am a retired old man, now also retired for more than a decade, after retirement, in order to make themselves not to leave regrets, I often go to travel, either to go to the square dance, at that time, my children also often called me to help with the children, but I have refused, and it is not that I am heartless, but I've already paid a lot of, I don't want to give anymore, just want to do well. I don't want to give any more, I just want to spend my twilight years well, so that I won't feel that I have lived in this world for nothing. So even if they hate me because I don't help bring up the children, I won't be soft-hearted to help bring up the children, because after helping once, the children will want it again and again, and the last time will also cause them to become a nibbling family, so I'm so heartless, all in order to be able to let the children learn to be independent, and also to let them know that they have to do their own things. At that time, my old partner also often said I, said I am a cruel woman, but I do not ignore him, because all along, my old partner is not a good husband, in my eyes, he will always be a selfish man. No matter when he was young or now, he never did something to make me happy.
When I was young, I used to be the one earning money to support the family, and he would go gambling or drinking, never thinking about his own family, and often made me angry. At that time I wanted to divorce him, but the thought of marriage is not easy, I did not make a choice, but chose to continue to endure. This endure on endure for decades, and we both also retired, after retirement, I thought he would live with me well, the result is still the same, every day is not go out to drink with pig friends, is to go fishing, anyway, never with home. Originally to the old age is the need for companionship, but he has never accompanied me, his behavior I really disappointed. I don't want to care so much, anyway, I have my own favorite things to do every day, not boring at all, he loves to do what he wants, I don't care anymore.
Although he is not good, but I did not want to betray him, because I am a very traditional woman, never do that kind of thing, but I did not expect that in the end I still did betray him. Betrayal of his reason is because I dance square dance, met a very good man, he is always on my warmth, every time I get along with him together, I am very happy, may be the husband never gave this warmth me, so it will lead me to fall in love with other men, and later I also with this man together. After being together, I was immersed in an extramarital affair every day, at that time I thought that the disregard for the old partner will not find, the results did not expect, together are four years later, my scandal is still stabbed, and is a colleague of mine to tell my old partner, at that time I was furious, because a colleague of mine knew that I had an extramarital affair, when I used to work, he was not very good at it, and after learning that I betrayed my marriage, he Immediately told my old partner, my old partner learned, angry fire, and then don't tell this thing to my children.
After being known by the whole family, I was particularly afraid of the heart, but also feel very guilty, very embarrassed, but I still said the reason for my extramarital affair. After speaking out, my partner did not blame me at that time, but felt very guilty me, because he did not expect him to be so to me all these years, so he felt very sorry for me. My children also understand me very well, did not blame me, but also said that as long as I am willing to return to the family, they will treat this matter has not happened, and my partner also promised to put away the fun-loving heart, and properly accompany me through the New Year. Hear them say so, I was very happy, because we did not expect, they did not blame me, in order not to let them down, I immediately cut off the relationship with the lover, although I can not afford to lover, lover also can not afford to me, because the two of us are very much in love, but for the sake of my family, I have to cut off this extra-marital affair, after all, extra-marital affair is not a good thing, while there are not many people know me! hurry to return to the family, make up for my faults, so that my marriage will be ruined my reputation, but also to be able to save.
After breaking off relations with my lover, I often thought of him, but I did not ask him out, because I did not dare, and I do not want to continue to betray the marriage, every night can only secretly miss him, the feeling is very painful, but in order to their own home, and then the pain, I have to forget about the lover, and live a good life with their husbands. I returned to the family, my husband has changed a lot, my attitude is also very good, and no longer as lazy as before, or just know to play, and now he will not only take care of me, but also spoiled me like a princess, so that I live the life I want, to be honest, to see him after the change, I am very happy in my heart, and also vowed to no longer betray him in the future.
Conclusion After reading the above case, let us know, this aunt this aunt is very lucky, betrayed the marriage is also forgiven, do others, I guess not so lucky, absolutely will be divorced, either by retaliation, so I hope that everyone has to cherish their own marriage, do not betray the marriage, or else the fate of the end will be really bad.